Sitting in Booths, Side-by-side or Across From One Another?

When dining with your significant other ONLY, do you sit beside your OS or across when it is a booth

  • Across from SO in booth.

    Votes: 23 85.2%
  • Beside the SO in booth.

    Votes: 3 11.1%
  • Other, like I have no SO.

    Votes: 1 3.7%

  • Total voters
    27
Nov 20, 2009
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When dining with only your significant other (SO), do you sit beside your SO or across from your SO when sitting in a booth? Conversely, it is is a table, across or adjacent (adjacent=beside)?
 
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It isn't by my choice but by the SO's choice. When I questioned her on this (many years ago) she said she liikes to be looking directly at me while chatting during the dining experience. Personally, I think she doesn't want to have to defend herself from my attacking hands. :p
 

BoomerD

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Feb 26, 2006
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Usually, across from, but once in a while, if we’re eating someplace where we’re also watching football, then side by side so we can both see the game.
 

ImpulsE69

Lifer
Jan 8, 2010
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Across....the room. Usually opposite covering both exits. You can never be too careful. Lunch can escalate into an international incident pretty quickly.
 

IronWing

No Lifer
Jul 20, 2001
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Usually across but if the table is really wide or one side is in the sun, we may sit side by side.
 

snoopy7548

Diamond Member
Jan 1, 2005
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Across.

Here's the million dollar question...
If you're out with your SO and a friend (could be her friend, I guess), do you sit across from or next to your SO?
 

BurnItDwn

Lifer
Oct 10, 1999
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If you're out with your SO and a friend (could be her friend, I guess), do you sit across from or next to your SO?
Wait, so, which one sits on your lap? your SO, or her friend? Is this some kind of triangle of love thing?
 

Red Storm

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Oct 2, 2005
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Across.

Here's the million dollar question...
If you're out with your SO and a friend (could be her friend, I guess), do you sit across from or next to your SO?
How is this a million dollar question? You sit next to your SO, that's obvious.
 

JM Aggie08

Diamond Member
Jan 3, 2006
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Only sit side by side if my wife is cold and without a sweater -- that's maybe happened twice in our entire relationship.

It honestly creeps me out when I see people doing this. If anything, it makes it more difficult to have conversation.
 

DietDrThunder

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Apr 6, 2001
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We sit side-by-side when we order the fajitas for two. Gives us more room to have the all the food in front of us for each of us to reach.

We sit across from each other when normal dining.

When we eat at a nice restaurant, booths aren't an option, and if the table is square, we will sit on sides that are perpendicular to each other.