Wait, what? This post is nonsensical.I like how people try to redefine something so they can feel better about themselves.
What gives them the right to redefine something that the government has no right to even be a part of?
They don't care how private people define marriage, they care how the government defines it. What gives them the right to alter the government's definition is the same thing that gave people the right to set up government's definition to begin with. ie: they are citizens of the country affected by the law.
You realize that you can go get married without the government interfering at all right? You don't have to go notify them and you can have a purely religious ceremony. Problem solved!