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pulse8

Lifer
May 3, 2000
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Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: FallenHero
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Just not care? If she felt nothing and remembers nothing, I don't see why it's a big deal.

std's and rape are always a big deal whether you remember them or not.

She's stupid for putting herself in that situation. That's for sure.

your right. Its always the girls fault for getting raped...EVEN THOUGH SHE LOCKED THE DOOR!
Apparently in your world, girls cannot have fun, because it will always be there fault.
Rape is a crime of power and domination, not of lust.

You people are fvckin retarded.


As for the original poster, go to the hospital. They have rape kits there and will perform tests. Even condoms leave trace evidence that can be picked up by the tests. Better safe than sorry.

Even if they do determine she had sex, that does NOT mean it was rape.

Oh wait, if the girl was drunk the guy automatically raped her.

My bad, carry on.

rolleye.gif


Viper GTS

If the girl was drunk and asleep...that's not rape?
 

Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: FallenHero
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Just not care? If she felt nothing and remembers nothing, I don't see why it's a big deal.

std's and rape are always a big deal whether you remember them or not.

She's stupid for putting herself in that situation. That's for sure.

your right. Its always the girls fault for getting raped...EVEN THOUGH SHE LOCKED THE DOOR!
Apparently in your world, girls cannot have fun, because it will always be there fault.
Rape is a crime of power and domination, not of lust.

You people are fvckin retarded.


As for the original poster, go to the hospital. They have rape kits there and will perform tests. Even condoms leave trace evidence that can be picked up by the tests. Better safe than sorry.

Even if they do determine she had sex, that does NOT mean it was rape.

Oh wait, if the girl was drunk the guy automatically raped her.

My bad, carry on.

rolleye.gif


Viper GTS

your right, who needs consent? All we need to do is give a girl a couple beers and that implies consent.
 

Encryptic

Diamond Member
May 21, 2003
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Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Just not care? If she felt nothing and remembers nothing, I don't see why it's a big deal.

std's and rape are always a big deal whether you remember them or not.

She's stupid for putting herself in that situation. That's for sure.

Please STFU and STOP POSTING. She locked the fvcking door before she went to sleep. Even if she passed out asleep without locking the door, that does not justify someone fvcking her while she's asleep.
 

dabuddha

Lifer
Apr 10, 2000
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Originally posted by: FallenHero
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Just not care? If she felt nothing and remembers nothing, I don't see why it's a big deal.

std's and rape are always a big deal whether you remember them or not.

She's stupid for putting herself in that situation. That's for sure.

your right. Its always the girls fault for getting raped...EVEN THOUGH SHE LOCKED THE DOOR!
Apparently in your world, girls cannot have fun, because it will always be there fault.
Rape is a crime of power and domination, not of lust.

You people are fvckin retarded.


As for the original poster, go to the hospital. They have rape kits there and will perform tests. Even condoms leave trace evidence that can be picked up by the tests. Better safe than sorry.

Uh good one Mr. Bright one. Where did anyone say it was the girl's fault for being raped?
rolleye.gif

If you're idea of having fun is to get so roaring drunk that you can't do anything except to pass out, then I pity you.
rolleye.gif


( Your comment was so stupid it deserved the double
rolleye.gif
:) )
 

Gunslinger08

Lifer
Nov 18, 2001
13,234
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Originally posted by: pulse8
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: FallenHero
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Just not care? If she felt nothing and remembers nothing, I don't see why it's a big deal.

std's and rape are always a big deal whether you remember them or not.

She's stupid for putting herself in that situation. That's for sure.

your right. Its always the girls fault for getting raped...EVEN THOUGH SHE LOCKED THE DOOR!
Apparently in your world, girls cannot have fun, because it will always be there fault.
Rape is a crime of power and domination, not of lust.

You people are fvckin retarded.


As for the original poster, go to the hospital. They have rape kits there and will perform tests. Even condoms leave trace evidence that can be picked up by the tests. Better safe than sorry.

