Should I turn in my roommate?

My roommate and I generally get along really well. I'm cool with pretty much everything he does, except one thing:

Tonight I opened the freezer compartment on our mini-fridge and saw five bags of weed; two of them were simply humongous. I turned around and asked him what was up with it, and he told me he had some friends coming into town tonight and that he was going to sell it to them. Makes me a little uneasy but I decided to just chill for awhile and see what happens.

Flash forward to his friends getting here. The first thing they do is pull out a couple electronic scales and start weighing the stuff. There are at least two full ounces of weed being sold here, and I know there's more in the freezer. My roommate collects $600 from his friends and they vacuumed the room and sprayed cologne to disguise the smell.

I truthfully wouldn't care if we were in an off-campus house, but we're in the dorms (in a substance-free hall) and the school's police department comes around once a week with a canine unit (trust me on this - I saw them doing a sweep on Tuesday morning).

Added to that, I am an employee at my school's Department of Public Safety. If I'm in the room with my roommate and he gets caught, I'm fired...period. No second chances. I know that if I report him, I'll get 'immunity,' as it were, and I won't have to worry about my job.

I'm not sure if it's worth getting my roommate in REAL trouble (Ann Arbor's posession law is a joke, but he would get charged with Intent to Distribute, which is quite a big deal). Should I report him, or should I risk getting myself kicked out of university housing?

EDIT: I'm going up to the dorm security office...I'll keep you all updated. Thanks for the support, and lay off nik...he's doing the right thing.

EDIT 2: I went down to the station...good news. I talked to a detective and he told me that since they didn't actually see it they can't do anything, but that I should let them know if it happens again. But, he also told me that I'm cleared of any responsibility for my roommate's actions tonight or in the near future. I NEVER wanted to get my roommate in trouble - I wanted to clear myself of the infraction. Mission accomplished.
 

aic

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Yow.

This is a no win situation.

If you can get out now.

They will pull you down and put the blame on you.
 

ATLien247

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I would tell him, straight up, that drugs are not allowed in your dwelling. If he's a decent guy, he'll respect that.

If not, I would turn him in...
 

NikPreviousAcct

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I would take pictures, take the bags while wearing gloves and put them away for safe keeping until I can get to the authorities (at my soonest convenience), and turn in anyone involved.

He's had multiple chances to comply.

1) the law making it illegal
2) the agreement you signed when you moved in is virtually guaranteed to mension illegal substances

He obviously doesn't care about laws or rules; why would he care if you didn't want it in there?

Turn him in.

nik
 

luv2chill

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I would talk to him first. Tell him you don't feel comfortable with him doing that stuff in your room because if he were to get caught you would be in trouble too. If he gets defensive threaten that you will turn him in if he doesn't keep it out of the room--only resort to this if he refuses to go along.

Turning him in without giving him any opportunity to change his behavior is perfectly within your rights, but unless there's a significant chance you will get implicated in this past incident then I would give him a chance.

Just what I would do.

l2c
 

ndee

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Tell him he has the choice: Either he puts this weed in his car or somewhere where YOU can't held responsible(flush it thru the toilet, etc.) OR you will turn him in.
 

ndee

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Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
I would take pictures, take the bags while wearing gloves and put them away for safe keeping until I can get to the authorities (at my soonest convenience), and turn in anyone involved.

He's had multiple chances to comply.

1) the law making it illegal
2) the agreement you signed when you moved in is virtually guaranteed to mension illegal substances

He obviously doesn't care about laws or rules; why would he care if you didn't want it in there?

Turn him in.

nik

You are one bitter person...

 

HappyPuppy

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You mean to tell me that in trade for putting your freedom and safety in jeopardy the SOB of a roommate didn't even offer you a stash or some money? He has implicated you in the sales of illegal drugs and he's a complete asshole. Turn the inconsiderate c..csucker in to the police. Not campus police, I mean the real police.
 

Tominator

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Originally posted by: ATLien247
I would tell him, straight up, that drugs are not allowed in your dwelling. If he's a decent guy, he'll respect that.

If not, I would turn him in...

He is not a 'decent guy' and if he gets caught you will go down with him!

I would arrange other quarters and THEN explain to the authorities why....but only if you can move tomorrow!

He has ZERO respect for you, why even ask the question?

 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: luv2chill
I would talk to him first. Tell him you don't feel comfortable with him doing that stuff in your room because if he were to get caught you would be in trouble too. If he gets defensive threaten that you will turn him in if he doesn't keep it out of the room--only resort to this if he refuses to go along.

