Seriously, grow some balls, you nutless pimple farmers!
I don't mind the occasional thread regarding legality of child custody, interesting anecdotes about psychotic drunken exes or what have you, but if I see another thread about some poor lost nerd loser who can't interpret the blatant signals from a girl showing she wants to ride his pony, I swear I'm going to turn someone's neck into a bendy toy.
As far as most of us are concerned, you only live once. That means carpe diem, be a man of action, stop cowering in the corners and stand up for yourself!
Some hints:
- If she acts like she likes you, ASK HER OUT. What's the worst that can happen? She says no. It won't ruin the friendship unless YOU start acting awkard.
- If your life is a living hell because of your significant other, REGARDLESS of how happy you are when she's not torturing you, dump her. You can do better. Granted, no relationship is 100% perfect all the time, but pretty obvious cues to pack your bags are "she went out with another guy to his prom" or "we had our umpteenth fight this week"
- Mind your own g-damn business. Girl you like dating a deadbeat loser? Let her. How would you like it if some hotshot kept trying to convince your g/f to dump you because he didn't like you?
- If you feel the desire to "rescue" a girl, she's likely beyond repair. Successful relationships are built when two people are both secure and confident in themselves. Dragging someone out of the gutter and resuscitating them is a good way to get a codependent living appendage, not a girlfriend.
- Live and learn. Do I call now? How about tomorrow? Should I do this? If you were meant to be with this person, or if they truly cared about you, they'd let you know when you do something wrong. Mistakes are a part of life. Maybe you'll lose one because you called to much. Maybe you lose one because you didn't handle arguments properly. Learn from your mistakes and apply that to the next girl you find.
I just wonder what some people did before there were anonymous internet forums where you could post stuff like this. Me, I just sacked up and asked girls out. Sure, I've been beat down a few times and sent home with my tail between my legs for not following the "rules" but that's how it is.
If you REALLY need help, I think you could do better than a tech forum, honestly.
Try dating.about.com. They have forums there full of people who actually have experience with it, imagine that!
Maybe this will make people think twice about bitching about their 9th grade g/f being a bitch, maybe it won't. I sure feel better now, though! 😀
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I don't mind the occasional thread regarding legality of child custody, interesting anecdotes about psychotic drunken exes or what have you, but if I see another thread about some poor lost nerd loser who can't interpret the blatant signals from a girl showing she wants to ride his pony, I swear I'm going to turn someone's neck into a bendy toy.
As far as most of us are concerned, you only live once. That means carpe diem, be a man of action, stop cowering in the corners and stand up for yourself!
Some hints:
- If she acts like she likes you, ASK HER OUT. What's the worst that can happen? She says no. It won't ruin the friendship unless YOU start acting awkard.
- If your life is a living hell because of your significant other, REGARDLESS of how happy you are when she's not torturing you, dump her. You can do better. Granted, no relationship is 100% perfect all the time, but pretty obvious cues to pack your bags are "she went out with another guy to his prom" or "we had our umpteenth fight this week"
- Mind your own g-damn business. Girl you like dating a deadbeat loser? Let her. How would you like it if some hotshot kept trying to convince your g/f to dump you because he didn't like you?
- If you feel the desire to "rescue" a girl, she's likely beyond repair. Successful relationships are built when two people are both secure and confident in themselves. Dragging someone out of the gutter and resuscitating them is a good way to get a codependent living appendage, not a girlfriend.
- Live and learn. Do I call now? How about tomorrow? Should I do this? If you were meant to be with this person, or if they truly cared about you, they'd let you know when you do something wrong. Mistakes are a part of life. Maybe you'll lose one because you called to much. Maybe you lose one because you didn't handle arguments properly. Learn from your mistakes and apply that to the next girl you find.
I just wonder what some people did before there were anonymous internet forums where you could post stuff like this. Me, I just sacked up and asked girls out. Sure, I've been beat down a few times and sent home with my tail between my legs for not following the "rules" but that's how it is.
If you REALLY need help, I think you could do better than a tech forum, honestly.
Try dating.about.com. They have forums there full of people who actually have experience with it, imagine that!
Maybe this will make people think twice about bitching about their 9th grade g/f being a bitch, maybe it won't. I sure feel better now, though! 😀
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