So, I broke up with my girlfriend

[Eeezee]

You're not a bad person, I wouldn't want to put up with that either. A relationship is a partnership, and it sounds like she's been using you as an emotional crutch. That's never a good thing.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: Cashmoney995
I'm 19, second year in college, she was 17, found me on friendster and started messaging me...

We hit it off great, 2/3 months into the relationship (or a lot less) we were talkin to each other on the phone for 4-5 hours a day, she lived in austin, me in dallas. She went, I love you. I really liked this girl and their was only one answer to this so i said i love you too. 6 months later, I found out she was high maintainance, as in she required herself to talk to her when she felt bad(instances when she felt bad included the period, times when she was home and her mom yelled at her and many other insignificant things). So i put up with it, she's a smart intelligent, beautiful girl. She got clingy when she came to my school, if i didnt sleep over she got saddddddddddddddddddddddddd, felt like i didnt love her any more and cried.

I did poorly in my classes because I couldnt wake up in the morning because i was sleeping on a twin bed with her (plues extra+++).

I cant do poorly in my classes again.

I want a girl that is very strong, handles her own ******, when i say something she doesnt like she says ****** u moron instead of crying and making me feel bad.


I am a really nice guy, im wiling to put up with a lot. But i cant take this, i cant live my life this way. I broke up with her, kinda, I said I wanted to lower the seriousness of our relationship ( the leading questions of forever, marriage, and what not.) SO i put ourselves on a break...

btw, she's going to be a neurosuergoun, she somehow handled her ****** and got a 3.7 GPA, i did poorly and -2.0 (im not that disciplined)

But honestly, what is she going to do when something realllllllllllllllly bad happens (when I should be there for her 10,000% like losing a limb, parents dying being dyagnosing with caner) She cries when her mom makes her mad.



Cliffs, broke up with a girl, looking for ATOT to tell me that its allright to want a girl that extremely independant but you can still baby them.

2. Looking for the extremely intelligent and rational (unlike my ex-gf or gf on a break) to tell me im not a bad person for hurting her so bad.

thats not high maintenance btw...
thats clingy theres a difference...

ill take clingy over HM anyday..