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So my girlfriend is going to see her ex tonight.... *UPDATE 3*

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Oh baby, you...
Got what I need!
But you say "He's just a friend"
But you say "He's just a friend"
- Biz Markie

You know what a male friend is to a woman? A d!ck in a glass box. In case of emergency, break open glass.
-Chris Rock.
 
Originally posted by: WarDemon666
I hate the bastard. I let him see my GF a few times after we started going out, just because I am so kind hearted and wanted my gf to be happy, and most of all, free....

But theres this one time, the bastard went and started grabbing her ass, tried touching her tit's.... She told him to leave right away, and cried all night, I got home after work at 12:00, she was waiting for me at the door, practically crying, and told me what happened. I was ready to go back to his house and beat the living sh!t out of him. She told me not to, and that she would never talk to him again cause hes a dumb as$, and she hates him...

Its been about 5 months + now, and they have been talking for a while... They were going to go to the movies together (the last time I saw them at the movies (i knew her b4 going out with her) they were making out the whole time and didnt see the movie) but this time my gf has to stay home to babysit, so hes coming here, and they are "supposed to play games"..


I now have to go to my parents house ( dial up, and I have to fix 3 computers this weekend... )

I trust her, but I dont trust him.

What should I do? she told me if I dont want I can tell her, and she wont let him come, but I want her to be free!! Is it worth it?

What would you guys do?

*UPDATE* see post further down I dont wanna copy paste*****
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***** Pitiful.
 
This thread makes me want to puke.
Not the pretty little puke you do when you drink too much, the big mama where chunks fly out your nose and blood squirts out of your eyeballs and your head explodes.
Someone kill me.
 
Originally posted by: columbiaflier
Originally posted by: binoculaz
phew, just read the entire thread after coming home from work. you going over to her place solved nothing. i say set up the video camera and make an excuse to have to leave.
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That would be a cool idea. Set up a camera and see for yourself how you're getting played. I bet if you told her you didn't want him over, she would tell you okay. Next thing you know, you leave to do whatever it is you have to do, and she'll still have him come over. It's obvious.

I can predict what WarDemon666 would say to this:
WarDemon666: It's not like that. You don't know her like I do. She told me he said he was upset about what he did and he won't do it again. And I believe her. She's just a very nice person and probably doesn't want to hurt his feelings by not being his friend. And I can understand that I guess. I hate the guy though. But nothing can break us apart!
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bwahahah, you got it nailed.

 
Don't be a pussy man... tell her to make a decision between you or him. Then when she picks you over him, treat her like crap.
 
Dude cliffnotes yer first post. I definitely don't have the patience to find your updated post in this haystack.
 
God damn, you're the biggest sissy-pants'd man (boy?) i'ne ever heard of.

1. I would have split his head to the white meat, if he was playing grab-ass with her. I wouldn't give a flying sh!t if she "told" me to or not.
2. Revenge is ALWAYS, always the answer. It's called karma, and you're just speeding up the process.
3. You're a sissy.
4. Sissy.
5. And quit with the cutesie-wootsie bestest G/F crap. See #'s 3-4.
 
I wonder if he's allowed to go home to her when he wants to or if he has to wait till they're done "hanging out". I also wonder if she told him to call first before heading home.
 
Originally posted by: cyberfuzz
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
Originally posted by: xirtam
Most of the advice in this thread makes a whole lot of sense if you view your girlfriend like you view property.
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It's nothing like that. It's a mutual relationship.

If she wants to go out with WarDemon666, that's her choice. And if she wants to leave him, that's her choice.

It's also a 2 way street.

If he wants to date her, that's his choice, and if he wants to leave her because she cannot be trusted, that's his choice also.

He cannot tell her what to do, but he CAN tell her what HE is going to do. And in this case, he should tell her that he's not going to stick around if she keeps hanging out with this guy.
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It is a relationship, and a relationship takes 2 people. if he feels strongly about her, then he should have no problem explaining that he doesnt FEEL comfortable with him coming over. If she truly likes him then she will respect his feelings and wont see the ex.
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Thats exactly what we're trying to tell him. And just for the record, no matter how nice ur gf is, if she sees that you can't stand up to other guys when they hit on her, then she WILL leave you, trust me. Girls have no respect for girly, wimpy guys, so dont be one. Either tell her you don't want her hanging out w/ her ex, or tell the a-hole you'll send him to the hospital if he comes over. Or better yet, do both. 😀
 
Originally posted by: columbiaflier
I wonder if he's allowed to go home to her when he wants to or if he has to wait till they're done "hanging out". I also wonder if she told him to call first before heading home.
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I dunno. I think the real question here, is; does she allow him to pee standing up.
 
wardemon, she playing mind games with you. SHe just telling you what you want to hear. Sure she can tell you were just friends and nothing going to happen but she still doing stuff with the other guy. You just dont want to belive it, She just going to tell you what you want to hear. get rid of her and find a new gf If i told my my gf that i wanted to hang out with an ex-gf or even another girl. She would go nuts and on me and break up with me.
 
