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huberm

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so its been about a month since i broke up with my girlfriend of 6 years. We were getting married in May.

I haven't been on any dates or met any women. I've only gone out with friends once.

Is this normal? I feel like I'm doomed and will be alone for the rest of my life.
 
Originally posted by: huberm
so its been about a month since i broke up with my girlfriend of 6 years. We were getting married in May.

I haven't been on any dates or met any women. I've only gone out with friends once.

Is this normal? I feel like I'm doomed and will be alone for the rest of my life.
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It's been two years of single life for me.....enjoy it man!
 
just a month.
what happened for you to end it?
at least you didnt get married and then decide you didnt want to be with her.
 
Originally posted by: PatboyX
just a month.
what happened for you to end it?
at least you didnt get married and then decide you didnt want to be with her.
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she worked afternoon shift so i never saw her (by the time she got home, I was in bed, and she was in bed when i left for work). She kept going out with friends until 4-5 AM, and would usually sleep in the upstairs bedroom after she did this. She quit wearing her engagement ring.

today an angry housewife called my house and told me she caught her husband fvcking her. I talked to the ex as well, but I'm not sure who to believe anymore. We were trying to work things out.
 
I didn't date for years, and then I dated this b!tch who I actually considered getting married to before I got tired of her sh!t. Then I met my wife. Go figure.
 
Originally posted by: FoBoT
normal

give it some more time

take up a new hobby
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I think from my experience with failed relationships / attempts with girls, the advice about taking a new hobby is the best thing you can follow.

2 weeks ago I had my mind occupied with this girl that works with me (and I had a long thread about it), and after all attempts with her failed, I made my decesion to invest my spare time / money into something that can at least make me happy and can take my mind away from this GF business.

Now I have bought some DJing equipment and working on making my own Trance record (which is something that i have always wanted to do 😀), and let me tell you I couldn't have been any happier.

Take a couple of days off, relax , and think about something you have always wanted to do, maybe buy an old car and tune it up, or build / paint something, whatever floats your boat and makes you occupied and most importantly lets you stop thinking about the lost relationship.
 
Originally posted by: huberm
i feel depressed because i really think she was the one for me
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Same here, I really thought she was the one, and tried my very best to make it work, I was without a GF for 6 years! And then out of the blue I start liking this girl, and it wasn't untill I started using my free time for something that I enjoyed more than just sitting there and thinking about her and about how I wished things worked out, then at that point I was able to get rid of these strong feelings that I had in no time.
 
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: huberm
i feel depressed because i really think she was the one for me
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Same here, I really thought she was the one, and tried my very best to make it work, I was without a GF for 6 years! And then out of the blue I start liking this girl, and it wasn't untill I started using my free time for something that I enjoyed more than just sitting there and thinking about her and about how I wished things worked out, then at that point I was able to get rid of these strong feelings that I had in no time.
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6 Years???? :Q
 
Originally posted by: DainBramaged
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: huberm
i feel depressed because i really think she was the one for me
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Same here, I really thought she was the one, and tried my very best to make it work, I was without a GF for 6 years! And then out of the blue I start liking this girl, and it wasn't untill I started using my free time for something that I enjoyed more than just sitting there and thinking about her and about how I wished things worked out, then at that point I was able to get rid of these strong feelings that I had in no time.
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6 Years???? :Q
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Ya I guess I am very picky about girls, for me it's alway been about one sided attractions, either some girl would tell me that she likes me and wants to be closer to me but I don't like her and don't want to get closer to her OR I go and let some girl know that I like her and want to get closer to her and she doesn't think the same.

Untill lately I had this girl that I used to work with, and I got this impression from her that there is a possibility for something to come out of all of this, and then she gave me the answer that It's not something that she wants.
She broke my heart, and I felt so miserable about it for a while and then I put my sht together and I moved on with all simplicity.

Here, read the thread if you want to entertain yourself a bit, but I got to warn you it's how you say, a bit long 😉
 
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