Soundmanred
Lifer
It is disgusting to me how all these people can post comments making it sound like having an animal you love so much because it's the only reason you get out of bed most days is some kind of joke.
I am 28 y/o female also, and am single and disabled. Not JUST depression/anxiety either, but try spending your entire teenage years not able to attend school because you're having back surgery constantly. Even my 16th birthday I spent laying in the hospital, throwing my guts up.
I got two cats when I moved into my first apartment. Not only did they help me make it through recovery from surgeries when I lived alone, but they are in fact, to this day, the only reason I make myself function enough to take care of them. I love my kiddys far more than anything else in the world.
In 2011 I had an accident involving total renal failure, and was found by family to be unresponsive and not breathing. When they got me to the hospital, I am told, I was awake the night and ate some, but I have zero memory of this. I suffered a pulmonary embolism to my heart that same night. I was given CPR for my cardiac arrest for almost an hour. Then I was put into a medical coma for a week. I am told when I woke up, I was terrified and non-cooperative, but again I have no memory of the first 2 weeks or so after I woke up. All I do remember is having such long and detailed nightmares and hallucinations I felt like I was literally in hell. When I finally di 'come to', I was told I had died, as I did not know yet. I had been having 4-hour dialysis every day. I was still having auditory and visual hallucinations so real, that I got angry when nobody else believed me. I would lie awake all night, listening to the nurses torture the patients. Slowly the hallucinations went away, all except for the cats I kept hearing in the halls. From the moment I was aware, I asked about my cats constantly, cried every day, worried about them being alone all day for the 2 months I was gone.
I can guarantee to you all, I would not be here today if I had not had these amazingly loyal animals to comfort me when I have had nothing but turmoil and pain and agony and loneliness for 16 years now.
I am currently fighting my manager/landlord because she is trying to force me to 'get rid of' one of my cats. I had them both before I moved here, there was NO restriction on having 2 cats when I moved here, and the new 'Pet Policy' did not start until a year and a half later, restricting it to one. I have given her letters from my doctor stating that, not only can I not give up either of my cats without severe emotional distress, but I am in no way physically able to pack and move, let alone financially.
I am set to be evicted by the 12th of Nov., but I got a lawyer this past morning, and I am hoping that he will help by relieving some of my stress of this. I have already had multiple severe medical problems related to the stress and anxiety from this fight. But nobody is going to take away pretty much the only reason for living these days.
I hope those of you who call us 'fakes' or make this sound like a joke, that you will lose someone very close to you, then see how funny it is.
LOLCats