Originally posted by: WarDemon666
Originally posted by: FoBoT
dump her and find a new gf
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My gf isnt the problem, shes really nice and caring, she would never do anything with someone else, the other guy is a fvcking lying as$hole..

I talked to him the other day on the net:
me: "Hey, i heard youre gonna see my gf this weekend"
him: "naw, no time, have too much stuff to do, for the next month"
me: "oh ok"

next day:
gf: "*hisname* still wants to come over tomorrow, he just lied to you because he thought I wasnt going to tell you"

stupid lying bastard. His new GF that he has now doesnt know anything about what he did with my gf a while back, I was going to tell her, but I didnt wanna be an as$hat
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Please say the 3 of you are not over 16.
 
*UPDATE 2*
We talked everything over, for over 3 hours. She read this whole thread, and we came to one conclusion: we both love each other, and I stated that the only reason I CARE that she sees him is because I hate the guy. I hate how hes a liar, and untrustworthy. His gf doesnt know about any of this. I suggested to my gf that I talked to him, and told him how I felt. She said it was a good idea. She said she is going to stop seeing him for now, but what happens if she has the urge to see him again? A while back she tried blocking him from her life, twice actually, but it never worked. She doesnt know why. She says its because of the way he makes her feel. He makes her feel desireable, and she likes that. Of course I do the same, but she says its nice to have someone else feel this way, that doesnt see you when you get up etc( i think shes beautiful even in the morning with her hair all messed up! ) So she says she is going to try and find out why she wants to see him so much, and were going to try and overcome this problem.. Its not the first time this issue has come up.. There are other guys she hangs out with, that she danced with etc, and I couldnt care less if they saw each other again.... I trust her with other people... Its just him I dont trust. Hes an unworthy bastard...

Well, everything was said, now I just have to wait to see what happens next... We wont break up, at least I dont think we will. She knows exactly how I feel now, and I know how she feels. After reading, and remembering the things he has done to her, she told me she doesnt know why she still sees him. She knows hes an asshole etc, but she just says its nice for him to think im desirable, it makes me feel good... I guess I can understand her, If you have a girlfriend, and other girls keep coming up to you, thinking you're one hot piece of ass, it makes u feel good no?

Anyways, ill keep you posted to see what happens when she talks to the ex boyfriend..

BTW, she told him that I was going to be here, and he said "well, i can't come anyways,, im sick.. Stupid cold..." or something of that manner,, so we had the night to talk...It felt good to talk about how we feel, at least now we both know how I feel when she sees that guy..

Ill keep you posted, ATOT family... 🙂
 
Originally posted by: 79Blazer
God damn, you're the biggest sissy-pants'd man (boy?) i'ne ever heard of.

1. I would have split his head to the white meat, if he was playing grab-ass with her. I wouldn't give a flying sh!t if she "told" me to or not.
2. Revenge is ALWAYS, always the answer. It's called karma, and you're just speeding up the process.
3. You're a sissy.
4. Sissy.
5. And quit with the cutesie-wootsie bestest G/F crap. See #'s 3-4.
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Ding! Ding! Ding!......We have a winner for most correct answer!

OP: You are the biggest candy ass in the nation of candy asses. A girl doesn't "hang out" with an ex-boyfriend, and have him over to "watch movies".
She fvcks him. Period.
When he grabbed her ass and she was crying......yep, she fvcked him. No doubt.

What kind of pussy lets his girlfriend have her freaking ex-boyfriend over, EVER?

If you have an ex-GF, which I seriously doubt, you should start having her over to "watch movies".

And to the idiots who were asking who he thought he was because he was "allowing her" see the ex, you are idiots, if I didn't mention that before.
Damn right he ALLOWED her to see him. That is definitely break-up time if she did it without asking first.

 
Originally posted by: BD2003
She doesnt need to be hanging out with her ex, for any reason whatsoever. Put your foot down.
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This is the way to handle it. Unless, of course, you like the idea of your girlfriend having two boyfriends.

 
Originally posted by: Pacfanweb
Originally posted by: 79Blazer
God damn, you're the biggest sissy-pants'd man (boy?) i'ne ever heard of.

1. I would have split his head to the white meat, if he was playing grab-ass with her. I wouldn't give a flying sh!t if she "told" me to or not.
2. Revenge is ALWAYS, always the answer. It's called karma, and you're just speeding up the process.
3. You're a sissy.
4. Sissy.
5. And quit with the cutesie-wootsie bestest G/F crap. See #'s 3-4.
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Ding! Ding! Ding!......We have a winner for most correct answer!

OP: You are the biggest candy ass in the nation of candy asses. A girl doesn't "hang out" with an ex-boyfriend, and have him over to "watch movies".
She fvcks him. Period.
When he grabbed her ass and she was crying......yep, she fvcked him. No doubt.

What kind of pussy lets his girlfriend have her freaking ex-boyfriend over, EVER?

If you have an ex-GF, which I seriously doubt, you should start having her over to "watch movies".

And to the idiots who were asking who he thought he was because he was "allowing her" see the ex, you are idiots, if I didn't mention that before.
Damn right he ALLOWED her to see him. That is definitely break-up time if she did it without asking first.
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How old are you?
 
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