Yet you love your girlfriend and she loves you, despite the differences...remember that she is giving up everything to be with you, while you only give up ....
Well, considering I moved from CA to FL to be with her at the age of 19, pretty much everything I had. I gave up all of my family, friends and anything that could not fit into my car.
Also, what is she giving up to be with me in terms of religion? I do not tell her not to go to church. I do not tell her not to believe in god. I do not tell her not to do anything in terms of her beliefs. I question them, but I question anything I do not understand, religion or otherwise.
Since your girlfriend is Catholic, I'll stick with that and say that they have zero issues with science. Some incredibly great scientists were Catholic Priests and monks. They are also aware that science cannot be used to prove everything.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Roman_Catholic_cleric-scientists
and
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Catholic_scientists
And yet the Catholic church seems to have a bad history with scientists.
Condemnation of 1210-1277
Michael Servetus Put to death by the catholic church
Giordano Bruno Put to death by the catholic church
They made it pretty clear that science was only to further their desires, and not for knowledge. Ill give you that the modern catholic church is nowhere near what it was, but lets not ignore the things it has done and pretend it was for science. It was not.
As for choosing one thing over the other...There are dozens of ways to get to my favorite coffee bar in the city, all of which will get me there in an acceptable manner and time. Which is wrong? Is one route invalidated by my choice of another?
If you choose one path over another, you did not choose other paths over the one you choose. In your coffee situation, no choice is wrong or right in a sense. Your decision on what path is not a claim about reality. If you took path 1 over path 2, and I said you took path 2 I am factually wrong. If you say god created the world in 6 days, and another religion says it was drops of water falling from a sword on a turtles back, both cannot be right. So, if you choose one myth over another, you have to then believe the others are incorrect if yours is mutually exclusive. The world could not have been created on the back of a turtle and by the Christian god as the stories are mutually exclusive.
Similarly, if you send a hand-written letter to your girlfriend telling her how wonderful she is and how much she means to you, then her best girlfriend tells her the same thing, then takes her out for drinks, do you think she ignores your thoughtful and heart-felt letter? Does one negate the other?
Why would my love be mutually exclusive to another person loving her?
I am not qualified to judge, and I'd wager neither would you be qualified to tell me if my path to the coffee bar was THE right way. I also assume that only your girlfriend would truly know how she felt about you or her best girlfrinds gift to her.
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If you took a path that got you to the coffee you wanted, then it is a way. If you take a path to a coffee shop that does not get you to the shop, its the wrong way.
But, your analogy about all paths leading to the same shop aka god is flawed. Science is not saying there is or is not a god. What the scientific method would lead you to is that there is not evidence for a god and thus belief is unnecessary. Science can look at things that are falsifiable but god is not falsifiable. Your analogy works off the presupposition that there is a shop to get to.
I don't know about you, but if I am going to take a trip which is a sacrifice to a destination, I would want to know that destination is actually there. If you admit there is not evidence for the destination, then why take the trip and sacrifice?