Even if they do determine she had sex, that does NOT mean it was rape.

Oh wait, if the girl was drunk the guy automatically raped her.

My bad, carry on.

rolleye.gif


Viper GTS

If the girl was drunk and asleep...that's not rape?

Heard of black outs?

Happens pretty frequently at my college. Girls drink too much, black out, wake up not knowing what they did. I had to confront one of my friends to get her to stop drinking because of what she was doing to herself.
 

dabuddha

Lifer
Apr 10, 2000
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Originally posted by: Encryptic
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Just not care? If she felt nothing and remembers nothing, I don't see why it's a big deal.

std's and rape are always a big deal whether you remember them or not.

She's stupid for putting herself in that situation. That's for sure.

Please STFU and STOP POSTING. She locked the fvcking door before she went to sleep. Even if she passed out asleep without locking the door, that does not justify someone fvcking her while she's asleep.

Boy you people are real idiots. For all we know, she might have just screwed the guy and forgot about it in the morning. You do recall that she was extremely drunk right? Or are you too stupid to understand this?
rolleye.gif
 

iamme

Lifer
Jul 21, 2001
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just out of curiosity, gigapet, why didn't any of her friends try to take her home instead of leaving her there overnight?
 

pulse8

Lifer
May 3, 2000
20,860
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Originally posted by: joshsquall
Originally posted by: pulse8
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: FallenHero
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Just not care? If she felt nothing and remembers nothing, I don't see why it's a big deal.

std's and rape are always a big deal whether you remember them or not.

She's stupid for putting herself in that situation. That's for sure.

your right. Its always the girls fault for getting raped...EVEN THOUGH SHE LOCKED THE DOOR!
Apparently in your world, girls cannot have fun, because it will always be there fault.
Rape is a crime of power and domination, not of lust.

You people are fvckin retarded.


As for the original poster, go to the hospital. They have rape kits there and will perform tests. Even condoms leave trace evidence that can be picked up by the tests. Better safe than sorry.

Even if they do determine she had sex, that does NOT mean it was rape.

Oh wait, if the girl was drunk the guy automatically raped her.

My bad, carry on.

rolleye.gif


Viper GTS

If the girl was drunk and asleep...that's not rape?

Heard of black outs?

Happens pretty frequently at my college. Girls drink too much, black out, wake up not knowing what they did. I had to confront one of my friends to get her to stop drinking because of what she was doing to herself.

So if a girl blacks out (which I take to also mean pass out), it's alright to do whatever you want to her if she doesn't feel anything, doesn't remember anything, isn't pregnant and has no STDs?
 

Viper GTS

Lifer
Oct 13, 1999
38,107
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Originally posted by: FallenHero
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: FallenHero
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Just not care? If she felt nothing and remembers nothing, I don't see why it's a big deal.

std's and rape are always a big deal whether you remember them or not.

She's stupid for putting herself in that situation. That's for sure.

your right. Its always the girls fault for getting raped...EVEN THOUGH SHE LOCKED THE DOOR!
Apparently in your world, girls cannot have fun, because it will always be there fault.
Rape is a crime of power and domination, not of lust.

You people are fvckin retarded.


As for the original poster, go to the hospital. They have rape kits there and will perform tests. Even condoms leave trace evidence that can be picked up by the tests. Better safe than sorry.

Even if they do determine she had sex, that does NOT mean it was rape.

Oh wait, if the girl was drunk the guy automatically raped her.

My bad, carry on.

rolleye.gif


Viper GTS

your right, who needs consent? All we need to do is give a girl a couple beers and that implies consent.

Apparently you didn't read my post, all i said was that the current norm is to automatically blame the guy if the girl was drunk.

Nevermind if the guy was drunk too, it must be his fault.

People need to learn to take responsibility for their own actions, if you got drunk & fvcked the ugliest guy at the party... It wasn't automatically rape.

