What laws does it break to access the site from someplace else while logged onto AOL? I could easily use a remote desktop program to access the site from another machine on another ISP, and there'd be nothing wrong with that. There are probably ways to do it illegally, but why bother just to chat on a forum?
AOL in the UK may take a credit card to sign up. AOL in the US did until recently. Oldsmoboat meant that the forums doesn't require a credit card to join.
Good job complaining to AOL, though I doubt you'll get much of a response. It's rare to see someone act logically like that.
AOL doesn't "take over" the PC as much as it installs garbage that isn't needed, primarily networking components. If you remove them, they just get reinstalled the next time you run AOL. AOL7 had the audacity to make Internet Explorer's title bar read "Internet Explorer brought to you by AOL" or whatever the string is for branding IE, not within AOL itself, but when IE was run separately. Easily fixed, but possibly also restored the next time you used AOL, I didn't use it very many times before I wiped the system.
AOL 8.0 actually looks very nice now, I installed it a few days ago to play with my account. Normally I don't use it since I access it through another ISP and only for email (and I'm getting rid of it this month). But I still think that AOL has a higher percentage of non-techy people than other ISPs, simply due to the "easy to use" aspect. You don't have to DO anything with AOL. No configuring of any email addresses and passwords, no setting up phone numbers other than a click on the screen. Other ISPs provide similar tools now with new accounts, but still not as easy, and certainly not as pretty. AOL also just has a larger number of non-techy people due to sheer volume of users. Most people who dislike AOLers are willing to lose those technical people just to avoid the gimps.