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Stupid Girl Fvck With My Head

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*Voice in the background*
Trussssst meeeeee........TRUUUSSSSTTTT MMEEEEEEEEEEE

Seriously though, you know you like her or you wouldn't be stressting over this. You might not want to admit it, but you do. Im calling you on it. 😉
 


<< Apparently it's some sort of defensive measure on their part, to disguse any interest you may perceive in their presentation. This girl used to tell me about all the hot guys she saw, then it turned out she just said that so I wouldn't figure out she liked me. >>




BINGO!
 
UGH. i'm just kind of lonely... it's been over a year since i really fell for anybody. i've been on dates with this one girl who was pretty hot, but i dunno, something didn't click. but argh, i'm so torn. *holds head in hands and sobs* alright alright, i'll face my inner demons, i think i like her a little. i dunno though, it's so hard to distinguish between liking her as a really good friend, and liking her as something more and just being lonely coincedentally. do you know what i mean? what if i don't really like her and i just want a warm body? ugh.... damn you inner demons.... damn you.....
 
Just make sure you figure out what you want before you act on anything. For me, the best indicator is how much I want the other party to be happy. If you genuinely like someone, you'll be at least equally concerned with what they want. However, if when you think about it, all you really want is to feel attached or to not be lonely anymore, chances are the relationship either won't last long or won't be very fulfilling.
 


<< Apparently it's some sort of defensive measure on their part, to disguse any interest you may perceive in their presentation. This girl used to tell me about all the hot guys she saw, then it turned out she just said that so I wouldn't figure out she liked me. >>



You sure? :Q
 


<< UGH. i'm just kind of lonely... it's been over a year since i really fell for anybody. i've been on dates with this one girl who was pretty hot, but i dunno, something didn't click. but argh, i'm so torn. *holds head in hands and sobs* alright alright, i'll face my inner demons, i think i like her a little. i dunno though, it's so hard to distinguish between liking her as a really good friend, and liking her as something more and just being lonely coincedentally. do you know what i mean? what if i don't really like her and i just want a warm body? ugh.... damn you inner demons.... damn you..... >>



Better to let your head clear on this one -- and TRY not to think about it too much ( I know it's hard, if not near impossible). It's hard to know with friends sometimes -- but if she is a good match for you, it will become apparent. You have an unusual situation because of your age and surroundings but that will not be an enduring issue. Hang in there 🙂
 
sounds like sound advice jfur 🙂

i'm actually toying with the idea of writing her an email right now... (too late to call)... telling her that if she was serious, than i'm sorry i acted like an ass. i really did, the more i think about it. i tried to change the subject, and went "uh..... oh btw, you owe me 40 bucks" 😱 is that a good idea? regardless of whether or not i like her, if she was serious, than i want to apologize.
 
If it'll make you feel better, then appologize. I probably would in your position, knowing me. It's pretty safe to assume that even if she wasn't serious, she's not going to mind an appology...and if she was...well, an appology would sound damn good.
 
Dude, if she doesn't turn you on, stick a P4 chip in your computer, change the color of her skin, and remove her hair. Yikes! :Q:Q:Q

Call the neighbors, the cops, and your congressman. I think she's really not from this planet otherwise you'd jump her bones if not for that burning feeling in your spine. 😛.
 
It's pretty clear to me that you like this girl, but didn't want her to hurt you, so you did it first, without thinking. You saw her face after you replied, so you should know if she was serious. Duffman had a good idea. Kiss her and tell her you changed your mind after thinking about it. Tell her you do like her, and go from there.
 
She's got you whipped and she knows it - it gives her a sense of power and makes less her feel less insecure about herself to yank your chain...

It's not in the cards, gopunk...
 
hey man i feel for you...I don't know WHY girls do this fscking CRAP. i've had it done to me before too. i'm not even going to tell me story because it pisses me off so much...but at first it took me a month or so to get over this one girl, then she brings it ALL up again and i am thinking about her every waking hour only to find out it was another game.

