So, how do I bring up this topic with my parents?

[BornStar]

Originally posted by: DaiShan
I mean unless it's against your religion or something, most parents realize that dating is part of socialization. Do you guys eat dinner together as a family? If so, just bring it up then. Say something like "hey I've got a date on saturday with xx. I was planning on doing xx, and returning at xx could I borrow the car?"

I wouldn't follow that advice exactly. Allow me to demonstrate where xx=Amanda.

"Hey, I've got a date on Saturday with Amanda. I was planning on doing Amanda and returning at Amanda. Could I borrow the car?"

 

[Adica]

Maybe they will be relieved when you tell/ask them. You are almost 18 right? Don't worry, we were all 17 once, including your Mom and Dad. It's time. Go for it.

 

[EyeMWing]

"Mom, dad, where can you buy cheap condoms?"

 

[pyonir]

Originally posted by: illusion88
Just take the car and go. Tell them you are out doing LSD and heroine.

He's going to do LSD then have sex with a woman that is a hero!? Talk about a good night!

😉

 

[zanieladie]

Originally posted by: KarenMarie
i am a parent.

tell them the truth. they were 17 once, and wanted to date... i am sure they will understand how you feel.

tell them that, out or respect for them, you want to be open and honest. tell them that they are really good parents and it is now time for them to trust you and trust themselves in the job they did raising you. tell them you will do the right thing and act respectfully to them, the dates and youself at all times.

use your own words.

good luck.

:thumbsup:

 

[ghost recon88]

So, I asked my dad about it and he was totally cool with it. I guess I'm in 🙂

 

[l Xes l]

It's good to start the convo with a question to observe their stances... for examples..

"You guys ready for some grand kids?"

 

[Adica]

Good for you! Have fun on your date. 🙂

 

[rudder]

17???? You better bring up the subject of dating before your parents think you are gay.

 

[arcenite]

Originally posted by: rudder
17???? You better bring up the subject of dating before your parents think you are gay.

 

[TreyRandom]

Originally posted by: Trikat
"Mommy, I wanna have sex with Kimberly. May I?"

...which would make his Mom completely freak out if Kimberly is his sister.

That's just wrong. 😛