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So a friend of mine was shot to death....

amdforever2

Golden Member
To be perfectly honest I wasn't that close to him, I had only met him a few times. My room mate was with him when they shot him and then they fired at my room mate. I get this text at like 2 or 3 something in the morning that's like "I just saw someone die I'm with the police" or something to that effect and I just thought that it had to be some joke or he was drunk or maybe it was a really bad fight and the person was just really beat up or something. I call him and he describes this JFK type wound and how .... I dunno it was a graphic description.

I drove down to 39th and Broadway in KC and there was countless cop cars. I parked and I go to try to find my room mate and the police are like well you might as well go home we're going to keep him for questioning for a while we'll give him a ride home.

They might as well have said nothing to see here folks, move along. It was the most uncaring, cold response ever. Like this is as routine for them as writing tickets or something.

The cop at the scene wouldn't tell me where the victim was either. I decided I would go wake up another one of our friends to try to locate the victims best friend. Since I didn't know the victim that well I didn't know how to contact his family and the police didn't seem concerned with that anyways.

Three hospitals lied and flat out said they had no patient by that name. I eventually did find the hospital. I was at the hospital probably an hour or two after the shooting, but the family had yet to be notified. Hospital wouldn't tell us anything, wouldn't even say if he was alive or dead. My room mate in the original call was so graphic with the description and was positive he had died.

We left the hospital and I took the friend I had picked up home to try to find people to call or whatever since neither of us was particularly close to the victim and our main link to the victim was my room mate. I went to the police station and just sat there waiting for my room mate to get done talking to police.

Once he got out we tried to reach his family again, but we just weren't able to. Room mate spoke to media, went to hospital for the second time. Must have been five or six or seven hours after the shooting. Police still hadn't contacted family so we still couldn't find out if he was alive or not.

Went home, and just kinda sat here. It's like we were totally unable to do anything and I'm still kinda shocked that the people that could do something just couldn't seem to be bothered.

Finally by 3pm, 12 hours at least after the shooting, we find out that the family got there at noon and he's in neurosurgery icu or something.

I'm at the hospital by four and he's dead.

It's just the most unbelievable thing ever.

There's no detectives with a passion for justice, there's no doctors dramatically trying to save lives, there's just nothing.

There's a five minute local news clip, blood on my room mates shoes, and the murder rate of kansas city I had never paid attention to before ticks up a little bit I guess.

I just can't believe how cold this world is. I barely even knew the guy and I feel like my whole world has changed.

Local news....





*edit #1 for details I guess....


Victim and my room mate had gone to westport to find another of our friends who was drunk and needed a ride home or something to that effect. They were walking around like hundreds of others and found friend. Friend got lost or something. Roomie and friend went to go look for drunk friend some more. Nice homeless guy was like I know where that guy you're looking for is. They keep walking until they're outside walgreens. Then, in the street, this stratus like opens fire on a charger and then the people in the stratus can't escape so they go in the parking lot and start shooting. The guy that got shot hid the homeless guy that was looking for drunk friend behind some cement pillar or something and started yelling for everyone to get down. At that point the stratus people purposely target the guy they killed. Pulled up to him and shot him. Didn't try to scare him or injure him just purposely shot the one place that was most likely to end his life for no reason.
 
Yeah, after dealing with that crap more than a few times, it becomes as routine as writing traffic tickets. Scary isn't it?
 
Originally posted by: AFB
Yeah, after dealing with that crap more than a few times, it becomes as routine as writing traffic tickets. Scary isn't it?



For anyone that lives in KC or whatever I mean this is westport this happened right when bars were closing.

There were hundreds of people that must have been on the streets. I don't know how to put this but I mean this just isn't supposed to be where this kind of stuff happens. Kansas City local government or whatever is all about this down town revitalization or whatever I just feel like you know sure they put in new business and they put in bars and they built their sprint center or whatever what the hell is all that good for when innocent college kids can't go hang out there without being literally gunned down without cause.

The guy was screaming for people to get down and the car with the shooters in it purposely pulled up and shot him in the back of the head while he was lying on the ground. It's infuriating to think about.

 
It's amazing what we can become inured to.
sorry to hear about another senseless taking of life, as if it could ever be called sensible.
Glad your friend is ok though.

what was the beef that led to this?
 
Originally posted by: AlienCraft
It's amazing what we can become inured to.
sorry to hear about another senseless taking of life, as if it could ever be called sensible.
Glad your friend is ok though.

what was the beef that led to this?