I will NEVER be lured in again...I don't even want to be associated (even friends) with girls like this and I never will be! Thankfully my current g/f is NOT like this at all...she's honest and up front, and down to earth. Not like an average girl who gets some sick pleasure from putting guys through this torture (hurts more than they think maybe?).
 
Dude if you two really are that close then you already know the answer... and now you can choose to act upon it or let opportunity pass by. I say take the chance, after all who HASN'T been embarrased by their friends?
 
I had a girl for my best friend. She is now my wife, sometimes you are in a situation where the both of you are too good of friends and both sides is scared to lose that friendship but you never know unless you try. I for one am happy to this day I made the first move....🙂
 


<< If you can tactfully bring it up again next time you are alone, YOU take on the pretense that you want to get something started. See if she "plays along" If so, lean in and kiss her. If she is serious, she will reciprocate. If not, you can just play it up as "I did such a better job than you did with your tears and all........" >>



sounds like a safe and smart plan to me. Playing games like this is alright until things become more serious. It's part of the fun
 
what no pi...

Sorry.

I had a gf that like to play games with me seriously. It drove me freaking nuts. I really hated that.
 
I don't think that she was actually trying to mess with your head, but more that she was just trying to save face. I'm sure you know how awful it is to let someone find out that you're interested in them only to learn that the feeling is not recipriocated.

If you're interested in her (and it sounds like you are...) then email her, but don't just apologize for being an ass; that doesn't solve the problem. Apologize and tell her exactly how you feel. That you were just surprised and that you actually are somewhat interested, but that you were afraid she was just kidding and you didn't want to go out on a ledge, so you reacted the way you did in self defense. And then ask if she's still interested. She will be.
 
I had a friend from WAY back in 7th grade that i thought was pretty hot, later in highschool we became really good friends, i would consider her my bestfriend actually(for that time period)......dunno when it happend but all of a sudden i had this crush on her....so i hinted at it(not very subtly, she got it right off)....she said she didn't want more than friends.....*denied!* but we're still friends.. a year later, which is cool, but now i don't see her as a crush anymore...*shrug* good luck gopunk...situatiosn like this are hard
 
1) pics?

2) maybe she reacted the way she did in the end because she didn't want to be embarrased by the way you answered her statement. Usually people who joke around like that are insecure about their relationships.
 
man you guys are new to this aren't you?



<<
DO play and replay scenarios in your mind where you come out and declare your true feelings to her, whereupon you proceed directly to frenzied yet sensitive, passionate, and completely fulfilling love-making.
DO NOT actually attempt this.

DO listen to all her problems with men:
No matter how many times you have heard her make these same mistakes (with other men), DO NOT get so entranced by her soft, full lips that you lean forward and kiss her. (Fantasize about it instead.)
DO feel the knife twisting and your insides tearing up as you listen to this
DO develop a gnawing enviousness that grows into an insane jealousy

If you do reveal your true feelings to her while drunk or in an otherwise abnormal or altered state of mind (incl. unwarranted happiness, ridiculously deep depression, brain fever, etc.), DO deny and disavow all statements the next day.
DO say how it would be such a big mistake if you were to get together with her.
DO joke about it afterwards.
DO NOT cry, break down, and admit that you have been carrying a torch for her for ___ weeks/months/years/aeons.
DO NOT consciously avoid her for the next two weeks (avoid her unconsciously).

DO curse yourself for being a miserable, spineless, pathetic, emotionally-stunted fool.
DO promise that you will change, that things will be different.
DO NOT actually change.

DO become trapped in a shallow, meaningless, lifeless relationship.
DO NOT actually seek out a secure, quality, lasting relationship, as this would interfere with your fantasizing about her
DO complain bitterly about this awful relationship to all your friends and to her.

>>



http://www.wizard.net/~joelogon/platonic/

learn it. live it. LOVE IT
 
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