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So, I broke up with my girlfriend

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Cashmoney995

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I'm 19, second year in college, she was 17, found me on friendster and started messaging me...

We hit it off great, 2/3 months into the relationship (or a lot less) we were talkin to each other on the phone for 4-5 hours a day, she lived in austin, me in dallas. She went, I love you. I really liked this girl and their was only one answer to this so i said i love you too. 6 months later, I found out she was high maintainance, as in she required herself to talk to her when she felt bad(instances when she felt bad included the period, times when she was home and her mom yelled at her and many other insignificant things). So i put up with it, she's a smart intelligent, beautiful girl. She got clingy when she came to my school, if i didnt sleep over she got saddddddddddddddddddddddddd, felt like i didnt love her any more and cried.

I did poorly in my classes because I couldnt wake up in the morning because i was sleeping on a twin bed with her (plues extra+++).

I cant do poorly in my classes again.

I want a girl that is very strong, handles her own ******, when i say something she doesnt like she says ****** u moron instead of crying and making me feel bad.


I am a really nice guy, im wiling to put up with a lot. But i cant take this, i cant live my life this way. I broke up with her, kinda, I said I wanted to lower the seriousness of our relationship ( the leading questions of forever, marriage, and what not.) SO i put ourselves on a break...

btw, she's going to be a neurosuergoun, she somehow handled her ****** and got a 3.7 GPA, i did poorly and -2.0 (im not that disciplined)

But honestly, what is she going to do when something realllllllllllllllly bad happens (when I should be there for her 10,000% like losing a limb, parents dying being dyagnosing with caner) She cries when her mom makes her mad.



Cliffs, broke up with a girl, looking for ATOT to tell me that its allright to want a girl that extremely independant but you can still baby them.

2. Looking for the extremely intelligent and rational (unlike my ex-gf or gf on a break) to tell me im not a bad person for hurting her so bad.
 
Jeez! She's seventeen dude, what do you expect. If your crazy about the girl hang in there she will mature. If not move on
 
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Originally posted by: GuitarDaddy
Jeez! She's seventeen dude, what do you expect. If your crazy about the girl hang in there she will mature. If not move on
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QFT. Sounds like she's a smart girl with a bright future.
 
this sounds almost exactly the kind of relationship i was in.



question for you, was she your first or one of your first serious relationships?
 
"...btw, she's going to be a neurosuergoun, she somehow handled her ****** and got a 3.7 GPA, i did poorly and -2.0 (im not that disciplined)..."


She doesn't sound that stupid or immature. Does sound like she's a teenage girl who thinks guys like girls who act that way. Tell her what you told us, maybe she'll surprise you.

Good luck.
 
Sounds kinda like what I'm in now. Except that I knew from the start that I can't put up with her crying whenever I accidently say something she doesn't like. Man some girls just need some fricken confidence instead of looking for some buttering up and emotional support anyway they can get it.
 
With all due respect, your both still wet behind the ears. :laugh:
You guys have a long way to go.
You did the right thing by breaking it off.
Talking about marriage at 17 or even 19 is nutty.
 
Eh, you're 19 and at college where she probably isn't. You can find another girl that isn't so clingy.
Although this somewhat sounds like my relationship... doh.
 
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