There used to be a party for people like you. It was called the Republican Party, and it was, in the main, a sane, patriotic, and principled counterpart to the Democratic Party. And both, in the main, accepted each other as patriotic Americans who meant well for the Republic, but differed on points of fiscal and social policy.
We were all cold warriors then.
The extremes of each party were there but marginalized, and they did not have the megaphone of Limbaugh-like talk radio or For TV News to spew through.
Both parties had a core of centrists who were not really ideologues.
Then, the GOP made their devil's deal with the Dixiecrats and the evangelical yahoos, in order to forge an overwhelming electoral block based on God, Guns, and (anti-) Gays. Like all deals with the devil, it contained the seeds of its own destruction within it. Think of the fable of
The Monkeys Paw. Be careful what you wish for.
You and I may differ on some points of policy, but I am proud to have you, a sane and principled conservative, as a fellow American and a member of the LOYAL opposition.
I wish for you, and for all of us, a national party that hears you and gives you a voice. I hope that is once again the Republican Party, a party with an extremely proud history, the party of Abraham Lincoln and Teddy Roosevelt and General of the Army Dwight David Eisenhower and
Everett McKinley Dirksen, great Americans all.