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CaptainKahuna

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So there's this girl I've had a crush on for about a year, she's absolutely gorgeous and just broke up with her BF today. We're talking (about other stuff) and I make some comment about Harry in When Harry met Sally being right, and shes like "haha, nah....you and me!!!!!"

Ouch.

She then precedes to tell me she can see herself falling for my BEST F*&$KING FRIEND sometime in the future.

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And so I am now drinking liquor, neffing on AT, by myself in my room. Recovery operation goes into effect tomorrow.....I think....

WTF do I do? I don't want to screw my best friend, but he likes her, they dated at one point for 2 months, then broke up a long time ago. He still likes her, and he needs a GF. But AHHHHHHH! Not her!!! %&^(*$%&#(*$&%(@

What to do?
 
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well man if you want a story to make you feel like you should do something. last summer there was this girl i really liked. i had my chance and i blew it because i didnt say anything. the next day i found out my neighbor's mom had cancer.


moral of the story: stop being a b!tch and go talk to her. unless you want your neighbor's mom to get cancer.
 
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CaptainKahuna

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Originally posted by: MoPHo
well man if you want a story to make you feel like you should do something. last summer there was this girl i really liked. i had my chance and i blew it because i didnt say anything. the next day i found out my neighbor's mom had cancer.


moral of the story: stop being a b!tch and go talk to her. unless you want your neighbor's mom to get cancer.
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Heh. I don't know if that's funny, but I'm drunk, so I laughed :)
 
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OulOat

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Originally posted by: MoPHo
well man if you want a story to make you feel like you should do something. last summer there was this girl i really liked. i had my chance and i blew it because i didnt say anything. the next day i found out my neighbor's mom had cancer.


moral of the story: stop being a b!tch and go talk to her. unless you want your neighbor's mom to get cancer.
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QFFFT
 
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dderidex

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Originally posted by: CaptainKahuna
Originally posted by: MoPHo
well man if you want a story to make you feel like you should do something. last summer there was this girl i really liked. i had my chance and i blew it because i didnt say anything. the next day i found out my neighbor's mom had cancer.


moral of the story: stop being a b!tch and go talk to her. unless you want your neighbor's mom to get cancer.
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Heh. I don't know if that's funny, but I'm drunk, so I laughed :)
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So did I! Totally made my night - we need more funny threads, it's a suckie night so far.
 
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tami

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there are other gorgeous girls in the world. if that's the primary factor, look somewhere else.

the only thing that i'd say is that it will suck for you if your best friend is dating her, but if you seek, you shall find. maybe you can make your best friend jealous :)
 
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CaptainKahuna

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Originally posted by: tami
there are other gorgeous girls in the world. if that's the primary factor, look somewhere else.

the only thing that i'd say is that it will suck for you if your best friend is dating her, but if you seek, you shall find. maybe you can make your best friend jealous :)
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See, thats the problem, its absolutely not just that she's gorgeous, it's that not only is she awesome, I would love/kill to have her as my GF.

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I guess that kinda answers my question eh....
 
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CycloWizard

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Originally posted by: CaptainKahuna
LOL, oh, I am definitely PAINFULLY familiar with the ladder theory

*sob*
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Meh, it's not so bad down here in the abyss - I was kicked down here about 18 months ago and life has never been better. :beer:
 
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Dubb

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here's the thing. Chill the fsck out.

It's that simple. I was in a similar situation (not exact, but close - both me and my roomate were into the same girl). I freaked for about a half a second before I realized that my roomate and I were very different people, and that if she went for him, I was probably misjudging the potential compatibility of her and I. So the solution was to just relax. if it's there, it's there. if it's not, it's not. Don't stress over it. The added bonus is that you will seem much less like a nervous, neurotic dope (which apparently you are), and more like joe cool. ladies like joe cool. Along a similar train of thought, rent and watch The Tao of Steve. Be steve.

oh, and guess which one of us is still with said girl after 3+ years? (hint: it ain't the roomate)
 
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BigJ

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I know how you feel.

Oh God do I know how it feels :(

Just be glad she didn't go out with and fvck two of your friends that you value as brothers.

It's been one of the issues I've been having to deal with over the past 2 years to help get out of my depression.
 
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EyeMWing

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Originally posted by: CycloWizard
Originally posted by: CaptainKahuna
LOL, oh, I am definitely PAINFULLY familiar with the ladder theory

*sob*
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Meh, it's not so bad down here in the abyss - I was kicked down here about 18 months ago and life has never been better. :beer:
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I'm down here with ya, but I ain't likin' it. But I've mostly resigned myself to permanent residence.

Oh, and OP, I'm drinkin' tonight, too. Much older scars, though.
 
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CaptainKahuna

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Originally posted by: Dubb
here's the thing. Chill the fsck out.

It's that simple. I was in a similar situation (not exact, but close - both me and my roomate were into the same girl). I freaked for about a half a second before I realized that my roomate and I were very different people, and that if she went for him, I was probably misjudging the potential compatibility of her and I. So the solution was to just relax. if it's there, it's there. if it's not, it's not. Don't stress over it. The added bonus is that you will seem much less like a nervous, neurotic dope (which apparently you are), and more like joe cool. ladies like joe cool. Along a similar train of thought, rent and watch The Tao of Steve. Be steve.

oh, and guess which one of us is still with said girl after 3+ years? (hint: it ain't the roomate)
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Good points. I have flirted/hit on this girl for 2 years, and she has flirted back. This does not need to change. Things will work out as they should.

Oh, and I like the last sentence :)
 
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CaptainKahuna

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Originally posted by: BigJ
I know how you feel.

Oh God do I know how it feels :(

Just be glad she didn't go out with and fvck two of your friends that you value as brothers.
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Well its actually sorta like that. No f'ing, but 2 friends...

cheers :beer: isnt life grand
 
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CaptainKahuna

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EyeMWing and BigJ, it's nice to know others know how much this sucks...

AT always makes me feel a bit better.

Still hurtin though...

(God its takes a long time too type)
 
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Originally posted by: Dubb
here's the thing. Chill the fsck out.

It's that simple. I was in a similar situation (not exact, but close - both me and my roomate were into the same girl). I freaked for about a half a second before I realized that my roomate and I were very different people, and that if she went for him, I was probably misjudging the potential compatibility of her and I. So the solution was to just relax. if it's there, it's there. if it's not, it's not. Don't stress over it. The added bonus is that you will seem much less like a nervous, neurotic dope (which apparently you are), and more like joe cool. ladies like joe cool. Along a similar train of thought, rent and watch The Tao of Steve. Be steve.

oh, and guess which one of us is still with said girl after 3+ years? (hint: it ain't the roomate)
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to go along with what Dubb said, people who aren't meant to be always break up at some point. you'll be fine. heck, i find absolutely drop dead gorgeous girls that mean the world to me about once every year. you'll be fine.
 
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CaptainKahuna

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Originally posted by: ed21x
to go along with what Dubb said, people who aren't meant to be always break up at some point. you'll be fine. heck, i find absolutely drop dead gorgeous girls that mean the world to me about once every year. you'll be fine.
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Meh - problem being she wasn't always gorgeous. She lost like 15 lbs the last year and is looking really hot. I was into her a year ago, it's not about the body, its just a new added bonus to make my life more of a hell
 
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