Sister was told her shirt was too revealing at work

[spidey07]

And while we're at it...I'm intimately familiar with just how f'ed up it is.

Working in my first professional job I was leaning on a desk, resting my hands on the corners.

A woman walks by and brushes her ass against my stationary hand on the desk.

I get a talking to from HR for grabbing her ass (her version).

You gotta be careful guys, there are women who do this for a living. Hence why I think dude did exactly what he should have done.

 

[dman]

Originally posted by: spidey07
And while we're at it...I'm intimately familiar with just how f'ed up it is.

Working in my first professional job I was leaning on a desk, resting my hands on the corners.

A woman walks by and brushes her ass against my stationary hand on the desk.

I get a talking to from HR for grabbing her ass (her version).

You gotta be careful guys, there are women who do this for a living. Hence why I think dude did exactly what he should have done.

If a women came over to my desk to give me some papers or anything and bent over pefectly so I could see down her blouse I'd be a little suspicious of that. I mean, if it was a quick thing maybe not, but, maybe she extended the view or something? Wouldn't complain, wouldn't avert the situation, but, I would possibly be suspicious of her intent. After all this is ATOT here... my god she looked at me too... does she like me? Heh.

Anyway, silly stuff, She should also have gotten a letter from the health and safety group for not bending at the knees.

 

[moks78]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe

Originally posted by: ThisIsMatt

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I wear shirts with deeper V cuts than that all the time,nobody complains!

it's hard to complain when you're gagging

I'm tall,lean,fit and tan,my clothing compliments my best features so shut yer yap

...me needs pic of you so I can judge if you are tellin' the truth. :shocked:

 

[mastarecoil]

Originally posted by: halik
haha,
i walk around in shorts and barefoot at work.... and i do have an office job

According to your profile, you live in ann arbor, MI. That explains it all.

 

[Topher]

Originally posted by: SuperTool
That's exactly right. If women can decide what's unwanted advance by men, why can't men decide what's too revealing by women. You can't have it both ways. If a woman is showing cleavage like that, sometimes you can't help but look, and everytime you are risking that she'll report you for looking down her shirt. So why not NIP it in the bud before it escalates. I am sure this guy wouldn't mind an office where all women showed off, and he could stare without worrying about SH accusations, but that's not the world we live in.

Good choice of words.

 

[lucrioual]

what kind of homo doesn't wanna see a girls breasts

 

[PowderBB3D]

Originally posted by: MrScott81
PIC OR BAN

Hahahahahahahaha

 

[dmcowen674]

Originally posted by: Sunner

Originally posted by: waggy

Originally posted by: skace
So wait, if a girl bendsover in front of my desk and I accidently catch a glimpse of her bra, I can get fired? That isn't how _I_ remember ethics training at my work place! And I highly doubt that would happen unless there was something else that went along with the scenario.

yes you can. All she has to do is go complain to HR that you were looking down her shirt. BAM sexual harrasment case and you can get fired and sued.

with corparations getting sued for millions they don't mess around anymore. they would rather get rid of you then get sued.

You guys need to fix your laws, they're severely broken.

You're not a kidding

 

[mdrollas]

Same thing happened to my girl friend when she was working at MVA last summer. Her skirt was just 3-4 inches above the knee.

 

[caddlad]

Same thing happened to my girl friend when she was working at MVA last summer. Her skirt was just 3-4 inches above the knee.

Must have pics NOW

 

[AreaCode707]

I'm wearing your standard to-the-neck t-shirt right now, and if I bent over properly, you could see down it. Have her put on the clothes she was wearing and go talk to HR to have them document that they were not inappropriate.

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: HotChic
I'm wearing your standard to-the-neck t-shirt right now, and if I bent over properly, you could see down it. Have her put on the clothes she was wearing and go talk to HR to have them document that they were not inappropriate.

doesn't matter.

she's already been warned. can't be taken back.

don't screw with HR. The laws (and course of action to take) are pretty clear cut - dude thought it was inappropriate therefore it is in appropriate. She's been warned, so let's hope she heeds it.

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: HotChic
I'm wearing your standard to-the-neck t-shirt right now, and if I bent over properly, you could see down it. Have her put on the clothes she was wearing and go talk to HR to have them document that they were not inappropriate.

doesn't matter.

she's already been warned. can't be taken back.

don't screw with HR. The laws (and course of action to take) are pretty clear cut - dude thought it was inappropriate therefore it is in appropriate. She's been warned, so let's hope she heeds it.

