You know the IPMI controller from all the major manufacturers, including Dell is built onto the motherboard, right? The separate card that Dell sells (Advanced DRAC) is simply a software license and dedicated NIC. The other manufacturers just make that choice for you and either have the dedicated NIC built in or only have the option for IPMI to share one of the onboard NIC's. In all cases the BMC is on the motherboard.
It's still something that you have access to though, and typically also uses a separate NIC, and can be disabled. Supermicro has it too and I set it up on some of my servers but you can disable it if you want. It also only works at the LAN level so it's not as big of a security issue because it requires physical access to the network. Ex: you would not enable it on an internet facing firewall NIC. But with ME it's enabled no matter what on all nics and nobody really has access to it except for Intel and maybe the government.