Turning him in without giving him any opportunity to change his behavior is perfectly within your rights, but unless there's a significant chance you will get implicated in this past incident then I would give him a chance.

Just what I would do.

l2c

If he's got that much, he's probably dealing more often than just them that one time as well as smoking it. Have them both take piss tests. Pot stays in your system about a month, so if the other guy's smoking it and JuMpR629 isn't, then he's got nothing to worry about.

nik
 

tweakmm

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Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
If he's got that much, he's probably dealing more often than just them that one time as well as smoking it. Have them both take piss tests.

it's possible that he got a good deal and was hooking some friends up.

Tell him that you don't want the stuff in your room and aks him if he will do anything like that again
BTW, do you smoke? Do you keep stuff in your room?
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: ndee
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
I would take pictures, take the bags while wearing gloves and put them away for safe keeping until I can get to the authorities (at my soonest convenience), and turn in anyone involved.

He's had multiple chances to comply.

1) the law making it illegal
2) the agreement you signed when you moved in is virtually guaranteed to mension illegal substances

He obviously doesn't care about laws or rules; why would he care if you didn't want it in there?

Turn him in.

nik

You are one bitter person...

Nope. Just hate druggies.

nik
 

tweakmm

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Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Originally posted by: ndee
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
I would take pictures, take the bags while wearing gloves and put them away for safe keeping until I can get to the authorities (at my soonest convenience), and turn in anyone involved.

He's had multiple chances to comply.

1) the law making it illegal
2) the agreement you signed when you moved in is virtually guaranteed to mension illegal substances

He obviously doesn't care about laws or rules; why would he care if you didn't want it in there?

Turn him in.

nik

You are one bitter person...

Nope. Just hate druggies.
Because of the great injustices "druggies" have done to you
rolleye.gif
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: tweakmm
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
If he's got that much, he's probably dealing more often than just them that one time as well as smoking it. Have them both take piss tests.

it's possible that he got a good deal and was hooking some friends up.

Tell him that you don't want the stuff in your room and aks him if he will do anything like that again
BTW, do you smoke? Do you keep stuff in your room?

If he's asking what to do because his roomie has sh|tloads of pot, he OBVIOUSLY doesn't smoke it.

nik
 

ndee

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Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Originally posted by: ndee
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
I would take pictures, take the bags while wearing gloves and put them away for safe keeping until I can get to the authorities (at my soonest convenience), and turn in anyone involved.

He's had multiple chances to comply.

1) the law making it illegal
2) the agreement you signed when you moved in is virtually guaranteed to mension illegal substances

He obviously doesn't care about laws or rules; why would he care if you didn't want it in there?

Turn him in.

nik

You are one bitter person...

Nope. Just hate druggies.

nik

Of course, it really depens on what kind of guy the other is. But if it's just a hippie or somewhat, he doesn't hurt ya. IMO, druggies != pot smoking. There was a study in Europe, that proofed that a lot of top manager smoke some time a joint just to relax and stuff, not such a biggie.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: tweakmm
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Originally posted by: ndee
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
I would take pictures, take the bags while wearing gloves and put them away for safe keeping until I can get to the authorities (at my soonest convenience), and turn in anyone involved.

He's had multiple chances to comply.

1) the law making it illegal
2) the agreement you signed when you moved in is virtually guaranteed to mension illegal substances

He obviously doesn't care about laws or rules; why would he care if you didn't want it in there?

Turn him in.

nik

You are one bitter person...

Nope. Just hate druggies.
Because of the great injustices "druggies" have done to you
rolleye.gif

I hate murderers. I've never been murdered. I hate rapists. I've never been raped. I hate identity thieves. I've never had my identity stolen. I hate hackers. I've never been hacked. I hate molesters. I've never been molested. I hate thieves. I've never been robbed.

Should I go on?

nik
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Aug 15, 2000
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Originally posted by: ndee
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Originally posted by: ndee
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
I would take pictures, take the bags while wearing gloves and put them away for safe keeping until I can get to the authorities (at my soonest convenience), and turn in anyone involved.

He's had multiple chances to comply.

1) the law making it illegal
2) the agreement you signed when you moved in is virtually guaranteed to mension illegal substances

He obviously doesn't care about laws or rules; why would he care if you didn't want it in there?

Turn him in.

nik

You are one bitter person...

Nope. Just hate druggies.

nik

Of course, it really depens on what kind of guy the other is. But if it's just a hippie or somewhat, he doesn't hurt ya. IMO, druggies != pot smoking. There was a study in Europe, that proofed that a lot of top manager smoke some time a joint just to relax and stuff, not such a biggie.