Random. None of my friends had any link to it. Some group of people in a car shooting at another group, couldn't escape traffic, went into walgreens parking lot and just started shooting everyone else.

 
Originally posted by: AlienCraft
It's amazing what we can become inured to.
sorry to hear about another senseless taking of life, as if it could ever be called sensible.
Glad your friend is ok though.

what was the beef that led to this?
After reading the article, it seems the cops have no idea wtf went down. Seems like a random shooting. The worst kind.
 
Three hospitals lied and flat out said they had no patient by that name. I eventually did find the hospital.

I'm kind of confused by this. How did they lie if they really didn't have him?

All the same, I know how infuriating it is. They just can't disclose much information without all the lawsuits going around. When I crashed my motorcycle, I was admitted to once hospital and then trucked to a different one that was on my insurance plan. When the other riders showed up to check on me, all they could get was that I had been dismissed from the hospital. They had to wait until the next day when I regained consciousness and could call them to tell them where I was and what condition I was in.
 
Originally posted by: Kelvrick
Three hospitals lied and flat out said they had no patient by that name. I eventually did find the hospital.

I'm kind of confused by this. How did they lie if they really didn't have him?

All the same, I know how infuriating it is. They just can't disclose much information without all the lawsuits going around. When I crashed my motorcycle, I was admitted to once hospital and then trucked to a different one that was on my insurance plan. When the other riders showed up to check on me, all they could get was that I had been dismissed from the hospital. They had to wait until the next day when I regained consciousness and could call them to tell them where I was and what condition I was in.


One of the three did have him. That one is the liar I guess....
 
Originally posted by: amdforever2
*edit #1 for details I guess....

Victim and my room mate had gone to westport to find another of our friends who was drunk and needed a ride home or something to that effect. They were walking around like hundreds of others and found friend. Friend got lost or something. Roomie and friend went to go look for drunk friend some more. Nice homeless guy was like I know where that guy you're looking for is. They keep walking until they're outside walgreens. Then, in the street, this stratus like opens fire on a charger and then the people in the stratus can't escape so they go in the parking lot and start shooting. The guy that got shot hid the homeless guy that was looking for drunk friend behind some cement pillar or something and started yelling for everyone to get down. At that point the stratus people purposely target the guy they killed. Pulled up to him and shot him. Didn't try to scare him or injure him just purposely shot the one place that was most likely to end his life for no reason.
Wait, so the green Stratus starts shooting and hits your friend. Your wounded friend is trying to protect the homeless guy. The green Stratus comes back and kills wounded friend. Am I understanding that correctly?
 
I'm curious why your title says friend, when its very clear that he wasn't at all a friend. You'd met him twice and thats it.
 
Originally posted by: amdforever2


there's no doctors dramatically trying to save lives, there's just nothing.

Well I work in downtown Detroit in a very busy ER(as an ER nurse) that unfortunately sees exactly what you described on an almost nightly basis. And while it does make you cold and calloused at times it still doesn't make it any easier and trust me the dramatics are there, if there is any chance of survival we will bust our asses to try and save that person and if that in any way helps you then I'm glad....if it doesn't I'm sorry I tried...

Shootings no matter the circumstances are terrible and it is unfortunate that you ran into an asshole cop and got the run around from the hospitals. My thoughts and prayers are with you and of course the victim.

And if you have any questions or whatnot feel free to IM me...I'll do what I can for you.

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Originally posted by: TallBill
I'm curious why your title says friend, when its very clear that he wasn't at all a friend. You'd met him twice and thats it.

Don't be such an ass, it's still a very traumatic experience even if he wasn't that close to the person.

Learn some friggin tact.
 
what the fvck are you trying to notify some acquaintance's family for?? You have no business doing that. Luckily you didn't find them, since it appears you would have told him he was dead before he actually died.
 
Even though I'm not close to the victim we have quite a few common good friends. Even If I don't know him that well the impact it will have on our mutual friends will impact me.

As to why I'd try to contact the family it wouldn't be to say anything other than that your son is in the hospital I thought you'd like to know.


I just didn't think the cops were notifying them quickly whatsoever.
 
Originally posted by: mrrman
totally senseless....they have to ban all guns IMO and just let the cops have them

This has been tried before, NAZI Germany. That worked well. Why not ban the bad people wouldn't that make as much sense.
 
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