So what would the conversation look like when my wife asks why her name is absent from the design I have in mind?
"Sorry honey. Even though we've been happily married for 16 years, have kids, took our marriage vows in front of our friends and family and God at our church, and go to church together, and plan our finances together, and raise our kids together, and we always wear our wedding rings as reminders of our commitment and love...I'm just not convinced our marriage is strong enough for me to put your name on my body. You know, if we get a divorce, I don't want to be stuck with your name on me. I'm sure you understand."
Same goes for my wife refusing to get my name tattooed on her. What am I to think if she gives similar reasons?