Some quick background, I ended a 2 years relationship with my gf at the end of Feb and it took awhile, but I'm finally over her. During our 2 year relationship, I became pretty close with her sister and her son (Lets call her Karen and him George). I sort of adopted him as my own nephew and kind of act like a big brother. During our visits to Karen's house, my girlfriend would joke that I was now part of the family and that if I ever broke up with her I would still be welcome at her sisters.
Anyway, back to the story. Recently (2 months after breakin up) Karen and George came to town and called me up. Me and George went to a movie and went to eat and stuff. Well, it turns out that Karen never called my exgf when they came into town because she has become a very mean person since we broke up. She has broken contact with her family and bites the head of anyone else in her life. I recently went my exfg's web journal and the basics of her writing of the last few months are "Family is nothing more than blood, they are no better than anyone else. I can't rely on anyone else but myself." Basically she is just feeling sorry for herself.
Well, here is where it gets tricky. Karen just got an email saying "Wow, so I just heard that Joe and George went to a movie last week. Hope they had fun. I would have really liked to have heard about this from you directly... Ohhh F*(cking well!"
Karen emailed me and asked if I told her and I wrote back saying no. But after thinking about it, the only person I mentioned anything about it was my dad. Yep, you guessed it, he told her unwittingly. Apparently my ex came up to him asking about me and telling my father what had happened with our relationship. He was sort of shocked as he didn't even know that we weren't still together. But he ended up telling her that I am my own man and he doesn't tell me what to do, so she should just move on and get on with her life. Apparently in the beginning of the conversation, he mentioned something about the movie I saw and her mentioned something about George.
So, long story short, my ex is pissed at the world and I don't feel the least bit pity for her. She is a mean person and no one in life ever sticks around. Though, she has had quite a hard life and has reason to be jaded. She is 33 years old and has been divorced 3 times. She is bipolar as well as agoraphobic (fear of large groups of people), she lost one child to SIDS, and had another child only to give it up for adoption. She was abused as a child and left home at the age of 14 to live on her own. She was kicked out of the military for medical problems and now lives on disability and social security. She lives from pay check to paycheck and has no idea how to manage her money.
Basically, she is just f$%cked!
I just can't beleive that I made it 2 whole years in a relationship with her.... I wish I hadn't.
Anyway, back to the story. Recently (2 months after breakin up) Karen and George came to town and called me up. Me and George went to a movie and went to eat and stuff. Well, it turns out that Karen never called my exgf when they came into town because she has become a very mean person since we broke up. She has broken contact with her family and bites the head of anyone else in her life. I recently went my exfg's web journal and the basics of her writing of the last few months are "Family is nothing more than blood, they are no better than anyone else. I can't rely on anyone else but myself." Basically she is just feeling sorry for herself.
Well, here is where it gets tricky. Karen just got an email saying "Wow, so I just heard that Joe and George went to a movie last week. Hope they had fun. I would have really liked to have heard about this from you directly... Ohhh F*(cking well!"
Karen emailed me and asked if I told her and I wrote back saying no. But after thinking about it, the only person I mentioned anything about it was my dad. Yep, you guessed it, he told her unwittingly. Apparently my ex came up to him asking about me and telling my father what had happened with our relationship. He was sort of shocked as he didn't even know that we weren't still together. But he ended up telling her that I am my own man and he doesn't tell me what to do, so she should just move on and get on with her life. Apparently in the beginning of the conversation, he mentioned something about the movie I saw and her mentioned something about George.
So, long story short, my ex is pissed at the world and I don't feel the least bit pity for her. She is a mean person and no one in life ever sticks around. Though, she has had quite a hard life and has reason to be jaded. She is 33 years old and has been divorced 3 times. She is bipolar as well as agoraphobic (fear of large groups of people), she lost one child to SIDS, and had another child only to give it up for adoption. She was abused as a child and left home at the age of 14 to live on her own. She was kicked out of the military for medical problems and now lives on disability and social security. She lives from pay check to paycheck and has no idea how to manage her money.
Basically, she is just f$%cked!
I just can't beleive that I made it 2 whole years in a relationship with her.... I wish I hadn't.
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