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<< So what do you do, kill them? How about giving them a reason not to hate? >>
I agree, remove the reason then you remove most of the problem. It is the only way out of this circle. 
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So, the 'reason' is Israeli occupation and lack of Palestinian statehood?
Well, what was Hitler's 'reason' for hating and killing Jews then?
And, did the Arab hatred and mistrust of Jews begin in the late 40's with the creation of Israel?
Was the Koran, which commands Muslims to kill Jews wherever they find them, written after the creation of Israel?
Hmmmm.....
I don't know what the answer to this problem is (if there even is one).
But I do know that those who think Israeli withdrawl and Palestinian statehood ends terrorism against Israel are fools.
I think maybe Israel should indeed do these things. Then after the formation of the state of Palestine the first suicide bomber connected
to any of Arafat's orginizations should be considered an act of war and responded to as such.