*sigh* How do I talk to this girl in my class?

[RoninRXN]

HOLY #%*^#! No one asked for pics!!?

You guys have proved my "Death, taxes and AT asking for pics" theory wrong for once.

 

[fr]

<< On a more serious note, try something like "I know this is out of the blue, but I saw you from across the room and thought you were cute. My name is (insert name). (begin small talk or ask her out depending on what you're more comfortable with)" >>




I think that might make her uncomfortable. I don't know anyone who would go up to someone and say that.

 

[pillage2001]

No XBOX. No XBOX!!!!! NO XBOX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[RaynorWolfcastle]

AntNYC's idea sounds good, I second it. It seems like it would work, but then again I'm a guy so what do I know?

-Ice

 

[Ralphing]

<< There's this *really* fine girl in my precalc class (damn maybe that's why I don't understand anything!) but she doesn't know me and I don't know how to talk to her. She's a senior (i'm a junior) so I don't even think she knows my name... And she sits across the room so it's not like I can turn around and ask her a math question or something. What to do (other than quit being a shy pansy ass)? >>



*chuckle* I was a shy pansy ass in highschool too. Now that I'm 27, I'll tell you that shyness get's you nowhere. Talk to her bro. Doesn't really matter what you say. Maybe you'll find out she's a raging b!tch, but at least you'll know. It's worth the risk, and believe me when I say that when your out of high school you'll be wondering "what if?" if you don't talk to her.

 

[HaVoC]

<< if after this short introspection you still feel that the rewards outweigh the risks, which from what i gather you definetly do feel, then before or after class just walk up to her and introduce yourself and tell her that you find her really interesting and would she mind if the two of you could become friends? (as a safe harmless way of gradually entering into a relationship, rather than the "in-your-face-take-me-or-leave-me-approach") >>

The danger here is that being a shy guy, he will could become friends with her and never really give off the signals that he wanted more than that. Of course he does, but she will later crush his heart when she starts dating some other tool because all she wanted to be was "just friends"

Don't we all hate that?