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That crazy b*tch

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Originally posted by: Stiganator
A little background. About 3 months ago I brought my girlfriend to the airport since school was out and she flew back home to CA. I'm from MN. She also goes to school in MN. So all was well, until a month ago she calls and I hadn't heard from her in a few days so I was excited to talk to her. "Hi hun, how are you doing?" says I. "Pretty Good", she says, "Listen, I just wanted to tell I'm seeing someone." insert sound of heart breaking. So we'd been seeing each other for about 9 months. Not an eternity, but pretty long. So her boss asked her out (I'm assuming hes in his 20s) she's 19 btw. Well two days after she told me she went on a trip to europe for a month. She just got home two days ago and now today I just picked her up at the airport and brought her to her school. I asked her, if this thing with her boss who is 1700 miles away was a sure thing and she said yes. Now I'm highly, highly skeptical of that but that is just an aside. I still have strong feelings for her, but I don't know if I should attempt to be friends or if I should just drop her like a bad habit? Any input guys.

Let her continue to pull you on her leash?

Damn, I would have hung up on the b*tch the moment she told me she was with another guy. There are plenty of girls out there, don't waste your time.
 
Originally posted by: Stiganator
A little background. About 3 months ago I brought my girlfriend to the airport since school was out and she flew back home to CA. I'm from MN. She also goes to school in MN. So all was well, until a month ago she calls and I hadn't heard from her in a few days so I was excited to talk to her. "Hi hun, how are you doing?" says I. "Pretty Good", she says, "Listen, I just wanted to tell I'm seeing someone." insert sound of heart breaking. So we'd been seeing each other for about 9 months. Not an eternity, but pretty long. So her boss asked her out (I'm assuming hes in his 20s) she's 19 btw. Well two days after she told me she went on a trip to europe for a month. She just got home two days ago and now today I just picked her up at the airport and brought her to her school. I asked her, if this thing with her boss who is 1700 miles away was a sure thing and she said yes. Now I'm highly, highly skeptical of that but that is just an aside. I still have strong feelings for her, but I don't know if I should attempt to be friends or if I should just drop her like a bad habit? Any input guys.

Bail. Wouldn't have nine months meant she was seeing him behind your back....last I remember, summer break is only 3-ish months. She's a hussy...a damn HUSSY!
 
You are her male girlfriend! Are you going to go purse shopping with her later today too? Grow a pair and never talk to her again!
 
Originally posted by: PaulNEPats
You are her male girlfriend! Are you going to go purse shopping with her later today too? Grow a pair and never talk to her again!

LOL....yeah, bail on the friends thing too if she wants to persue that. It'll just complicate things and screw you when you try to lay down game at other places.
 
You're at college. There is a high concentration of single, horny girls in your immediate area. Don't fvck up your chances over one girl.
 
Originally posted by: captains
hahahah she dumped u for another guy and u still picked her up from the airport 😕

Yea honestly.

He took her to Europe but had you pick her up from the airport?

Oh geeze.

Get used much?
 
Originally posted by: nourdmrolNMT1
bang her one more time, no fancy dancy sh1t, just fvck her, and then say, well thats the last time fvck off now, you cheating slvt.

and then go and proceed to walk out.

pee in her mouth during a bj.
 
Originally posted by: captains
hahahah she dumped u for another guy and u still picked her up from the airport 😕

what i thought too...what a tool/fool 🙂 Go dont make a moron out of yourself....please 🙂
 
Originally posted by: Stiganator
A little background. About 3 months ago I brought my girlfriend to the airport since school was out and she flew back home to CA. I'm from MN. She also goes to school in MN. So all was well, until a month ago she calls and I hadn't heard from her in a few days so I was excited to talk to her. "Hi hun, how are you doing?" says I. "Pretty Good", she says, "Listen, I just wanted to tell I'm seeing someone." insert sound of heart breaking. So we'd been seeing each other for about 9 months. Not an eternity, but pretty long. So her boss asked her out (I'm assuming hes in his 20s) she's 19 btw. Well two days after she told me she went on a trip to europe for a month. She just got home two days ago and now today I just picked her up at the airport and brought her to her school. I asked her, if this thing with her boss who is 1700 miles away was a sure thing and she said yes. Now I'm highly, highly skeptical of that but that is just an aside. I still have strong feelings for her, but I don't know if I should attempt to be friends or if I should just drop her like a bad habit? Any input guys.

really only on ATOT someone can ask/post something like this...

