SherEPunjab
Diamond Member
Originally posted by: Ornery
If I heard somebody yell at my mom, because she had done something wrong, I'd cringe, maybe tell them to back off, but I'd be pretty disappointed in my mom. You're giving this person the benefit of a doubt, and I'm not. I've heard that in Japan, you can leave your purse on a park bench and know it will be there when you return. Something about the family name being shamed if you get caught stealing. Can't say the same about The States or even the city I live in. I can't trust anybody, and for that same reason, they don't get the benefit of a doubt, either.Originally posted by: SherEPunjab
Originally posted by: Ornery
"...that it is a fire zone, whatever. But to flick her off and call her a b*tch demonstrates bad judgement. I would simply like to ask him to answer the following question: if your mom had done that, would you have liked it if someone did that to her?"
Believe me, being in a fire zone had NOTHING to do with me being pissed, though it would have been the reason for her being towed. I've never been accused of being too polite, but I ain't a pushover either! If my wife hadn't made me wait so long, it probably wouldn't have come to such a head. I may have taken' out my frustration on this person, and I think my wife feels that way, too. If my mom had done that I'd know her stroke had taken a toll, because she's the one who drummed into me, the fact that you obey the rules... ALWAYS! I still make rolling stops and drive a few miles per hour over the limit, but I never pull this kind of crap. Stoop to her level? Yep, I'm guilty this time, but courteous on the road otherwise!
Thats what I was saying man, you dont know the woman's history. What if she had suffered from a stroke, maybe it was an emergency run to the grocer's pharmacy... it could be any number of things. I'm not saying don't confront her, by all means, thats you right, but i think its wrong to call the woman a bad name and flick her off.
I know any one of us here on AT would be mad if that happened to our mom's, no matter WHAT she did.
I heard in Saudi (really, not a joke) people leave money under their empty spring water bottles that they leave outside their apts for the water guys to pick up. People there don't steal either, but they have different reasons not to. 🙂