So I fscked up by lying!

[StageLeft]

I think if you're old enough to be having sex you shouldn't be ashamed to tell your friends you're nailing your GF and she shouldn't be ashamed to admit it. It's not like you told them she screams when you're doing her doggy style. All you said was that you had had sex with her.

 

[AreaCode707]

*grumbles at all you guys* Her feelings are legitimate - just cause he's having sex doesn't mean everyone needs to know.

Sounds like she feels kind of guilty anyway (you said she was Catholic so premarital sex is a no no) and as well as being worried about her reputation as a woman, she's worried about her reputation as someone religious.

 

[geno]

IMO it's stupid of your gf to not even want you to admit to having sex with her

 

[Miramonti]

if she's ashamed and embarassed then she shouldn't be having sex in the first place.

 

[her209]

Let's have some PICS

 

[oLLie]

It's obvious she's embarassed of you and would rather no one knew about her having sex with you.

 

[Moonbeam]

Pay no attention to all these liberated bone heads either, Toque. There is nothing wrong with sex, true enough, and people shouldn't feel guilt, but not everybody is quite so free. I bet her parents aren't. Sex is a private matter and when somebody asks it be kept that way the issue is trust. It's not your job to advance your GF's state of consciousness to the point she wants to run home and show her Mom her broken hymen. You have to take and love people where they are and respect their wishes. It's a matter of courtesy, a disappearing trait, kindness, another disappearing trait, and personal honor, another, well you know the rote.

 

[Moonbeam]

Watch out too for people who have a need to tear down the happiness of others because they have none themself. oLLie reminded me of that.

 

[BigToquex]

Well, we talked it over, everything is fine now.

Thanks guys.

 

[Moonbeam]

Aye, Laddie, ta overcome Catholic conditioning ya must be quite a stud. Jus dun't brag aboot it.

 

[StageLeft]

Sounds like she feels kind of guilty anyway

Obviously not guilty enough to walk the path away from eternal damnation.

 

[her209]

The irony... the irony.

 

[josphII]

damn you are so whipped its pathetic!

the correct answer to "what do you tell your friends about us" is "the truth" and if she cant deal with that then she is one immature chick. and if she doesnt trust your own judgement as to what you reveal to your friends then maybe she shouldnt be sleeping with you in the first place. you should tell her that.

 

[crazygal]

Why is she so ashamed of what she does sexually?

How old are you/her?

Edit: Oh, she's religious. There's your problem right there.

 

[Moonbeam]

See what I mean?

 

[Ludacris]

How old are you, your girlfriend and your friends? It's sad that you actually went and told your friends you were bangin it. What's even sadder is the fact that your friends just want all the juicy details so that they can get some of that ass too. Sounds like all of you involved need to grow up a little bit.

P.S. I could see if you told your friends about bangin some chic ona one night stand, but tellin them about the sex you have with the one you love? Crazy.