Next level would be:

* i just saw my gf b@nging her boss - then she told me that she is kind of a slut and b@nged 50 other guys why she was away.....and she told me its really serious with that other guy she just did it with yesterday.

Also...i wonder whether i should continue being her monkey and pick her up/drive her to the airport/wh0rehouse/other BFs so she can have a good time with them while i am on call...so if she calls and needs a ride i jump and pick her up "because i still have feelings for her"

HONESTLY - only your age can excuse so much naivity
 
well I don't know if I can just drop a person whom I've grown quite fond of. I can probably go into uber friend mode though and severely limit communications. If she wants to hang out she can take the bus! There are tons of babes around, but I just haven't had the urge to do anything lately cuz I've felt crappy. I'll probably call and yell at her and get a few answers then cease for a while. I think the advice about being in the drivers seat is good 🙂. I'd give her 3 weeks tops. I don't know if random hookups are a good way to get over it, but I'll give it a try 😉.
 
Originally posted by: Stiganator
well I don't know if I can just drop a person whom I've grown quite fond of. I can probably go into uber friend mode though and severely limit communications. If she wants to hang out she can take the bus! There are tons of babes around, but I just haven't had the urge to do anything lately cuz I've felt crappy. I'll probably call and yell at her and get a few answers then cease for a while. I think the advice about being in the drivers seat is good 🙂. I'd give her 3 weeks tops. I don't know if random hookups are a good way to get over it, but I'll give it a try 😉.

you have no balls sorry.

Get over it, then move on

If she was interested in getting back together that MAY be one thing (if you could overlook the cheating), but she doesn't want to, so move on.
 
Originally posted by: Stiganator
well I don't know if I can just drop a person whom I've grown quite fond of. I can probably go into uber friend mode though and severely limit communications. If she wants to hang out she can take the bus! There are tons of babes around, but I just haven't had the urge to do anything lately cuz I've felt crappy. I'll probably call and yell at her and get a few answers then cease for a while. I think the advice about being in the drivers seat is good 🙂. I'd give her 3 weeks tops. I don't know if random hookups are a good way to get over it, but I'll give it a try 😉.

You're not listening.

Never speak to her again.

She's dead to you now.
 
Originally posted by: spidey07
Originally posted by: Stiganator
well I don't know if I can just drop a person whom I've grown quite fond of. I can probably go into uber friend mode though and severely limit communications. If she wants to hang out she can take the bus! There are tons of babes around, but I just haven't had the urge to do anything lately cuz I've felt crappy. I'll probably call and yell at her and get a few answers then cease for a while. I think the advice about being in the drivers seat is good 🙂. I'd give her 3 weeks tops. I don't know if random hookups are a good way to get over it, but I'll give it a try 😉.

You're not listening.

Never speak to her again.

She's dead to you now.


 
Originally posted by: Stiganator
well I don't know if I can just drop a person whom I've grown quite fond of. I can probably go into uber friend mode though and severely limit communications. If she wants to hang out she can take the bus! There are tons of babes around, but I just haven't had the urge to do anything lately cuz I've felt crappy. I'll probably call and yell at her and get a few answers then cease for a while. I think the advice about being in the drivers seat is good 🙂. I'd give her 3 weeks tops. I don't know if random hookups are a good way to get over it, but I'll give it a try 😉.

Don't bother calling her for answers - you can't get past the questions. Seriously, don't get mad, GET EVEN.
 
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