So..you know what can happen after you just pay off your house?

WA261

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Your wife FUCKS YOU by telling you she wants a divorce. No shit..I am gone for a week on the deer hunt and get home to a phone call telling me she wants a divorce. WHAT A wise and beautiful woman!!!! She tells me I need to GET OUT of the house (I JUST PAID IT OFF!!) that she is keeping it, and as long as I am cool with her she wont go after the stock. WTF!!!????? I am in shock for a day or 2, and know Utah is a 50/50 split asset state so I am fucked...grrrr. She tells me we don't need a lawyer to divided the other stuff (boat, motor-home, 4-wheelers, etc) we will just do it on our own. SO PISSED TO THINK THE wise and beautiful woman COULD DO THIS TO ME!! I cashed in a bit of the stock I was left from my gram to pay the house off. I was like fuck! My grand mother left that to me, I spent some of it to help out family and now I am getting fucked out of it.

SO I THOUGHT!!.......I called a divorce lawyer yesterday. Even though Utah is a 50/50 asset split state, IT DOES NOT apply to any items that are gifted in a will. So, all of the stock can not be touched by her, and ANY items that were purchased from cashing in some of the stock CAN NOT be touched by her!!!!! IT IS ALL MINE!!! WOOHOOOO!!!!! Stupid wise and beautiful woman lets me take out 50k at 1st to pay off credit cards and any debt we had (we have no debt at all now) put in a bunch of huge maples, build a big patio cover out back and THEN talks me into paying off the house. It was after this shit gets done that she tells me she wants a divorce. Hmmm, why do I think it was not a coincidence? Yeah, nice plan bitch! BACKFIRED up her ass!

She flipped out when I told her how I talked to the lawyer and she is not getting shit. She told me that it was HER HOUSE!!! Her mother got a divorce and she knows she gets 1/2 of everything!! I had to pull up a page on the net w/ laws regarding inheritance gifts and how the other spouses is not entitled to any of it. Wow, I then turned into the devil. She told me how horrible I was that I was not going to GIVE her the home. That I am such a bad person. And just on and on. It was a joke. I told her....you are the one who is ripping the family apart, I am not the bad one here.


But, since I love my kids more then the world, I am going to let the stupid wise and beautiful woman actually stay in the house. I don't want to to have to have her move and pull the kids out of their lives..friends, school, etc. It is going to be hard enough on the with just the divorce. I am buying another house just right up the street (like 6 houses away) so I can see girls every day and night.



CLIFFS:


Wife talks me into paying off house and all bills.
Wife then tells me she is divorcing me, keeping the house and kicking me out.
Wife thinks she is slick and I am screwed.
I talk to lawyer and find out that since the stock/$ used to pay off house was left to ONLY me in a will she does not get shit!
House is mine but I will let her live there till kids get old enough to move out.
Buying new house right next to old one to be with my girls.
I love it.


 

Biggerhammer

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Damn. Glad for the instant karma for her, sorry to hear about the hurt you and the family are in.
 

MotF Bane

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Go for custody of the kids. If you take custody, then you can stay in your house, and stay with your kids, plus the bitch is gone.
 

dartworth

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Originally posted by: God Mode
You're nuts. Why are you letting her stay? You lose man.

this...don't give her shit


she won't hesitate to stick it in your ass...seen it happen many times:(
 

mugs

Lifer
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Originally posted by: WA261

SO I THOUGHT!!.......I called a divorce lawyer yesterday. Even though Utah is a 50/50 asset split state, IT DOES NOT apply to any items that are gifted in a will. So, all of the stock can not be touched by her, and ANY items that were purchased from cashing in some of the stock CAN NOT be touched by her!!!!!

This part may or may not be true. Inherited assets can become community property under certain conditions... See here: http://www.essortment.com/care...egalquestionh_sbqc.htm

Hopefully you end up not getting screwed... just make sure you have a good divorce lawyer.
 

spidey07

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It's your house. Make her move out. Tell your lawyer she was emotionally abusive. Strike first, strike hard and DO NOT LET UP. Any move you make should be directed by your lawyer.
 

