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So, i just told my parents about my 4 months old son

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shens or real?

  • The troll is trolling

  • They see me rollin' they hatin'

  • I will give it benefit of doubt


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So what is your next move? Regardless of what your parents think, would you consider marrying the mother of your baby? Are you going to provide child support?

No, I'm not going to marry her.

I can't provide child support right now since I'm in graduate school full time.

After I graduate and secure a job, I will help financially with the baby.
 
Gonna try to keep it short through cliff style.
6. Baby already 6 months old and abortion is not an option.

She's fat, isn't she. Don't answer, we already know she is. That's pretty much the only way a woman can be pregnant and not know it. That or she is just really stupid. Either way you lose. Everyone knows this.
 
seriously? they didn't notice she was pregnant before they gave her radiation treatment? and it didn't effect the pregnancy? for STOMACH cancer?

sorry but, y'all gettin' trolled.
 
She's fat, isn't she. Don't answer, we already know she is. That's pretty much the only way a woman can be pregnant and not know it. That or she is just really stupid. Either way you loose. Everyone knows this.

haha. that's very funny thing to point out.

Actually she has a great body. Why else would a young man hook up with a older woman?

When she gained weight, we assumed that it was due to steroids and other medications they were giving her for the radiation therapy.
 
No, I'm not going to marry her.

I can't provide child support right now since I'm in graduate school full time.

After I graduate and secure a job, I will help financially with the baby.

if she goes to court to seek child support...you are totally screwed!!
The courts will make you get a job and quit grad school!!
The courts will reason the baby is more important than grad school!!

Of course you can always get a job in an asian fast food egg roll joint!!
 
haha. that's very funny thing to point out.

Actually she has a great body. Why else would a young man hook up with a older woman?

When she gained weight, we assumed that it was due to steroids and other medications they were giving her for the radiation therapy.

No, she didn't have a great body. She was fat when you met her, fat when she got pregnant, and fat now. Stop trying to hide the fact that you fell for a disgusting fatty. You must admit your shame. Everyone knows this.
 
if she goes to court to seek child support...you are totally screwed!!
The courts will make you get a job and quit grad school!!
The courts will reason the baby is more important than grad school!!

Of course you can always get a job in an asian fast food egg roll joint!!

She and I have a good relationship. She already said she wouldn't do that.

Plus, she knows that I'm going to make more money if I finish my degree.
 
No, I'm not going to marry her.

I can't provide child support right now since I'm in graduate school full time.

After I graduate and secure a job, I will help financially with the baby.

All I can say is good luck with that plan. Too bad you had to learn the hard way that raincoats are cheap and readily available.
 
No, she didn't have a great body. She was fat when you met her, fat when she got pregnant, and fat now. Stop trying to hide the fact that you fell for a disgusting fatty. You must admit your shame. Everyone knows this.

lol. what's your obsession with "fat." even your screen name has pig in it. you're funny.
 
I hate fatties with everything that I am. I hate people who allow fatties to procreate even more. I hate you.

lol. thanks for the laugh.

i can't lie. i also "dislike" fatties in some sense. In general, i think people should take more responsibility and better care for their body.
 
Sounds to me like a bored banned member making a random troll thread.

Wonder how long until the mods get around to fixing this.
 
This is all bullshit made by shitters.

Man, it's a bunch of racism, body discrimination, moral wars (beginning) and trolling.

- -;;

0/10
 
But you love Lady Gaga.

Lady GaGa represents the pinnacle of human evolution in terms of artistic and musical talent, beauty, and intelligence. The fact that you even mentioned her name in a thread about a disgusting fatty mating with a chubby little asian boy is grounds for a public beating at best. Everyone knows this.
 
Lady GaGa represents the pinnacle of human evolution in terms of artistic and musical talent, beauty, and intelligence. The fact that you even mentioned her name in a thread about a disgusting fatty mating with a chubby little asian boy is grounds for a public beating at best. Everyone knows this.

you just trolled a troll thread. i'm in awe.
 
Gonna try to keep it short through cliff style.

1. I'm Asian male in mid 20's.
2. Last year, I hook up with a white woman in her mid 30's.
3. She gets stage 2 stomach cancer.
Not feeling crappy yet.
4. She goes through radiation therapy and gets surgery.
Not feeling crappy yet.
5. After the surgery, she gets scanned and they find a baby in her uterus.
Not feeling crappy yet.
6. Baby already 6 months old and abortion is not an option.
Not feeling crappy yet.
7. We agree on adoption.
Not feeling crappy yet.
8. She changes her mind as baby comes out.
Not feeling crappy yet.
9. She and I remain friends as she takes care of the baby.
Not feeling crappy yet.
10. I finally grow the balls to tell my parents about the baby today.
Not feeling crappy yet.
11. My mom has panic attack and curses at me.
Starting to feel a wee crappy.
12. Parents are furious about the fact that I'm not married, she's white, she's much older, she had cancer and so on.
13. I feel crappy now.

Only NOW you feel crappy?

What do you want from us?

Toilet paper, sympathy, schematics for a time machine, good daycare suggestions, help putting a hit out on your mom, obvious advice on what not to do next time . . . what is it you want from ATOT?

Btw, this, "she gets scanned and they find a baby in her uterus" is just so warmly put, Dad! You don't even say whether you had a son or a daughter. People refer to their cars in more personal terms.

Why else would a young man hook up with a older woman?

Gee, Dad, tell me again how you met Mom! 🙄
 
Did the institution offer any estimates on the dose the fetus received? I would request that information from the Radiation Safety Officer if you don't have it. In addition, I would strongly recommend that you have the radiation therapy treatment plan sent to another radiation oncologist for a second opinion. Have copies of the port films (or any other imaging they used) and treatment records sent as well. Although the baby may appear fine now, at the minimum it may have an elevated risk for developing cancer. I would discuss with the second radiation oncologist if they recommend any screening based on the estimated dose that the fetus actually received.
 
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