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So, i just told my parents about my 4 months old son

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SleepWhere said:
No, I'm not going to marry her.

I can't provide child support right now since I'm in graduate school full time.

After I graduate and secure a job, I will help financially with the baby.
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Are you at least helping emotionally? Are you taking the child off her hands for a few hours a weekend, just so she has alone time? Are you being physically supportive? Are you being a father of any kind?

Oh, and are you still living with your parents.....in your mid-20s?
 
I just read through the entire thread and my BS Detector is going ape shit right now, and it never lets me down. OP is lying.
 
CPA said:
Are you at least helping emotionally? Are you taking the child off her hands for a few hours a weekend, just so she has alone time? Are you being physically supportive? Are you being a father of any kind?

Oh, and are you still living with your parents.....in your mid-20s?
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Yeah, I try to see them every week and if mom needs help with anything, she lets me know.

Yes, I still live with my parents. Not an odd thing if you're an Asian. Plus, my tuition is almost $30k a year. I rather save money staying here.
 
SleepWhere said:
It's true.

I don't see what's so unbelievable about it though.

There has been many cases where women didn't know they were pregnant really late.. or until the baby actually popped out in the toilet.
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The fact that you are willing to share such a deeply personal thing with a bunch of complete strangers on the intarwebs?

BTW-If this is real, paternity test STAT! 😉
 
SleepWhere said:
I don't see what's so unbelievable about it though.
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1. Its on the Internet.
2. You've provided no proof other than words and a picture of supposed baby.
3. Its been pointed out multiple times that what you stated is inconsistent with hospital standard operating procedures.
 
SleepWhere said:
Prove it!
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When my wife was six months pregnant, I would go to sleep at night feeling my baby kick and punch and squirm. Her belly was quite prominent and wasn't so big compared to other women. How someone can be six months pregnant and not realize it is beyond me.

How is the baby's health?
 
nerp said:
When my wife was six months pregnant, I would go to sleep at night feeling my baby kick and punch and squirm. Her belly was quite prominent and wasn't so big compared to other women. How someone can be six months pregnant and not realize it is beyond me.

How is the baby's health?
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He's as healthy as you can be. ()🙂
 
OK OK OK, for clarification, the only why I can see this making ANY sense....
How long of a time frame was there in between 4 and 5?
Was the scan mention in '5' performed six months after surgery?

SleepWhere said:
1. I'm Asian male in mid 20's.
2. Last year, I hook up with a white woman in her mid 30's.
3. She gets stage 2 stomach cancer.
4. She goes through radiation therapy and gets surgery.
<<<<<<???How long of Time frame here?????>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
5. After the surgery, she gets scanned and they find a baby in her uterus.
6. Baby already 6 months old and abortion is not an option.
7. We agree on adoption.
8. She changes her mind as baby comes out.
9. She and I remain friends as she takes care of the baby.
10. I finally grow the balls to tell my parents about the baby today.
11. My mom has panic attack and curses at me.
12. Parents are furious about the fact that I'm not married, she's white, she's much older, she had cancer and so on.
13. I feel crappy now.
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she must have gotten preggers after they did the preggers tests on her.
 
FuzzyDunlop said:
OK OK OK, for clarification, the only why I can see this making ANY sense....
How long of a time frame was there in between 4 and 5?
Was the scan mention in '5' performed six months after surgery?



she must have gotten preggers after they did the preggers tests on her.
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no. when they gave her the surgery, she was already 6 months pregnant. Right after the surgery they found out that she was pregnant.

i dont remember the exact time frame but her treatment was shorter than 6 months. So, she had to be pregnant even when they gave her the urine test.
 
I am going to add one more notch against the OP. I live down the street from the hospital that he claims to have gone to. It is one of the largest most modern hospitals in the area. They are not overburdened and spend a ton of time with patients. I have been there twice and the level of care I received was better then any hospital I have been to.

And to top it off they just got added to the "National Cancer Institute". Does it really seem like they would make such a noobish mistake?

Northside Joins National Cancer Institute Program

Northside is among 14 new sites chosen by the National Cancer Institute to join a national network of community cancer centers offering expanded research opportunities and state-of-the-art cancer care.
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Here are some snippets about their oncology program:
# Largest Community Cancer Program in Georgia with regional leadership in women&#8217;s oncology, Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT) and prostate cancer
# Only comprehensive, community BMT Program in Georgia, ranking in top 15&#37; in U.S.
# Diagnoses and/or treats more cases of breast cancer than any other hospital in the southeast
# Numerous accreditations / recognitions, including Outstanding Achievement Award from ACoS and FACT accreditation with no clinical deficiencies
# Comprehensive clinical research program, including collaborative relationships with Johns Hopkins, Georgia Institute of Technology
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