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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
thats nasty. what makes you think she'll even tell you the truth when she gets the results back.
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While I'd normally agree with you here I don't think it's prudent for him to start thinking like this......yet anyway.

From wiki:

Chlamydia is known as the "Silent Epidemic" because in women, it may not cause any symptom and will linger for months or years before being discovered.
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So it's very possible she's been carrying it and not showing symptoms until now. This sorta stuff can kill the trust in a relationship fast. While it's true all women lie (any who say otherwise are lying...and hey, us men do it too), it's best to give your girl the benefit of the doubt unless you have hard evidence otherwise.

Good luck, and try not to worry OP.
 
Originally posted by: Josh123
Ok, so me and my GF haven't been with anyone else for a year now. She ended up going to the doctor for a checkup last week and found out she might have Chlamydia or maybe HPV, but we're still waiting on the blood results. She said that she has had a discharge for a couple months and hasn't told me. My question is, could an STD like chlamydia or HPV lay dormant for an entire year? Also I've had a few bumps right below my belly button that haven't gone away for about 2 months after having sex.

I really hope it's ok to ask these questions in this forum lol. Thanks
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wtf... get your partner tested earlier I guess...
 
Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
thats nasty. what makes you think she'll even tell you the truth when she gets the results back.
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While I'd normally agree with you here I don't think it's prudent for him to start thinking like this......yet anyway.

From wiki:

Chlamydia is known as the "Silent Epidemic" because in women, it may not cause any symptom and will linger for months or years before being discovered.
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So it's very possible she's been carrying it and not showing symptoms until now. This sorta stuff can kill the trust in a relationship fast. While it's true all women lie (any who say otherwise are lying...and hey, us men do it too), it's best to give your girl the benefit of the doubt unless you have hard evidence otherwise.

Good luck, and try not to worry OP.
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Thanks man, from you that really puts my mind at ease, honestly lol.

 
youve waited to long and its going to fall off.

you should use google and search there for your answers.

and someones been dipping outside of the cat trap
 
Originally posted by: thirdlegstump
Also to note, HPV is commonly transmitted through anal sex.
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that is a crock of $hit, did you make that up? these myths are amazing, no wonder there is so much misconception about hpv.

hpv would probably not cause discharge, when are the results in?

 
Originally posted by: Josh123
But are these signs that she could of messed around on me? She came in after her checkup and asked me in a pissed off tone "Have you messed around with someone else?" I haven't, and she said that she hasn't.
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The best defense is an offense.

I'm assuming that since you are posting here that you haven't cheated. It would make no sense to pull the wool over our eyes.

Go see a doctor and ask two questions:

1) I have reason to believe that I have one or more STDs. Can you please test me?
2) Can the symptoms of <whatever the tests find that you have> lay dormant for a year?
 
Men can also be carriers of the disease. You see it often in the military, men get it either from sharing latrines and showers from other carriers, or from wid romps with other women, and never show signs of having the disease. Many men don't even know they have Chlamydia until they transfer it to their SO's
 
wish you the best OP. ignore the trolls here.

even if your gf did not mess around, you should definitely have a talk with her and that she should be honest when she first noticed something weird with her own body.
 
i know someone that got a lap dance and the stripper's juices rubbed against his stomach...next day he had rashes went to the doc only to find out he got herpes.
 
Originally posted by: JS80
i know someone that got a lap dance and the stripper's juices rubbed against his stomach...next day he had rashes went to the doc only to find out he got herpes.
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that sounds fishy...
 
Originally posted by: Platypus
Nice of her not to tell you about the discharge :roll:
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...also voting for this as the worst part of the whole thing - so far.

I'm surprised you didn't pick up on it sooner if you're down there "tending to the field before the big game" like a proper gent. Then again, if she is infected with something you might end up with some kind of horrible lip/chin sores so it may be best that you didn't.

 
Something like Chlamydia can be cured fairly easily, but think about this: it could just as easily have been HIV and you could have potentially been facing a death sentence. Let that be a lesson --- wrap it up. Unless you are absolutely certain the partner is 'clean' and you've both been tested, wrap it up. No excuses.
 
Originally posted by: Josh123
But are these signs that she could of messed around on me? She came in after her checkup and asked me in a pissed off tone "Have you messed around with someone else?" I haven't, and she said that she hasn't.
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The best defense is a good offense.... classic cheating strategy. First she "forgot" to tell you about a discharge she had "for a long time" (or at least since that trip to Mexico with the girls where she serviced an entire Mariachi band, 2 bartenders and that guy at the taco cart, etc..) and then accuses you of cheating when you KNOW you haven't.

I'm not buying the dormant STD story... if nothing else the woman has a horrible hygiene problem for not noticing an abnormal stanky puss running out of her crotch. Regardless of what her test says I'd be getting myself tested and then taking next train out of dodge and away from ol' drippy beef knuckle. People who can't keep their business from looking/smelling like a truck stop bathroom generally have other issues.
 
Originally posted by: Josh123
She said that she has had a discharge for a couple months
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hmmmmmmmm i have to ask as all the rest. if its pink how does it not stink?

whats it taste like? is it a honey glazed chicken? or more a buttered trout?
 
Originally posted by: yuppiejr
Originally posted by: Josh123
But are these signs that she could of messed around on me? She came in after her checkup and asked me in a pissed off tone "Have you messed around with someone else?" I haven't, and she said that she hasn't.
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The best defense is a good offense.... classic cheating strategy. First she "forgot" to tell you about a discharge she had "for a long time" (or at least since that trip to Mexico with the girls where she serviced an entire Mariachi band, 2 bartenders and that guy at the taco cart, etc..) and then accuses you of cheating when you KNOW you haven't.

I'm not buying the dormant STD story... if nothing else the woman has a horrible hygiene problem for not noticing an abnormal stanky puss running out of her crotch. Regardless of what her test says I'd be getting myself tested and then taking next train out of dodge and away from ol' drippy beef knuckle. People who can't keep their business from looking/smelling like a truck stop bathroom generally have other issues.
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Well thats the thing, it didn't smell or anything. Everything seemed pretty normal when I was down there.
 
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