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Originally posted by: S Freud
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: S Freud
Do you ask stupid ****** like this in real life?

If so, how many times a week do you get beat up?

I ask it all the time in RL and I get the exact same reactions. There are always a few people who say little to nothing and when they do speak, it's exactly what I wanted to hear. The people who do yell at me are usually the ones who may have decent grades but don't really have anything going for them in life.. Oh wait..

Now I'm not sure if this is a feeble attempt at a joke or what, but this has got to be the dumbest thing ever said.

They have good grades but nothing going for them? You mean like college or good jobs? Are you trying to insinuate that the people here have nothing going for them by this comment?

Forgive me for not being able to fully comprehend your stupidity.

Don't feel bad. The only person that can is StatsManD
 
You can ask, but you will not get a sincere answer, I think that you will need to take chances, nothing is 100% sure, and who will be willing to answer that. You?
 
Originally posted by: S Freud
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: S Freud
Do you ask stupid ****** like this in real life?

If so, how many times a week do you get beat up?

I ask it all the time in RL and I get the exact same reactions. There are always a few people who say little to nothing and when they do speak, it's exactly what I wanted to hear. The people who do yell at me are usually the ones who may have decent grades but don't really have anything going for them in life.. Oh wait..

Now I'm not sure if this is a feeble attempt at a joke or what, but this has got to be the dumbest thing ever said.

They have good grades but nothing going for them? You mean like college or good jobs? Are you trying to insinuate that the people here have nothing going for them by this comment?

Forgive me for not being able to fully comprehend your stupidity.

No, they're the equivalent of those morons who decide to go into psychology, law or 'liberal arts'. Any jackal who decides to go into liberal arts better have a backup plan because there can be only so many teachers...
 
That's an honest question. We're all just afraid of confrontation. You wouldn't want to kill the mood with that conversation. If she's worth anything, she would of asked you already.
 
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: S Freud
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: S Freud
Do you ask stupid ****** like this in real life?

If so, how many times a week do you get beat up?

I ask it all the time in RL and I get the exact same reactions. There are always a few people who say little to nothing and when they do speak, it's exactly what I wanted to hear. The people who do yell at me are usually the ones who may have decent grades but don't really have anything going for them in life.. Oh wait..

Now I'm not sure if this is a feeble attempt at a joke or what, but this has got to be the dumbest thing ever said.

They have good grades but nothing going for them? You mean like college or good jobs? Are you trying to insinuate that the people here have nothing going for them by this comment?

Forgive me for not being able to fully comprehend your stupidity.

No, they're the equivalent of those morons who decide to go into psychology, law or 'liberal arts'. Any jackal who decides to go into liberal arts better have a backup plan because there can be only so many teachers...

I would not be bashing psychology right now, because honestly, you could use some help.
 
It's great that you're all on the bash bandwagon, but this is in fact a question that should be dealt with.

Ideally, you'd both get tested together before engaging in sex. This of course doesn't usually happen.

But really, if it's a semi-serious relationship at all you should be able to ask her.
Is there a point in risking an STD because you're too uncomfortable to ask?

If she's worth dating she'll respond in a reasonable manner--because really, it's a reasonable question.
Just don't say "do you have any STDs?" Ask to get tested together.

BTW, I think it's "STI" now.
 
Asking this kind of question should tell you one thing. You are not ready to get laid. Especially when you ask this kind of question on a computer message board where a majority of its members are computer nerds.
 
Originally posted by: bleeb
Asking this kind of question should tell you one thing. You are not ready to get laid. Especially when you ask this kind of question on a computer message board where a majority of its members are computer nerds.

Huh? That makes no sense.
 
Even if a 'respected' member had asked this question, I doubt there would be many serious replies. Most people simply don't ask. Even if you do ask your partner, there is no way of knowing if he/she lies. It's also possible your partner doesn't know he/she has a STD.

Best way is to both get tested before doing anything sexual. That's very rare.
Other than that, get to know your partner before doing anything sexual. Knowing his/her lifestyle may give you a good idea of the possibility of him/her having a disease. That's not foolproof... the sweet girl that only had one boyfriend and never cheated may still be carrying something if her ex-bf was cheating on her.

Testing is the only way to know for sure. Condoms and knowing your partner helps.
 
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: bleeb
Asking this kind of question should tell you one thing. You are not ready to get laid. Especially when you ask this kind of question on a computer message board where a majority of its members are computer nerds.

Huh? That makes no sense.

