By your standards, not allowing three hundred pound lardbutts to serve would make us fatty haters. The military is NOT an equal opportunity employer, nor should it be. I can't serve, for instance - I'm too old, even though there are obviously jobs I could perform perfectly well. Women aren't allowed to serve in combat roles, even those who otherwise pass all the requirement. The military is full of discrimination. But the difference between military service and other jobs is that lives are at stake. If cohesion and moral suffer in the military, people will die who would otherwise not die. Thus gays serving openly in the military have a much higher stake than, say, gays serving in the postal service, and those who oppose gays serving openly cannot simply be dismissed as homophobes.
Women have served in combat roles for quite some time. The military likes to pretend they don't, but let's be real. We have female combat pilots, and have for some time. There is no such thing as a "frontline" any more. As the old Marine going says "you are a rifleman first."
The arguments against gays serving in the military have all been heard before. We can't stop segregating units because it will disrupt unit moral. Guess what, it does, and then when its over with, the unit is stronger. There is little reason for DADT to remain in place. It costs us well trained troops at a time when we do not have the resources to lose them.
Of course this probably won't change any votes. The new plan is to just attack the study since the arguments merits fell flat on it's face.