Doesn't matter if it can't be taken back, it might be prudent to have an explanation or a demonstration on file.

 

[Sunner]

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: HotChic
I'm wearing your standard to-the-neck t-shirt right now, and if I bent over properly, you could see down it. Have her put on the clothes she was wearing and go talk to HR to have them document that they were not inappropriate.

doesn't matter.

she's already been warned. can't be taken back.

don't screw with HR. The laws (and course of action to take) are pretty clear cut - dude thought it was inappropriate therefore it is in appropriate. She's been warned, so let's hope she heeds it.

I'm not too familiar with your laws, but is anything anyone considers inappropriate really inappropriate?
If some guys comes into my office wearing jeans, and I think he looks too "relaxed", can I just complain about that, and therefore for all intents and purposes ban jeans from the workplace?

 

[spidey07]

Its very touchy now. Any and all complaints must be taken seriously.

Even the stupid ones.

But its not really the laws as it is HR departments scared out of their mind of getting sued.

 

[Kraeji]

maybe they just don't want to see your sister at all

 

[oldman420]

Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Maybe your sister should file a complaint for sexual harassment...I mean, obviously, if you want to see a bra you'll see it if you're looking. The guy should be smart enough to see when that kind of situation is coming so he could look away...

yup hit the ass with a taste of his own medicine
or he could let her know that it upsets him what a djkck

 

[waggy]

Originally posted by: oldman420

Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Maybe your sister should file a complaint for sexual harassment...I mean, obviously, if you want to see a bra you'll see it if you're looking. The guy should be smart enough to see when that kind of situation is coming so he could look away...

yup hit the ass with a taste of his own medicine
or he could let her know that it upsets him what a djkck

Amazing how many people don't know how the corporate world works.

IF she were to go in and claim SH against the guy it would backfire on her big time. First it would look like she is just retaliating against him and trying to set up a lawsuit.

The best thing she could do is be careful on what she wears and how she bends over.

 

[StormRider]

Originally posted by: HotChic
I'm wearing your standard to-the-neck t-shirt right now, and if I bent over properly, you could see down it. Have her put on the clothes she was wearing and go talk to HR to have them document that they were not inappropriate.

Prove it. I wanna see pics!

 

[spidey07]

Originally posted by: waggy

Originally posted by: oldman420

Originally posted by: bobbybe01
Maybe your sister should file a complaint for sexual harassment...I mean, obviously, if you want to see a bra you'll see it if you're looking. The guy should be smart enough to see when that kind of situation is coming so he could look away...

yup hit the ass with a taste of his own medicine
or he could let her know that it upsets him what a djkck

Amazing how many people don't know how the corporate world works.

IF she were to go in and claim SH against the guy it would backfire on her big time. First it would look like she is just retaliating against him and trying to set up a lawsuit.

The best thing she could do is be careful on what she wears and how she bends over.

heh, thats true. been a corporate boy for 13 years.

gotta know how to play the game.

 

[Glendor]

Jeez! I can't believe I read all the way through four pages of this stuff and didn't even get to see pics of said offender!!!

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: Glendor
Jeez! I can't believe I read all the way through four pages of this stuff and didn't even get to see pics of said offender!!!

I think the faint hope that said pics will surface is all that keeps this thread alive...

 

[backinsac]

If the pics haven't been posted by now, they never will.

 

[biostud]

Originally posted by: DWW
My sister works at an office job. She wears business-like attire for women. Well today she got a memo and complaint filed against her that her shirt was too revealing. It wasn't a plunging v-neck or anything. It just looks like a wider neck shirt but by no means you see any skin when she is standing upright. My sister had to bend over and put something on guy's desk and he filed a complaint that he could see her bra when he looked into it. Well DUH. Unless a woman is wearing a burqa or a turtleneck (sp?) of course you can see her bra if she bends over.

WTF? Who (especially a guy) would complain about that anyways... god people have nothing else better to do. Now she is all upset about it.

The guy's probably sitting at home jacking off to the idea of your sister getting wild with him, while he feel righteous saving the other emplyees from haveing these thoughts after such a dreadfull experience.

 

[Led Zeppelin]

Originally posted by: onza
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