"And a few lowlife men encouraging them to do so."
"Arrogant or not, guys who go to those clubs don't have the balls to be real men."
Oh my God! You keep scarying me, FFMCobalt when you state just exactly my principles.
I just realised this was one of the conditions I forgot to add on my list of "good enough for a date". Hehehe!
"Yes, yes I am. I am better than guys who go to strip clubs"
Yes, yes! You are better in my book. Don't mind those men whining. They have no respect for women: They shut down her mouth and won't let her express her disapproval or they act as though her feelings doesn't matter.
Seriously, though, I have stated it before and will state it again: Any man who's into stripper visits even before he ever proposes to me will be crossed out of my book <period>. I want a man with class . . . a real man. I will not accept any double standards. It's one thing to set rules to live by which are unconventional but mutually reached, but it is another to pretend to live vy societal standard and disrespect a woman that way. I will not take that . . . I don't care if it is that night before wedding . . . I'm calling it off.
Think of how illogical that is . . . if that is okay for a man to do that, then what is the point of a relationship with her? In essence, it is suggesting that relationships limited to one is simply a constraint or suffocating. If so, why not just we accept polygamy, bigamy, etc.? I sure as hell would rather he made it known to me that we were just companions. I don't mind companionship than some pretentious bf or hubby. Besides, I know I'm good looking enough for him to get his satisfaction from even when looking at. Any man who does that crap is no real man in my book.
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