Sigh... probably shouldn't have done it.

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alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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The problem with going into a person's past is you see what they felt at the time. In most cases, it really wasn't all that bad, they thought they were good looking/fun, and they had more sex than lead onto later.

Whenever I was asked did I love someone or did I like the sex, I would ask them what do they want to hear. Do they want to here that I always hated sex before meeting them? then the answer would be no. Did I ever love someone else? then yes....however I am with them now by choice, not because I have to be. I don't dwell on the past and don't think about exes.

It's usually a road you don't want to go down because you will not find the answers you hope for.

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Yeeny

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Feb 2, 2000
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Originally posted by: The_good_guy
lady... you need to go get a life and grow up.... and stop being insecure... cause your a freaking insecure person..
and then go build your confidence.. and stop getting upset if the ex was lesser in weight.. if that matters so much to you, go on a diet or i will see you at jenny craigs.

Frankly I dont understand why ex's & gf's come here to check up on their bf.. like we guys do it to our gf's.. more over why come here and rant about it in public.. do the talking in private.

I will admit, I had my gf come here, but she had a reason. She knew of this place for months and frankly i know she will find this post and get a bit upset (maybe) but then she knows my reasons. Anycase she enjoys my stuff now, she comes to ATOT, and she reads it. Though she does not understand why i spend "hours" in a week here, but i guess that she will never find out.

If your in a honest relationship with someone, tell them where you are hanging out at online. Maybe have them join, the ones that are "open and true" make the best.

Uhh, didn't you make a thread whining about how you hurt your gf with your past posts? I seem to recall that...

 

brigden

Diamond Member
Dec 22, 2002
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Originally posted by: Ninjja
Originally posted by: The_good_guy
lady... you need to go get a life and grow up.... and stop being insecure... cause your a freaking insecure person..
and then go build your confidence.. and stop getting upset if the ex was lesser in weight.. if that matters so much to you, go on a diet or i will see you at jenny craigs.

Frankly I dont understand why ex's & gf's come here to check up on their bf.. like we guys do it to our gf's.. more over why come here and rant about it in public.. do the talking in private.

I will admit, I had my gf come here, but she had a reason. She knew of this place for months and frankly i know she will find this post and get a bit upset (maybe) but then she knows my reasons. Anycase she enjoys my stuff now, she comes to ATOT, and she reads it. Though she does not understand why i spend "hours" in a week here, but i guess that she will never find out.

If your in a honest relationship with someone, tell them where you are hanging out at online. Maybe have them join, the ones that are "open and true" make the best.

wow.

BWAHAHAHA! Even a n00b thinks TGG is a moron.