HappyPuppy

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OP: U R rong! Any money you put into communal assets are half hers. Also, if you put any part of your inheritance into a bank account or checking account anything that money was spent on is half hers. Have fun with your divorce. You sound like a real asshole.
 

rh71

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Aug 28, 2001
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I'll ask an obvious question - did you have an idea divorce was a possibility? How could something like this come out of the blue?
 

HappyPuppy

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Originally posted by: spidey07
It's your house. Make her move out. Tell your lawyer she was emotionally abusive. Strike first, strike hard and DO NOT LET UP. Any move you make should be directed by your lawyer.

How is it his house if it has both of their names on the title? He's screwed and I don't feel a bit sorry for him.
 

Ronstang

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Originally posted by: spidey07
It's your house. Make her move out. Tell your lawyer she was emotionally abusive. Strike first, strike hard and DO NOT LET UP. Any move you make should be directed by your lawyer.

BINGO....and forget about any feelings you once had for her. She is the enemy and has already proven she will fuck you hard if the opportunity is available. Go to the lawyer ASAP. Get a list of the top divorce lawyers in town and GO SEE THEM ALL so she cannot use any of them. Then you need to hit her as hard as your lawyer thinks is possible. Do not give her anything you are not required by law.
 

lupi

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Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
OP: U R rong! Any money you put into communal assets are half hers. Also, if you put any part of your inheritance into a bank account or checking account anything that money was spent on is half hers. Have fun with your divorce. You sound like a real asshole.

don't you have some traffic to step in front of.
 

ric1287

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Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
OP: U R rong! Any money you put into communal assets are half hers. Also, if you put any part of your inheritance into a bank account or checking account anything that money was spent on is half hers. Have fun with your divorce. You sound like a real asshole.

So the OP, who paid off the house with his own money then was hit with a divorce by the wife who obviously planned all of it is the asshole? This is why divorce needs to be completely overhauled in this country. Women are fucking nuts, and you're a fucking idiot as well
 

iGas

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2 years ago, out of the blue my ex phone to tell me that she wanted out. She also said that she didn't want lawyers involved. I was stupid enough to listen to her and the bitch ended up with a dirty lawyer that cleaned me out.

Sorry to hear that :beer:
 

Cuda1447

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Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
Originally posted by: spidey07
It's your house. Make her move out. Tell your lawyer she was emotionally abusive. Strike first, strike hard and DO NOT LET UP. Any move you make should be directed by your lawyer.

How is it his house if it has both of their names on the title? He's screwed and I don't feel a bit sorry for him.

How can you not feel bad for him? He probably earned most if not all of the money that paid for everything they have. She obviously tricked him into paying off the house before she decided to file for divorce and try to steal it from him.
 

wiredspider

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I would not let her stay, you don't want to be getting screwed later, ie she says you "gifted" her the house as evidenced by letting her stay there...
 

WA261

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Originally posted by: HappyPuppy
OP: U R rong! Any money you put into communal assets are half hers. Also, if you put any part of your inheritance into a bank account or checking account anything that money was spent on is half hers. Have fun with your divorce. You sound like a real asshole.



Maybe where you live, but not here. As I have said...I have already spoken to a lawyer.
And dude...you are the one who sounds like an asshole.


The only reason I am letting her stay is so that some stability can remain in the kids lives. I can afford to buy another house close by, so I they can walk to my house daily. There is nothing she can do to retaliate about not being able to keep the house. She does love the kids as much as me and will do what she can to make them not hurt. She knows they love me and need a father, so even though she is a wise and beautiful woman she wont do anything more that will hurt the kids...besides what she has done.
 

BriGy86

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I would definitely make her move out. How do you know she wont burn/pawn/throw out all your stuff when you're gone.
 

TheVrolok

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If you're buying a house right down the street why don't the girls move in with you there, and then, of course, boot your ex from the house? Or, just keep the girls with you in the house and boot your ex? No way you'll get custody?