And that makes EVERYTHING okay, right? Cuz Europe allows pot smoking?

nik
 

tweakmm

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Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Originally posted by: tweakmm
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Originally posted by: ndee
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
I would take pictures, take the bags while wearing gloves and put them away for safe keeping until I can get to the authorities (at my soonest convenience), and turn in anyone involved.

He's had multiple chances to comply.

1) the law making it illegal
2) the agreement you signed when you moved in is virtually guaranteed to mension illegal substances

He obviously doesn't care about laws or rules; why would he care if you didn't want it in there?

Turn him in.

nik

You are one bitter person...

Nope. Just hate druggies.
Because of the great injustices "druggies" have done to you
rolleye.gif

I hate murderers. I've never been murdered. I hate rapists. I've never been raped. I hate identity thieves. I've never had my identity stolen. I hate hackers. I've never been hacked. I hate molesters. I've never been molested. I hate thieves. I've never been robbed.
hmmm...
and people who smoke pot are related to murders and rapists how?

 

MajesticMoose

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Turn his ass in, no questions in. I'd look at it is just another (damn good) reason to procrastinate since you have to wait for the cops to get there. Too bad my roomate only does poptarts. With that stash, he'd be in for life if they were illegal
 

ndee

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Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Originally posted by: ndee
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Originally posted by: ndee
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
I would take pictures, take the bags while wearing gloves and put them away for safe keeping until I can get to the authorities (at my soonest convenience), and turn in anyone involved.

He's had multiple chances to comply.

1) the law making it illegal
2) the agreement you signed when you moved in is virtually guaranteed to mension illegal substances

He obviously doesn't care about laws or rules; why would he care if you didn't want it in there?

Turn him in.

nik

You are one bitter person...

Nope. Just hate druggies.

nik

Of course, it really depens on what kind of guy the other is. But if it's just a hippie or somewhat, he doesn't hurt ya. IMO, druggies != pot smoking. There was a study in Europe, that proofed that a lot of top manager smoke some time a joint just to relax and stuff, not such a biggie.

And that makes EVERYTHING okay, right? Cuz Europe allows pot smoking?

nik

No, I'm just telling you that if you smoke pot, you're not a drug addict or something.
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: tweakmm
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Originally posted by: tweakmm
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Originally posted by: ndee
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
I would take pictures, take the bags while wearing gloves and put them away for safe keeping until I can get to the authorities (at my soonest convenience), and turn in anyone involved.

He's had multiple chances to comply.

1) the law making it illegal
2) the agreement you signed when you moved in is virtually guaranteed to mension illegal substances

He obviously doesn't care about laws or rules; why would he care if you didn't want it in there?

Turn him in.

nik

You are one bitter person...

Nope. Just hate druggies.
Because of the great injustices "druggies" have done to you
rolleye.gif

I hate murderers. I've never been murdered. I hate rapists. I've never been raped. I hate identity thieves. I've never had my identity stolen. I hate hackers. I've never been hacked. I hate molesters. I've never been molested. I hate thieves. I've never been robbed.
hmmm...
and people who smoke pot are related to murders and rapists how?

Maybe I should have qualified the fact that I severely dislike anyone who blatantly breaks the law to a degree larger than a few miles over the speed limit or something trivial.

nik
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Aug 15, 2000
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Originally posted by: ndee
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Originally posted by: ndee
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
Originally posted by: ndee
Originally posted by: ffmcobalt
I would take pictures, take the bags while wearing gloves and put them away for safe keeping until I can get to the authorities (at my soonest convenience), and turn in anyone involved.

He's had multiple chances to comply.

1) the law making it illegal
2) the agreement you signed when you moved in is virtually guaranteed to mension illegal substances

He obviously doesn't care about laws or rules; why would he care if you didn't want it in there?

Turn him in.

nik

You are one bitter person...

Nope. Just hate druggies.

nik

Of course, it really depens on what kind of guy the other is. But if it's just a hippie or somewhat, he doesn't hurt ya. IMO, druggies != pot smoking. There was a study in Europe, that proofed that a lot of top manager smoke some time a joint just to relax and stuff, not such a biggie.

And that makes EVERYTHING okay, right? Cuz Europe allows pot smoking?

nik

No, I'm just telling you that if you smoke pot, you're not a drug addict or something.

Let me guess... you're not a "drug addict" either, right?

nik