Should I, or should I not

[Deeko]

I'll keep this short.

Whats her name wants me back.

Calls me every 2 or 3 days.

Says "being with other guys makes her realize how great I am"

I'm not exactly having trouble with girls at school, but haven't really 'clicked' with anyone like I did with her.

My hometown sucks so being with her would at least make summer vacation tolerable.

Hmm....

Aieeee nooooo!!!

Not again,not here,Anand can't afford
to keep us drunk enough to moderate
yet another Deeko YAGT.

AnandTech Moderator

 

[UDT89]

when did you break up?

 

[Deeko]

November

 

[UDT89]

who broke it off with who

 

[conjur]

Women are evil.

 

[Deeko]

She broke up with me. On AIM. 3 days before I was coming home after not seeing her for 3 weeks. 1 week before our 1 year anniversary. She did it because a) she thinks we are too young for how serious we were, she's too young to feel 'married' b) the distance was too much for her c) she thought she was doing me a favor because she was my first girlfriend.

 

[Schadenfreude]

Don't and rub it into her how great you are

 

[rpc64]

You just have to consider whether you would truly be happy with her. I don't know why you broke up, but there must have been a reason it wasn't working before.

 

[Feldenak]

Just keep it at casual sex, no sense rushing back into anything.

 

[rgwalt]

It depends on how much you miss the tang... Seriously though, I would be hesitant to go back.

Best of luck either way.

Ryan

 

[UDT89]

do you think she's changed since november??? Its not even a year. Will the distance thing still be a factor? And for how much longer?
I think she did the AIM thing, b/c she had something she wanted to act on, and needed a quick break up. Now thats over, and she wants you back. But thats just a theory.


Smells fishy.


Since i broke up with my ex its different. I just ask myself, "why did you break up with her in the first place?". And i remember all the dumb ish she did. And i doubt shes changed even after 2 years.

 

[amnesiac]

Personally I would never "get back" with someone. Once you break up that is a permanent scar in the relationship and just paves the way for future instability. My g/f and I have had some MAJOR fights but we were both tough enough to stick it through and are better because of it.

 

[yobarman]

don't be a bitch. you know she's trouble. She realized what she lost, that's her fault not yours. You realized what you've gained by losing her. So why deal with it?

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: UDT89
do you think she's changed since november??? Its not even a year. Will the distance thing still be a factor? And for how much longer?
I think she did the AIM thing, b/c she had something she wanted to act on, and needed a quick break up. Now thats over, and she wants you back. But thats just a theory.


Smells fishy.


Since i broke up with my ex its different. I just ask myself, "why did you break up with her in the first place?". And i remember all the dumb ish she did. And i doubt shes changed even after 2 years.

2 reasons why she did it on AIM.
1) She's a pussy and knew she couldn't do it in person
2) She was going to a formal dance thing w/ her sister that Friday(day I was coming home), wanted to ask out a guy that night and was worred she wouldn't see me beforehand(a theory of mine, not fact, cuz I was told she got shot down that night)
Distance is a factor till June when I come home for the summer, although we wouldn't get back together officially till then anyway, cuz we are both extremely busy right now. Next year she goes to college, not same as mine, but the distance is cut from 50 miles down to 20. She went to a different high school than me and lived 7 miles away at home.

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: yobarman
don't be a bitch. you know she's trouble. She realized what she lost, that's her fault not yours. You realized what you've gained by losing her. So why deal with it?

Past 5 months - fun, college life is great, but kinda 'empty'
11 months before that - best of my life

She has done alot of sh!t in the past 5 months, which I can't forget, but how can I forget the 11 months before that?

 

[her209]

Don't do it!

 

[DannyLove]

......

 

[Soybomb]

"being with other guys makes her realize how great I am"

That would get a hearty go to hell from me. You're young, you'll meet someone else that you'll click with better. Unless of course by making summer vacation tolerable you mean putting us through the same crap you were posting about when she left you the first time, because she'll do it again.

 

[KGB1]

Bang her... tell her straight up... b!tch... I don't care what you did in the past... it still hurts... while I'm here for 2 months, at least have the decency to lower your panties. Seriously... bang her like she's never had, no emotions, feelings, regret, do it... enjoy it, MOVE ON and when you return next summer... REPEAT. Don't fall into the trap man, it'll bring sorrow. If she wants you that badly she'll do it... and you use her for it

(unless in the time since november she's been suckin other guys... fusking them too.. I'd be vary about getting STD's. Get her checked out... use a condom... 2 if you must... and when not banging her find a new gal )


hmmm... how long can I hold off 'til 1K posts... hmm I wonder.... maybe I need a vacation

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: Soybomb
"being with other guys makes her realize how great I am"

That would get a hearty go to hell from me. You're young, you'll meet someone else that you'll click with better. Unless of course by making summer vacation tolerable you mean putting us through the same crap you were posting about when she left you the first time, because she'll do it again.

I can't post from home, AOL

For those of you who may be wondering....yes, this is the infamous girl from the 400 post thread in November, and the many threads I've had about her before.

 

[her209]

"Could you be my baby's daddy?"

 

[AUMM]

ide say no way, ure just setting ureself up for all that crap all over again

 

[Deeko]

Originally posted by: KGB
Bang her... tell her straight up... b!tch... I don't care what you did in the past... it still hurts... while I'm here for 2 months, at least have the decency to lower your panties. Seriously... bang her like she's never had, no emotions, feelings, regret, do it... enjoy it, MOVE ON and when you return next summer... REPEAT. Don't fall into the trap man, it'll bring sorrow. If she wants you that badly she'll do it... and you use her for it

(unless in the time since november she's been suckin other guys... fusking them too.. I'd be vary about getting STD's. Get her checked out... use a condom... 2 if you must... and when not banging her find a new gal )


hmmm... how long can I hold off 'til 1K posts... hmm I wonder.... maybe I need a vacation

haha....well....this will be my last summer in Reading She's been with 2 guys since we broke up(that I know of)...brings her total up to 6(that I know of).....yes and she is 17

 

[Atlantean]

You should.

 

[Reel]

Make her "prove" her feelings for you. Play off that you don't know if she is sincere and you want her to show you not tell you.