Don't get me wrong, I despise rapists - But the current laws SUCK.

Viper GTS
 

IamElectro

Golden Member
Jul 15, 2003
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If she's not pregnant and didn't get any STDs, what harm is done?

That has to be the dumbest thing I have ever heard. Wht don't you go out get drunk pass out get thrown in jail and wake up with a sore @ss and see if its a big deal.
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: Encryptic
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Just not care? If she felt nothing and remembers nothing, I don't see why it's a big deal.

std's and rape are always a big deal whether you remember them or not.

She's stupid for putting herself in that situation. That's for sure.

Please STFU and STOP POSTING. She locked the fvcking door before she went to sleep. Even if she passed out asleep without locking the door, that does not justify someone fvcking her while she's asleep.

Boy you people are real idiots. For all we know, she might have just screwed the guy and forgot about it in the morning. You do recall that she was extremely drunk right? Or are you too stupid to understand this?
rolleye.gif

she also claims that if indedd she did have sex it could have been consensual or it could have been rape......


its like pulling teeth getting info out of her.....she just told me this happened like 3 weeks ago so no test will ever confirm the goings on in the bedroom that night.

 

Gunslinger08

Lifer
Nov 18, 2001
13,234
2
81
Originally posted by: pulse8
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Originally posted by: pulse8
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: FallenHero
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Just not care? If she felt nothing and remembers nothing, I don't see why it's a big deal.

std's and rape are always a big deal whether you remember them or not.

She's stupid for putting herself in that situation. That's for sure.

your right. Its always the girls fault for getting raped...EVEN THOUGH SHE LOCKED THE DOOR!
Apparently in your world, girls cannot have fun, because it will always be there fault.
Rape is a crime of power and domination, not of lust.

You people are fvckin retarded.


As for the original poster, go to the hospital. They have rape kits there and will perform tests. Even condoms leave trace evidence that can be picked up by the tests. Better safe than sorry.

Even if they do determine she had sex, that does NOT mean it was rape.

Oh wait, if the girl was drunk the guy automatically raped her.

My bad, carry on.

rolleye.gif


Viper GTS

If the girl was drunk and asleep...that's not rape?

Heard of black outs?

Happens pretty frequently at my college. Girls drink too much, black out, wake up not knowing what they did. I had to confront one of my friends to get her to stop drinking because of what she was doing to herself.

So if a girl blacks out (which I take to also mean pass out), it's alright to do whatever you want to her if she doesn't feel anything, doesn't remember anything, isn't pregnant and has no STDs?

No. During black out, a person doesn't even realize they exist anymore. They do things (they are awake), but when the black out if over, they have no memory of what they did.
 

dabuddha

Lifer
Apr 10, 2000
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17
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Originally posted by: pulse8
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Originally posted by: pulse8
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Originally posted by: FallenHero
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Just not care? If she felt nothing and remembers nothing, I don't see why it's a big deal.

std's and rape are always a big deal whether you remember them or not.

She's stupid for putting herself in that situation. That's for sure.

your right. Its always the girls fault for getting raped...EVEN THOUGH SHE LOCKED THE DOOR!
Apparently in your world, girls cannot have fun, because it will always be there fault.
Rape is a crime of power and domination, not of lust.

You people are fvckin retarded.


As for the original poster, go to the hospital. They have rape kits there and will perform tests. Even condoms leave trace evidence that can be picked up by the tests. Better safe than sorry.

Even if they do determine she had sex, that does NOT mean it was rape.

Oh wait, if the girl was drunk the guy automatically raped her.

My bad, carry on.

rolleye.gif


Viper GTS

If the girl was drunk and asleep...that's not rape?

Heard of black outs?

Happens pretty frequently at my college. Girls drink too much, black out, wake up not knowing what they did. I had to confront one of my friends to get her to stop drinking because of what she was doing to herself.

