Your wife FUCKS YOU by telling you she wants a divorce. No shit..I am gone for a week on the deer hunt and get home to a phone call telling me she wants a divorce. WHAT A wise and beautiful woman!!!! She tells me I need to GET OUT of the house (I JUST PAID IT OFF!!) that she is keeping it, and as long as I am cool with her she wont go after the stock. WTF!!!????? I am in shock for a day or 2, and know Utah is a 50/50 split asset state so I am fucked...grrrr. She tells me we don't need a lawyer to divided the other stuff (boat, motor-home, 4-wheelers, etc) we will just do it on our own. SO PISSED TO THINK THE wise and beautiful woman COULD DO THIS TO ME!! I cashed in a bit of the stock I was left from my gram to pay the house off. I was like fuck! My grand mother left that to me, I spent some of it to help out family and now I am getting fucked out of it.
SO I THOUGHT!!.......I called a divorce lawyer yesterday. Even though Utah is a 50/50 asset split state, IT DOES NOT apply to any items that are gifted in a will. So, all of the stock can not be touched by her, and ANY items that were purchased from cashing in some of the stock CAN NOT be touched by her!!!!! IT IS ALL MINE!!! WOOHOOOO!!!!! Stupid wise and beautiful woman lets me take out 50k at 1st to pay off credit cards and any debt we had (we have no debt at all now) put in a bunch of huge maples, build a big patio cover out back and THEN talks me into paying off the house. It was after this shit gets done that she tells me she wants a divorce. Hmmm, why do I think it was not a coincidence? Yeah, nice plan bitch! BACKFIRED up her ass!
She flipped out when I told her how I talked to the lawyer and she is not getting shit. She told me that it was HER HOUSE!!! Her mother got a divorce and she knows she gets 1/2 of everything!! I had to pull up a page on the net w/ laws regarding inheritance gifts and how the other spouses is not entitled to any of it. Wow, I then turned into the devil. She told me how horrible I was that I was not going to GIVE her the home. That I am such a bad person. And just on and on. It was a joke. I told her....you are the one who is ripping the family apart, I am not the bad one here.
But, since I love my kids more then the world, I am going to let the stupid wise and beautiful woman actually stay in the house. I don't want to to have to have her move and pull the kids out of their lives..friends, school, etc. It is going to be hard enough on the with just the divorce. I am buying another house just right up the street (like 6 houses away) so I can see girls every day and night.
CLIFFS:
Wife talks me into paying off house and all bills.
Wife then tells me she is divorcing me, keeping the house and kicking me out.
Wife thinks she is slick and I am screwed.
I talk to lawyer and find out that since the stock/$ used to pay off house was left to ONLY me in a will she does not get shit!
House is mine but I will let her live there till kids get old enough to move out.
Buying new house right next to old one to be with my girls.
I love it.
SO I THOUGHT!!.......I called a divorce lawyer yesterday. Even though Utah is a 50/50 asset split state, IT DOES NOT apply to any items that are gifted in a will. So, all of the stock can not be touched by her, and ANY items that were purchased from cashing in some of the stock CAN NOT be touched by her!!!!! IT IS ALL MINE!!! WOOHOOOO!!!!! Stupid wise and beautiful woman lets me take out 50k at 1st to pay off credit cards and any debt we had (we have no debt at all now) put in a bunch of huge maples, build a big patio cover out back and THEN talks me into paying off the house. It was after this shit gets done that she tells me she wants a divorce. Hmmm, why do I think it was not a coincidence? Yeah, nice plan bitch! BACKFIRED up her ass!
She flipped out when I told her how I talked to the lawyer and she is not getting shit. She told me that it was HER HOUSE!!! Her mother got a divorce and she knows she gets 1/2 of everything!! I had to pull up a page on the net w/ laws regarding inheritance gifts and how the other spouses is not entitled to any of it. Wow, I then turned into the devil. She told me how horrible I was that I was not going to GIVE her the home. That I am such a bad person. And just on and on. It was a joke. I told her....you are the one who is ripping the family apart, I am not the bad one here.
But, since I love my kids more then the world, I am going to let the stupid wise and beautiful woman actually stay in the house. I don't want to to have to have her move and pull the kids out of their lives..friends, school, etc. It is going to be hard enough on the with just the divorce. I am buying another house just right up the street (like 6 houses away) so I can see girls every day and night.
CLIFFS:
Wife talks me into paying off house and all bills.
Wife then tells me she is divorcing me, keeping the house and kicking me out.
Wife thinks she is slick and I am screwed.
I talk to lawyer and find out that since the stock/$ used to pay off house was left to ONLY me in a will she does not get shit!
House is mine but I will let her live there till kids get old enough to move out.
Buying new house right next to old one to be with my girls.
I love it.