If you are unable to have a conversation about whether or not your partner has an STD, then sounds like you aren't ready to handle s e x. Also, the very fact that you are asking this question on a board where a majority of its members are nonsexually active (i.e. computer nerds) supports the argument further.
 
I always put it out there. I don't give a crap if the girl doesn't like it. I value my health, and that includes being free of STD's.
 
Originally posted by: bleeb
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: bleeb
Asking this kind of question should tell you one thing. You are not ready to get laid. Especially when you ask this kind of question on a computer message board where a majority of its members are computer nerds.

Huh? That makes no sense.

If you are unable to have a conversation about whether or not your partner has an STD, then sounds like you aren't ready to handle s e x. Also, the very fact that you are asking this question on a board where a majority of its members are nonsexually active (i.e. computer nerds) supports the argument further.

It's not a question of having the conversation, but WHEN... When do you have it, before or after you've entered the castle and won the round? What if I hook up with someone who puts out on a first or second date, sure I've got something to worry about but how would I bring it up with out destroying any chance of getting laid??? Bleh.
 
Originally posted by: NatePo717
lawnchair (check)
beer(check)
pizza(check).

All set for another goku thread 😎

I could go for some pizza right now.


This thread is now about pizza.
 
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: bleeb
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: bleeb
Asking this kind of question should tell you one thing. You are not ready to get laid. Especially when you ask this kind of question on a computer message board where a majority of its members are computer nerds.

Huh? That makes no sense.

If you are unable to have a conversation about whether or not your partner has an STD, then sounds like you aren't ready to handle s e x. Also, the very fact that you are asking this question on a board where a majority of its members are nonsexually active (i.e. computer nerds) supports the argument further.

It's not a question of having the conversation, but WHEN... When do you have it, before or after you've entered the castle and won the round? What if I hook up with someone who puts out on a first or second date, sure I've got something to worry about but how would I bring it up with out destroying any chance of getting laid??? Bleh.

You shouldn't worry about that as the chances are quite low 😛
 
Originally posted by: gsethi
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: bleeb
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: bleeb
Asking this kind of question should tell you one thing. You are not ready to get laid. Especially when you ask this kind of question on a computer message board where a majority of its members are computer nerds.

Huh? That makes no sense.

If you are unable to have a conversation about whether or not your partner has an STD, then sounds like you aren't ready to handle s e x. Also, the very fact that you are asking this question on a board where a majority of its members are nonsexually active (i.e. computer nerds) supports the argument further.

It's not a question of having the conversation, but WHEN... When do you have it, before or after you've entered the castle and won the round? What if I hook up with someone who puts out on a first or second date, sure I've got something to worry about but how would I bring it up with out destroying any chance of getting laid??? Bleh.

You shouldn't worry about that as the chances are quite low 😛

Hey, they're only low because I'm ugly and unable to come to grips with reality that I'll never be able to hook up with an average looking woman. My chances will improve if I aim really low, like those who have serious deformities...


J/K

Lets pretend that I'm actually a normal guy who 'gets some' but because I'm a meat head, I just only now learned about the safety precautions needed before getting laid cause I larned that STDs are bad.. So, what would you say to a meat head like me so that I don't go around spreading this, cause you know, this IS a bad thing to spread.
 
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: gsethi
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: bleeb
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: bleeb
Asking this kind of question should tell you one thing. You are not ready to get laid. Especially when you ask this kind of question on a computer message board where a majority of its members are computer nerds.

Huh? That makes no sense.

If you are unable to have a conversation about whether or not your partner has an STD, then sounds like you aren't ready to handle s e x. Also, the very fact that you are asking this question on a board where a majority of its members are nonsexually active (i.e. computer nerds) supports the argument further.

It's not a question of having the conversation, but WHEN... When do you have it, before or after you've entered the castle and won the round? What if I hook up with someone who puts out on a first or second date, sure I've got something to worry about but how would I bring it up with out destroying any chance of getting laid??? Bleh.

You shouldn't worry about that as the chances are quite low 😛

Hey, they're only low because I'm ugly and unable to come to grips with reality that I'll never be able to hook up with an average looking woman. My chances will improve if I aim really low, like those who have serious deformities...


J/K

Lets pretend that I'm actually a normal guy who 'gets some' but because I'm a meat head, I just only now learned about the safety precautions needed before getting laid cause I larned that STDs are bad.. So, what would you say to a meat head like me so that I don't go around spreading this, cause you know, this IS a bad thing to spread.

