There are lots of mobo's that have more than 2 IDE connectors.
There are no chipsets that I know of..I'm not entirely sure why that is.
IRQ's are hard to come by, here's an example:
0 - System Timer
1 - Keybaord
2 - Cascade to upper 8 IRQs
3 - COM2/4
4 - COM1/3
5 - Soundcard
6 - Floppy
7 - LPT1
8 - RT Clock
9 - PCI Slot (as mentioned, 2/9 are attached, you can't use both)
10 - USB
11 - PCI Slot (Edit: This is actually my AGP slot..close enough

)
12 - PS/2 Mouse
13 - Floating Point Unit
14/15 - IDE
I have both com ports disabled so that gives me 2 more...
In my case my IRQ4 is used for a PCI slot as well. One PCI slots shares with my USB, and my soundcard uses 5 & 9
If I disabled dos support sound, I could fit in another IDE controller on 3 & 5, but in a typical setup it's hard to find IRQs to fit everywhere and even PCI cards can be pretty picky about sharing, and ISA devices (COM ports & PS/2 ports are ISA devices) are very unfriendly about sharing, but most systems default to having two COM ports on so they don't have the IRQs
IRQs are pretty tight resource..
but if you want more IDE channels on your system just pick up a Promsie Ultra66 and you'll have an extra channel or two (you can enable only 1 or both) provided you have the IRQs for it.
SCSI fits 15 devices on a single IRQ, IDE fits 2.
But if you have the IRQs you can load up as many IDE channels as you want.
The Asus CUBX and A7V both have 4 IDE channels, as do any boards from ABit with a RAID controller built in, several Soyo boards...it's an option on the K7TMaster (though with onboard SCSI what the hell would you want it for?) There are boat loads of boards with 4 IDE channels.