So if a girl blacks out (which I take to also mean pass out), it's alright to do whatever you want to her if she doesn't feel anything, doesn't remember anything, isn't pregnant and has no STDs?

She might have already consented and might have blacked out while having sex. Hell, they were probably both drunk and he probably didn't even notice that she had blacked out. It's sad enough when women start crying rape after having sex and feeling guilty about it. Now idiots start claiming that a girl was raped without even knowing all the information.
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: iamme
just out of curiosity, gigapet, why didn't any of her friends try to take her home instead of leaving her there overnight?

she is friends with the kid. Its not unusual for her to get drunk and sleep over at friends houses instead of driving home. This isnt the first time but she claims it will be the last.
 

dabuddha

Lifer
Apr 10, 2000
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Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: Encryptic
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Just not care? If she felt nothing and remembers nothing, I don't see why it's a big deal.

std's and rape are always a big deal whether you remember them or not.

She's stupid for putting herself in that situation. That's for sure.

Please STFU and STOP POSTING. She locked the fvcking door before she went to sleep. Even if she passed out asleep without locking the door, that does not justify someone fvcking her while she's asleep.

Boy you people are real idiots. For all we know, she might have just screwed the guy and forgot about it in the morning. You do recall that she was extremely drunk right? Or are you too stupid to understand this?
rolleye.gif

she also claims that if indedd she did have sex it could have been consensual or it could have been rape......


its like pulling teeth getting info out of her.....she just told me this happened like 3 weeks ago so no test will ever confirm the goings on in the bedroom that night.

Exactly. We'll never really know the truth.
 

iamme

Lifer
Jul 21, 2001
21,058
3
0
Originally posted by: gigapet

she also claims that if indedd she did have sex it could have been consensual or it could have been rape......

its like pulling teeth getting info out of her.....she just told me this happened like 3 weeks ago so no test will ever confirm the goings on in the bedroom that night.

if it happened 3 weeks ago, i don't think any of this matters now. tests probably won't show anything (but then again, i'm not expert)

if she's not pregnant and didn't get an STD, she should just thank her lucky stars.

she sounds very irresponsible and i hope she learned something from this.
 

Gunslinger08

Lifer
Nov 18, 2001
13,234
2
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Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: Encryptic
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: joshsquall
Just not care? If she felt nothing and remembers nothing, I don't see why it's a big deal.

std's and rape are always a big deal whether you remember them or not.

She's stupid for putting herself in that situation. That's for sure.

Please STFU and STOP POSTING. She locked the fvcking door before she went to sleep. Even if she passed out asleep without locking the door, that does not justify someone fvcking her while she's asleep.

Boy you people are real idiots. For all we know, she might have just screwed the guy and forgot about it in the morning. You do recall that she was extremely drunk right? Or are you too stupid to understand this?
rolleye.gif

she also claims that if indedd she did have sex it could have been consensual or it could have been rape......


its like pulling teeth getting info out of her.....she just told me this happened like 3 weeks ago so no test will ever confirm the goings on in the bedroom that night.

I'm glad she can admit that both sides are possible, and not instantly cry out rape.
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
10,005
0
76
Originally posted by: iamme
Originally posted by: gigapet

she also claims that if indedd she did have sex it could have been consensual or it could have been rape......

its like pulling teeth getting info out of her.....she just told me this happened like 3 weeks ago so no test will ever confirm the goings on in the bedroom that night.

if it happened 3 weeks ago, i don't think any of this matters now. tests probably won't show anything.

if she's not pregnant and didn't get an STD, she should just thank her lucky stars.

she sounds very irresponsible and i hope she learned something from this.


She did. She was very embarassed about the whole thing. I'm the only one she told and after 3 weeks!!! It was seriously pulling teeth to get her to come out with it cuz i knew she was keeping something from me cuz its unlike her to just randomly decide to stop drinking.
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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just think the whole thing could have been avoided if she just smoked some weed and didnt drink.