Maybe we should ask for a picture like JLGatsby?
 
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: gsethi
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: bleeb
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: bleeb
Asking this kind of question should tell you one thing. You are not ready to get laid. Especially when you ask this kind of question on a computer message board where a majority of its members are computer nerds.

Huh? That makes no sense.

If you are unable to have a conversation about whether or not your partner has an STD, then sounds like you aren't ready to handle s e x. Also, the very fact that you are asking this question on a board where a majority of its members are nonsexually active (i.e. computer nerds) supports the argument further.

It's not a question of having the conversation, but WHEN... When do you have it, before or after you've entered the castle and won the round? What if I hook up with someone who puts out on a first or second date, sure I've got something to worry about but how would I bring it up with out destroying any chance of getting laid??? Bleh.

You shouldn't worry about that as the chances are quite low 😛

Hey, they're only low because I'm ugly and unable to come to grips with reality that I'll never be able to hook up with an average looking woman. My chances will improve if I aim really low, like those who have serious deformities...


J/K

Lets pretend that I'm actually a normal guy who 'gets some' but because I'm a meat head, I just only now learned about the safety precautions needed before getting laid cause I larned that STDs are bad.. So, what would you say to a meat head like me so that I don't go around spreading this, cause you know, this IS a bad thing to spread.

There is no chance for your chances to improve.

Nah, ATOT cannot even pretend or comprehend the 2nd thought 🙁
 
Originally posted by: DLeRium
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: gsethi
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: bleeb
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: bleeb
Asking this kind of question should tell you one thing. You are not ready to get laid. Especially when you ask this kind of question on a computer message board where a majority of its members are computer nerds.

Huh? That makes no sense.

If you are unable to have a conversation about whether or not your partner has an STD, then sounds like you aren't ready to handle s e x. Also, the very fact that you are asking this question on a board where a majority of its members are nonsexually active (i.e. computer nerds) supports the argument further.

It's not a question of having the conversation, but WHEN... When do you have it, before or after you've entered the castle and won the round? What if I hook up with someone who puts out on a first or second date, sure I've got something to worry about but how would I bring it up with out destroying any chance of getting laid??? Bleh.

You shouldn't worry about that as the chances are quite low 😛

Hey, they're only low because I'm ugly and unable to come to grips with reality that I'll never be able to hook up with an average looking woman. My chances will improve if I aim really low, like those who have serious deformities...


J/K

Lets pretend that I'm actually a normal guy who 'gets some' but because I'm a meat head, I just only now learned about the safety precautions needed before getting laid cause I larned that STDs are bad.. So, what would you say to a meat head like me so that I don't go around spreading this, cause you know, this IS a bad thing to spread.

Maybe we should ask for a picture like JLGatsby?

Um, no; you see I'm not 'super model' material like JLGatsby is.. I'm a crossbreed between elvis and a highly deformed chimpanzee with downsyndrome...
 
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: DLeRium
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: gsethi
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: bleeb
Originally posted by: goku
Originally posted by: bleeb
Asking this kind of question should tell you one thing. You are not ready to get laid. Especially when you ask this kind of question on a computer message board where a majority of its members are computer nerds.

Huh? That makes no sense.

If you are unable to have a conversation about whether or not your partner has an STD, then sounds like you aren't ready to handle s e x. Also, the very fact that you are asking this question on a board where a majority of its members are nonsexually active (i.e. computer nerds) supports the argument further.

It's not a question of having the conversation, but WHEN... When do you have it, before or after you've entered the castle and won the round? What if I hook up with someone who puts out on a first or second date, sure I've got something to worry about but how would I bring it up with out destroying any chance of getting laid??? Bleh.

You shouldn't worry about that as the chances are quite low 😛

Hey, they're only low because I'm ugly and unable to come to grips with reality that I'll never be able to hook up with an average looking woman. My chances will improve if I aim really low, like those who have serious deformities...


J/K

Lets pretend that I'm actually a normal guy who 'gets some' but because I'm a meat head, I just only now learned about the safety precautions needed before getting laid cause I larned that STDs are bad.. So, what would you say to a meat head like me so that I don't go around spreading this, cause you know, this IS a bad thing to spread.

Maybe we should ask for a picture like JLGatsby?

Um, no; you see I'm not 'super model' material like JLGatsby is.. I'm a crossbreed between elvis and a highly deformed chimpanzee with downsyndrome...

TTIWWP
 
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