As Corkyg suggested, you won't find anything decent below roughly $350; that kind of stinks b/c $350 is real laptop territory. The manufs know these things are selling like hotcakes. I don't see the price dropping anytime soon.
You can find a new netbooks for roughly $280-ish, but they have the bottom baseline config. Small HD and 3-cell battery. IMO one of the most important selling points of a netbook is it's mobility; stuff it in a small messenger bag (or purse) and hang out at Starbucks for hours w/o needing to be tethered to the wall outlet. The 3-cell battery won't get you too much of that.
Most women have smaller hands than men do, but on average, most people are most comfortable typing on a full-size or close to full-size keyboard. I have large hands but I'm a touch typist. I had an MSI Wind (don't buy one...cheap plastic) and it's 92% keyboard was perfect for me after I got used to having my hands closer together.
FWIW, I bought this EeePC today to replace my MSI.
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16834220551I think it even comes in pink.
This particular Eee has got the upgraded webcam and the better CPU. The diff in CPU speed b/t this Atom (N280) and the old Atom (N270) is inconsequential. The big story is the FSB; it's a decent bit faster (20%, basically...667 vs 533MHz) and I should see a diff in "snappiness" of apps and slightly better overall performance. At least that's what I'm hoping. Big battery is a major point too, IMO.