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The ex keeps trying to hard. How do I give her stuff back?

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Originally posted by: LookingGlass
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: LookingGlass
Bit pathetic at times if you ask me. It's not so cut and dry with some people. Emotions still can run high, crap happens.

Either drop off her stuff, on her porch, where ever. Or have a family member come with her when she picks it up, you have someone there too. That way, not much will be said. Others around, things *usually* will keep cool.

If you cannot keep cool over something as simple as that you shouldn't be getting involved in relationships.

Oh please tell that stupid line to so many people out there. Not everyone reacts with decorum, cooth, and knowing when to play it cool. If you think it happens that way, you live in a fantasy world. For some yes it does, for others no, it does not.

Says the excited person on an internet forum about a topic that isn't about him....
😉
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
1. Put crap in box.
2. Drive to her house.
3. Drop off crap.
4. Drive home.
5. Profit!

What exactly is the problem?


HAHAA you would love to make friends with this kid I know. He said once when I saw him Dumpster diving, "I hope we find dog crap in there"
 
Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
HAHAA you would love to make friends with this kid I know. He said once when I saw him Dumpster diving, "I hope we find dog crap in there"

I don't get it. 😕
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: sygyzy
C'mon JLGatsby. it's because of ZCP. Don't you know? It rules FatBuddha's life.

OP needs to graduate his relationship ability out of the "middle school" level.


I know I do but its my first relationship and I'm dwelling on crap I know I shouldn't that's why I consider everyones' word because I'm in the dark here. U could maintain a relatioship but I don't enjoy it anymore so therefore I don't know how to end it and settle it. Guess it doesn't jsut happen that fast.
 
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: Rumpltzer
I think it was me who told him no contact (no phone, no email, no IM, no looking, no nothing) for at least one month for every three that they were together.

One question: Why?

They're both retarded?

Hey OP - by using AIM to talk to her, you're violating your sacred "ZCP". You'd better kill yourself now.

- M4H


I haven't talked to her that's the thing she keeps IMing me.
 
Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
I know I do but its my first relationship and I'm dwelling on crap I know I shouldn't that's why I consider everyones' word because I'm in the dark here. U could maintain a relatioship but I don't enjoy it anymore so therefore I don't know how to end it and settle it. Guess it doesn't jsut happen that fast.

Well, don't make a "relatioship" any harder than it was meant to be.

It's over. Just drop off her stuff. Tell her don't have a cow because you're both young and there are plenty of fish in the aquarium. No bickering, no emo crap, no Dr Phil, nothing. Just a "so long."

Oversimplification FTW. Remember that.
 
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: intogamer
Have her hot friend pick it up and bang her when she comes to get it

😀

- M4H

OMG I wish!

So, how old are you?


I'm 20 bro does it really matter. I'm up @$it's creek here and I have some questions. Alls I want is some honest answers. If you don't want to help, then lay off if you do then that's cool.
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
I know I do but its my first relationship and I'm dwelling on crap I know I shouldn't that's why I consider everyones' word because I'm in the dark here. U could maintain a relatioship but I don't enjoy it anymore so therefore I don't know how to end it and settle it. Guess it doesn't jsut happen that fast.

Well, don't make a "relatioship" any harder than it was meant to be.

It's over. Just drop off her stuff. Tell her don't have a cow because you're both young and there are plenty of fish in the aquarium. No bickering, no emo crap, no Dr Phil, nothing. Just a "so long."

Oversimplification FTW. Remember that.


Thank you, now that's something I can do and am going to do tomarrow. Thanks I am I'm letting it get to me to much.
 
1. Ship it Fedex Ground 🙂.
2. Knock on the door and leave the stuff by the door.
3. Give it to her friends.
4. Keep it an ebay it.
5. Screw the ZCP and just give it to her (she's emo)
6. Talk in sign language.
7. Talk in body language 😉
 
wow, im 20 and i feel like we are on a totally different level. not to be egotistical, but you are a moron. this is the sort of thing you should have trouble figuring out pre-12.
 
Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: intogamer
Have her hot friend pick it up and bang her when she comes to get it

😀

- M4H

OMG I wish!

So, how old are you?


I'm 20 bro does it really matter. I'm up @$it's creek here and I have some questions. Alls I want is some honest answers. If you don't want to help, then lay off if you do then that's cool.

Dude, chill. I was just trying to figure out if you're an attention whore or just stoopid. Sad thing is, I still don't know. 🙁
 
Originally posted by: Bigsm00th
wow, im 20 and i feel like we are on a totally different level. not to be egotistical, but you are a moron. this is the sort of thing you should have trouble figuring out pre-12.


Call me a dumba$$ idc lol. Some people got it some don't, I don't and IDC I just need help.(Who honestly doesn't sometimes, (Don't respond to that) 😛 Mentally and Physically. Eh whatever, I'm done here. I really appreciate the advice. Taken and noted. Will be used in the next few days. Thanks again.
 
Originally posted by: Bigsm00th
wow, im 20 and i feel like we are on a totally different level. not to be egotistical, but you are a moron. this is the sort of thing you should have trouble figuring out pre-12.

pre 12? heck, im 12 and i think hes retarded. pre-8 maybe
 
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: intogamer
Have her hot friend pick it up and bang her when she comes to get it

😀

- M4H

OMG I wish!

So, how old are you?


I'm 20 bro does it really matter. I'm up @$it's creek here and I have some questions. Alls I want is some honest answers. If you don't want to help, then lay off if you do then that's cool.

Dude, chill. I was just trying to figure out if you're an attention whore or just stoopid. Sad thing is, I still don't know. 🙁


I said I just needed help cause I'm retarded. lol Sorry didn't wanna get on your case, this situation just gets more agrivating.
 
Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: Fatbuddha
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: intogamer
Have her hot friend pick it up and bang her when she comes to get it

😀

- M4H

OMG I wish!

So, how old are you?


I'm 20 bro does it really matter. I'm up @$it's creek here and I have some questions. Alls I want is some honest answers. If you don't want to help, then lay off if you do then that's cool.

Dude, chill. I was just trying to figure out if you're an attention whore or just stoopid. Sad thing is, I still don't know. 🙁


I said I just needed help cause I'm retarded. lol Sorry didn't wanna get on your case, this situation just gets more agrivating.

Apology accepted.
 
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