Originally posted by: melly
Originally posted by: brxndxn
Lately, she's been upset about it and refers to them as 'fvcking awesome people'.
Black people refer to other black people who are lowly/scum/good-for-nothing as N's.
Originally posted by: brxndxn
How the fvck does one deal with this and is there anything I can do to make her feel better or be more prepared to deal with it? Does every black girl have to deal with this?
Guys will continue to be guys and hit on her. You can't really prevent someone from doing it.
As a mixed girl I can honestly say that my experience has been that some black guys like a tanned complexion (be it from being mixed; Latina; etc.) . They think it's just sexy looking. There are many shades of black and the lightest tones tend to get more attention. At the same time, we are also more discriminated against because the darker black folk think we are more towards 'the white man'.