and...your...point...is? That...you...can...put...ellipses...everywhere? You do know that a church and a person are different things, right? If not I can point you to dictionary.com so you can learn the difference between the two.
Fred Phelps knows that he shouldn't focus on hating gays? Because he and the Westboro Church continues to do so. So do Mormons, so do many different religious people. Religious anti-abortion protesters continue to protest abortions in Kansas after successfully killing a doctor last year. "Stop focusing on gays and abortions" is something that all religious conservatives need to hear.
My overall point is that I don't understand the infatuation with, and the foaming at the mouth over Francis' admission that, while the Catholic Church is still against SSM/Abortion, religion can have an opinion while taking a fly-on-the-wall type disposition toward these issues.
So he is essentially saying they [Catholics] should be nicer to gays while still opposing gay marriage and STAYING OUT OF STATE ISSUES with their religious legislating.
I recall this being the overall position of secuarists, decades before he become pope -- people are acting as if this is breaking news and some sort of new revelation endowed upon the masses.