Tell me this is freaking STUPID!!

Juniper

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Has it happened that you washed your clothes with your wife/gf's underwear? Well, I washed every friking clothes today, and my boyfriend says that I should not wash my underwear with his clothes. No apparent reason, just this stupid superstition and no logic behind it. And its HIS wish, so either I follow HIS wish or ...

I'm so mad right now I could break something, but I'm at work so I had to vent my frustration here.

 

minendo

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There are five strong words to use in this situation:




Do your own damn laundry.

If he has a problem with that, leave him because you can do better.
 

Juniper

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Originally posted by: brtspears2
What supersition? The fear of finding a thong in his sweatshirt?

Exactly my point!! If there is no LOGIC behind it, I'd rather save electricity and water.
 

Looney

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What exactly is the superstition? That he'll turn queen if his underwear touches yours?

 

Juniper

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hmph! I just messaged him and told him that if he can't explain it or if his mom can't explain it, then stop the bitchin!
 

brxndxn

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I wouldn't want my girlfriend washing any of her clothes with mine..

It's clashing pheremones! You'll subconciously turn him gay.. or you'll turn yourself into a man-hating feminazi who gets totally pissed off when the man asks not to wash your clothes with his.

I can totally understand his not wanting your underwear with his clothes.. It makes a man feel boxed in when he realizes his women is invading all of his space. Next thing you know.. you'll be taking a dump in the bathroom while he's in the shower. I mean.. might as well.
 

Juniper

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Originally posted by: brxndxn
I wouldn't want my girlfriend washing any of her clothes with mine..

It's clashing pheremones! You'll subconciously turn him gay.. or you'll turn yourself into a man-hating feminazi who gets totally pissed off when the man asks not to wash your clothes with his.

I can totally understand his not wanting your underwear with his clothes.. It makes a man feel boxed in when he realizes his women is invading all of his space. Next thing you know.. you'll be taking a dump in the bathroom while he's in the shower. I mean.. might as well.


This is the most ridiculous thing ever. You are living in the past!
 

rudeguy

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Originally posted by: Juniper
Originally posted by: brxndxn
I wouldn't want my girlfriend washing any of her clothes with mine..

It's clashing pheremones! You'll subconciously turn him gay.. or you'll turn yourself into a man-hating feminazi who gets totally pissed off when the man asks not to wash your clothes with his.

I can totally understand his not wanting your underwear with his clothes.. It makes a man feel boxed in when he realizes his women is invading all of his space. Next thing you know.. you'll be taking a dump in the bathroom while he's in the shower. I mean.. might as well.


This is the most ridiculous thing ever. You are living in the past and havent gotten laid since lincoln was in office!


edited for correctness
 

Dragoon42

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Originally posted by: Juniper
Originally posted by: brxndxn
I wouldn't want my girlfriend washing any of her clothes with mine..

It's clashing pheremones! You'll subconciously turn him gay.. or you'll turn yourself into a man-hating feminazi who gets totally pissed off when the man asks not to wash your clothes with his.

I can totally understand his not wanting your underwear with his clothes.. It makes a man feel boxed in when he realizes his women is invading all of his space. Next thing you know.. you'll be taking a dump in the bathroom while he's in the shower. I mean.. might as well.


This is the most ridiculous thing ever. You are living in the past!

hahaha, don't be mad coz your too afraid to stand up to your man and tell him to wash his own clothes
 

brxndxn

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This is the most ridiculous thing ever. You are living in the past!

See.. this is where it starts.. A women thinking that men and women should both think alike.. Why act like you totally understand him? He doesn't understand you. He tries. But, you think you already know.

I'm not living in the past. Every man needs his space. Men that don't make sure they have their space get an invading girlfriend who nags about everything. He's got a 'line' drawn between having his laundry separate from yours. It really takes no effort to do an extra load of laundry. Keep nagging him and getting pissed and eventually break up over it.

Let him have his space!

EDIT: Oh.. also to let you know.. This could be a 'test' on your part. He knows he's asking for something awkward - but he also knows that it's very minimal. He may be testing you to see how much you'll nag him about something. BTW, read some Proverbs if you're a Christian. Otherwise, read some Confuscious.

Let him at least act like you don't have him by the balls.
 

rudeguy

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Originally posted by: brxndxn
This is the most ridiculous thing ever. You are living in the past!

See.. this is where it starts.. A women thinking that men and women should both think alike.. Why act like you totally understand him? He doesn't understand you. He tries. But, you think you already know.

I'm not living in the past. Every man needs his space. Men that don't make sure they have their space get an invading girlfriend who nags about everything. He's got a 'line' drawn between having his laundry separate from yours. It really takes no effort to do an extra load of laundry. Keep nagging him and getting pissed and eventually break up over it.

Let him have his space!

plz dont compare your experiences with your boyfriend to that of a non-homosexual relationship


thanks and have a nice day
 

brxndxn

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plz dont compare your experiences with your boyfriend to that of a non-homosexual relationship


thanks and have a nice day

I am not homosexual or bisexual. Saying that I am will not convince me otherwise. I am having a terrible night, btw. Telling me to have a nice day in a sarcastic sense has no effect on me.

I am merely trying to present things from his perspective. You act like this is a 100% one-sided issue. If it's HIS wish, then he's got at least some reason for it. We're talking about the guy that you know and love - and you're pissed at him over some underwear. Why the emotional attachment to having your underwear in with his?

Would you be offended if he didn't want to eat after you? Or would you be offended if he didn't want to drive your car?

Did you even try to look at it from his perspective?

 

rudeguy

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Originally posted by: brxndxn
plz dont compare your experiences with your boyfriend to that of a non-homosexual relationship


thanks and have a nice day

I am not homosexual or bisexual. Saying that I am will not convince me otherwise. I am having a terrible night, btw. Telling me to have a nice day in a sarcastic sense has no effect on me.

I am merely trying to present things from his perspective. You act like this is a 100% one-sided issue. If it's HIS wish, then he's got at least some reason for it. We're talking about the guy that you know and love - and you're pissed at him over some underwear. Why the emotional attachment to having your underwear in with his?

Would you be offended if he didn't want to eat after you? Or would you be offended if he didn't want to drive your car?

Did you even try to look at it from his perspective?
"his" prospective was that he was pissed...not her...its a little thing...dont make a big deal outa somethin like this...if a girl with wash my dirty undies then heck....how can I complain?
 

Juniper

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Originally posted by: brxndxn
plz dont compare your experiences with your boyfriend to that of a non-homosexual relationship


thanks and have a nice day

I am not homosexual or bisexual. Saying that I am will not convince me otherwise. I am having a terrible night, btw. Telling me to have a nice day in a sarcastic sense has no effect on me.

I am merely trying to present things from his perspective. You act like this is a 100% one-sided issue. If it's HIS wish, then he's got at least some reason for it. We're talking about the guy that you know and love - and you're pissed at him over some underwear. Why the emotional attachment to having your underwear in with his?

Would you be offended if he didn't want to eat after you? Or would you be offended if he didn't want to drive your car?

Did you even try to look at it from his perspective?



C'mon man, earth is here. When you live together its about practicality. There are bills to pay, theres no time for all this thing. We share chores and because he was sick I did his too. I am pissed because I'm getting yelled at for no apparent reason.