- Dec 27, 2001
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I have this girl. We dated before, and it didn't work out. After a year of awkwardness, we start talking again. Finally one party I threw we end up hooking up again. Now we're "friends with benefits."
The question is... a few nights ago she said she wanted to be more than friends with benefits again. We broke up because we both knew it wasn't going to work out... we can have the random hook up when we're both feeling randy and think nothing of it the next day.
Question is... now that she'd proposed more than the current relationship, what do I do? She said we could keep hooking up and there would be no problem, but is she saying the truth? I know (and she does too, even though she won't admit it) that it won't work out if we get back together again, but right now we're kinda there when we both need the random booty call. Am I being cruel to her by still hooking up but not pursuing the relationship, even if it would be doomed from the start? I know that I don't want to be with her again, we just enjoy each others company at times. She was the one who initiated the random hook ups in the first place. What do I do?
The question is... a few nights ago she said she wanted to be more than friends with benefits again. We broke up because we both knew it wasn't going to work out... we can have the random hook up when we're both feeling randy and think nothing of it the next day.
Question is... now that she'd proposed more than the current relationship, what do I do? She said we could keep hooking up and there would be no problem, but is she saying the truth? I know (and she does too, even though she won't admit it) that it won't work out if we get back together again, but right now we're kinda there when we both need the random booty call. Am I being cruel to her by still hooking up but not pursuing the relationship, even if it would be doomed from the start? I know that I don't want to be with her again, we just enjoy each others company at times. She was the one who initiated the random hook ups in the first place. What do I do?