Terzo - all the questions you've asked are answered in Rippetoe's Starging Strength book. I highly recommend you buy it and read it through as it is the ultimate resource for barbell exercises.
Originally posted by: Terzo
1. How are you supposed to spot the overhead press and barbell row? I haven't been able to figure anything out.
You don't. Proper spotting technique is very important to understand for your own safety, so at the risk of repeating what you may know, here are some general tips:
* The ONLY role of a spotter is to ensure the safety of the lifter.
* Therefore, a spotter is only allowed/necessary for exercises where being unable to finish a rep puts the lifter in danger.
* A spotter should ONLY help with a rep if it is clear that the lifter cannot complete that rep by himself. The typical indication is that the bar has stopped moving or started moving in the wrong direction.
* Once a spotter has helped, the set is over. Don't try another rep.
* Any reps a spotter helped with don't count. After all, the lifter didn't actual lift that weight himself.
* Use only ONE spotter, never two. No matter how much they try, two people can never work in perfect unison, so someone will end up tilting the weight, which only makes matters worse. The only exception is if you are a professional power lifter putting up weights that exceed one person's ability to spot, but I doubt that applies to you
Let me reiterate the key point: the spotter ONLY helps out if the lifter clearly cannot complete the rep. Once the spotter intervenes, that set is finished. The spotter does NOT help the lifter on every rep like some guys do at the gym. All too often you see one guy doing bench press and his "spotter" doing shrugs. You'd be amazed at the weight two people can lift together that way...
Here is a break down by exercise:
* Squat: if you are squatting in a power rack with safety bars, no spotter is necessary. Set the safety bars at the appropriate height before starting the set and if the lifter can't get a rep up, the lifter should just squat all the way back down and let the weight fall onto the safety bars. If you are using bumper plates, you can also just let the weight fall to the floor (make sure no one is nearby!). Practice this with light weight so you know how to do it before you get in trouble.
If neither of these options is possible, then ONE person can provide a spot to help finish the rep. It is quite tricky to do properly, so the power cage or bumper plates are definitely the best option. The spotter should stand behind the lifter, and if the lifter can't finish a rep, the spotter should place his hands on the bar just outside the lifter's hands and, as much as possible, try to lift some of the weight up with the lifter. Remember, you spot the bar, not the lifter, so don't grab him around the waist like some people do.
* Bench press: this is the only lift where a spotter is truly necessary. The spotter can help the lifter unrack the weight (called a "lift") at the beginning of a set, but afterwards, the spotter moves out of the way. If the spotter sees that the lifter can't finish a rep (the weight is standing still or coming back down), he can come in, place both hands on the bar in between the lifter's hands and help get the weight back up. Make sure to pull the weight UP first (ie, have the lifter properly lock out the rep) and only then rack it. If you try to pull the bar onto the pins immediately, you may pull back too much and end up with the bar UNDER the pins, which isn't good.
* Overhead press: no spotting is allowed. If the lifter can't finish the rep, he should either drop the weight to the floor (if you have bumper plates) or just rack it on his shoulders and then lower it back down. Practice this with light weight before you do heavy weight so you know what to do if you get in trouble. Attempting to spot this overhead press is dangerous, as missed reps are sometimes dropped, and the spotter may put himself and the lifter in danger by being in the way.
* Deadlift, barbell row, power clean, pull-up, dip, and everything else: no spotting is allowed or needed. If you can't finish the rep just put the weight down or drop it if you are using bumper plates. There is no danger involved so no spotter is necessary.
Originally posted by: Terzo
2. Is it normal to suck at half the exercises? So far, I'm feel confident when we tackle the squats, benches, deadlifts, and dips. But every time I struggle with pull/chin ups, overheads, and rows. For what it's worth, our last set of overhead/rows was 80 pounds total, whereas we're at 110 total for the bench.
For the average trained lifter, the core lifts, from strongest to weakest will usually be:
deadlift > squat > bench > power clean > press
The barbell row will usually be between bench and power cleans. Obviously, this can vary depending on your training, but this order will apply to most people. You will not do the same weight for every exercise, and you shouldn't expect to. If you check out the
weightlifting performance standards, for example, a typical 165lbs novice is expected to deadlift 254, squat 204, bench press 152, clean 147, and overhead press 102.
So, you benching 110 and doing 80 for overhead press and rows seems pretty normal.