You are wrong. Servers at my restaurant are paid $3.63/hr. We survive on tips. I make approximately $11-$13/hr on an average day... on a great day I can make upwards $18/hr. And many say that servers make more than the cooks/chefs etc, but they fail to realize that the VAST majority of servers are not full time. They are part-time.
Maybe in MO the vast majority are part time, but here in California most are full time.
Most servers here make 40 to 80K a year.