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Splitting the check at a table - How do you do it?

Feb 19, 2001
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10 people go out to eat, what do you do to split the bill?

Me? Look at gratuity. Is it 15% or 18%? If we're deciding to leave roughly 15%, then it works out with my rule well:

1) Add up all the subtotals of your crap. Ex: $10 alcoholic drink, $6 salad, $15 pasta.

2) Take this subtotal and add 25%. This accounts for sales tax and 15% gratuity. For reference, sales tax in the Bay Area ranges from 9.25 - 9.75%. As long as people aren't rounding down, this should cover it for 9.75%.

Typically works pretty well if you go around and do the math for everyone (ex: "What'd you get?" "Pasta A" "Oh that's $12... so $12 + 25% => $15... gimme $15" "Ok here you go"). If you let people figure it out they'll shortchange you in cases like: "$10 pasta => $12.50... oh let's throw in $12. 20% on top of $10 is a lot"

You can make it 28% if needed, or closer to 30% to deal with SF's ridiculous 4% health surcharge in some previous thread yesterday. But I like how this allows everyone to pay their fair share, as it's usually the men who order the steaks and the women who order the soup and salads.

How do you do it?


My own rant:

I hate it when people take the tax and tip of the overall bill and then divide it 10 ways or whatever. Not so much that I don't want to pay more (I usually am the guy who throws out the extra $ or 2 when we're short), but the fact that it just doesn't make sense. Plus, it's not that hard to figure out your fair share.

At least it's better than the people who just go $150 total bill / 10 people. Of course I don't mind this as much at Asian restaurants where you go family style anyway, or in the case last week where all the dishes ranged from $12 - $13.50. Rather than to figure out the $1 difference we just split it evenly.
 

rcpratt

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Whatever everyone else wants. Frankly, I don't care and would usually be fine with splitting it evenly, but some people always want to add it up exactly.
 

rudeguy

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Dec 27, 2001
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Pay for my part, throw on at least 20% for tip. If the service was good, add $10 on to the tip.
 
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I usually split it evenly and if someone got something extra (a drink, more expensive meal, etc), he throws in a few extra bucks.
 

nageov3t

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usually everyone throws in what they think they owe + extra for tip/tax and it works out in the end.

I usually get the short end of the stick if we do communist dining because I don't drink, don't eat desserts or apps, and usually order something small and low-calorie like a soup or salad.
 
Feb 19, 2001
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pay for what you order and tip on what you bought

But this is is how it typically fails. Someone thinks what they should throw on is a couple dollars, and you count on everyone's math to be on or off. Usually you end up like $20 short in the end because people are short here and there
 

mugs

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Apr 29, 2003
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I don't go out to eat with 10 people unless it's a company outing (company pays) or my in-laws (father-in-law pays). Otherwise there usually isn't more than four people (me, wife, another couple); usually one of us pays the whole check, and the other gets the next time.
 

rudeguy

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I don't go out to eat with 10 people unless it's a company outing (company pays) or my in-laws (father-in-law pays). Otherwise there usually isn't more than four people (me, wife, another couple); usually one of us pays the whole check, and gets to bang the other wife.

:hmm:
 

sandorski

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I gotta take a dump.....days pass by, phone rings
Caller: Hey asshole, you skipped out on us!
Me: Ah shit, I knew I forgot something...I was on my way to take the dump when I got an Emergency call
Caller: Another Emergency? What happened this time?
Me: Just like last time, except it was the Aunt who Died.
Caller: BS asshole!
Me: Srsly! She was heart broken after my Uncle, 2 Cousins, Grandma, and the family Dog Died! I wouldn't BS about this.
Caller: Whatever, you owe me another Case of Beer, that's 6 Cases now.
Me: Ok, will bring them Friday...
Caller: Ya sure Man, whatever
Me: Bye
 

DrPizza

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I don't go out to eat with 10 people unless it's a company outing (company pays) or my in-laws (father-in-law pays). Otherwise there usually isn't more than four people (me, wife, another couple); usually one of us pays the whole check, and the other gets the next time.

Agreed. Went out only once in the past year with that large of a group. I believe we asked the waitress to divide the slips up by couple & promised that if we had good service and she did so, everyone would make sure she got 20%.
 

kt

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Separate checks. Just tell your waiter/waitress ahead of time before you order.
 

Ns1

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the person who wants the miles/cashback puts it on their CC

They go home, put everything into excel, divvy it up, and email everyone.

boom, 100% fairness and accountability.
 

suse920

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the person who wants the miles/cashback puts it on their CC

They go home, put everything into excel, divvy it up, and email everyone.

boom, 100% fairness and accountability.

lol
then go around and collect the $$ from everyone?
damn engineers
 

Ns1

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lol
then go around and collect the $$ from everyone?
damn engineers

financial analysts actually ;)

I could even charge interest and do time value of money calculations if you want!
 

Quasmo

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Went to dinner tonight, when we got the check we asked to have the appetizer split....

She split the appetizer and put everything else on my check. *face plam*