Nissan Maxima, BMW 330i, BMW 530i/540i, Audi whatever. Whatever you get, get a manual transmission, you will have muchos more fun.
You could also look into an older BMW 740i. They are big boats - but they are SAFE, and they are not an SUV.
BUt depending on where you live, I would be inclined to get an Audi for the all wheel drive.