Well I just got back. Said no contest. They lowered the fine a bit but after court costs it ended up almost the same as if I just mailed it, $207 as opposed to $225 and still got 2 points... Kind of a waste of time.
Sorry I did not see this earlier as I was out of country - could have given you advice based on experience.
a. First option : Pay $50 to an attorney and get it wiped clean with some inane fine that does not affect your points. ALWAYS RECOMMENDED.
b. 2nd : get the date deferred yourself. Some courts you can call and get this done; at others, you have to go in person, but of course,
before the actual date. Do this a couple of times (some counties allow only once), and by the time you make an appearance, the cop does not, and it gets reduced/thrown out. (I have not done this myself, but a friend used to be an expert in this).
c. 3rd option : represent yourself on the said date, but meet with the clerk before 'court is in session', and express the intention of pleading not guilty. By the time it's your turn, they just tap it down to just a fine.
d. You could take a defensive drivers course and escape point-free. The course is a couple of hours long, and is online nowadays, and costs some money, but can be used only once in 12 months.
I've had 9 'moving' tickets in NJ, NY and FL, and in 7 I have used (a) above. In one I did (c), and the last time I used (d) - an online 'defensive driver' course, which costs around $200 but lets you off without points; of course you can use that only once a year!
Remember, when I paid the attorney, I still paid the fine ranging from $85 to $250 (depending on the gravity of my offence), but I
never got points added to my license, so my insurance was never affected.