Should I go to a huge party thrown by a person I hardly know? *dope!*

[slackerinabox]

Well, I've been talking to this girl on and off (mostly off) for the past few months via friendster... Good kid but I honeslty don't know her very well.. She invited me to a huge get together at her place (90+ people) and I'm wondering if I should go... a) I'd have to bring a guest - I had arguments with my best friend and got dumped by my gf so I don't know many people presentable enough to bring to a party (I could bring Andreea,a friend I'm getting closer to, but that would be odd)... and b) I don't do well at parties...

I'm also afraid that it may be a pitty invite since the girl asked me how my gf was so I spilled the beans on our now defunct relationship.. I hate pitty invites and would feel pathetic if i went based on one.. i know i'm over analyzing things.. that's what I do- i think too much...

so what do you guys think?

*update*
so i invited a friend of mine to go with me.. she said that she doesn't like to go to big parties but invited me to go see 'spartan' with her that night instead... so i'm conflicted.. andreea's cute but so is the girl who's party i'm invited to... and, also, i'd meet other people at the party.. but hanging out with andreea and getting to know her a bit more would be good too.. ahhhh!

*dope!*
andreea's coming with me to the party and to see the movie right before it.. someone, gimme a beer

 

[boyRacer]

Go. Stop thinking.

 

[Crusty]

a) Goto party
b) Ask where the shots are
c) Take as many shots as you can in 5 minutes
d) Take off your clothes
e) Run around wildly

 

[gopunk]

Originally posted by: bR
Go. Stop thinking.

 

[hevnsnt]

jesus. Are you serious?

 

[tweakmm]

Is this really a question?

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: bR
Go. Stop thinking.

even if it's a pitty invite? wouldn't that make me pathetic?

 

[Shortcut]

Originally posted by: MCrusty
a) Goto party
b) Ask where the shots are
c) Take as many shots as you can in 5 minutes
d) Take off your clothes
e) Run around wildly

"frank the tank! frank the tank!"

Seriously though: go to the party and have fun!

 

[Justin218]

no it wouldn't

 

[boyRacer]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212

Originally posted by: bR
Go. Stop thinking.

even if it's a pitty invite? wouldn't that make me pathetic?

Stop thinking. You'll look even more pathetic for not going since she'll think you're so hung up over your gf.

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: tweakmm
Is this really a question?

yes! here's part of my dilema.. i don't have anyone to bring but my friend andreea.. now we're strictly friends but I have a thing for her.. i also have a thing for this girl who's party i'm going to (much more so for andreea) .. so that's part of my problem.. i have drinking buddies i wouldn't dare bring them along to a party with free drinks..

 

[Bootprint]

You need to start practicing your schmoozing for your film career, so you might as well start there.

 

[aolj]

Originally posted by: MCrusty
a) Goto party
b) Ask where the shots are
c) Take as many shots as you can in 5 minutes
d) Take off your clothes
e) Run around wildly

 

[hevnsnt]

so go yourself.. sheesh.

 

[Siddhartha]

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Well, I've been talking to this girl on and off (mostly off) for the past few months via friendster... Good kid but I honeslty don't know her very well.. She invited me to a huge get together at her place (90+ people) and I'm wondering if I should go... a) I'd have to bring a guest - I had arguments with my best friend and got dumped by my gf so I don't know many people presentable enough to bring to a party (I could bring Andreea,a friend I'm getting closer to, but that would be odd)... and b) I don't do well at parties...

I'm also afraid that it may be a pitty invite since the girl asked me how my gf was so I spilled the beans on our now defunct relationship.. I hate pitty invites and would feel pathetic if i went based on one.. i know i'm over analyzing things.. that's what I do- i think too much...

so what do you guys think?

Go to the party and make sure you talk to people you do not know about topics besides computers and computer related subjects.

 

[bmacd]

dude...you don't have a gf...go get some ass while you're young. You'll regret this stuff when you're older. Trust me.

-=bmacd=-

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: Dr Smooth

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Well, I've been talking to this girl on and off (mostly off) for the past few months via friendster... Good kid but I honeslty don't know her very well.. She invited me to a huge get together at her place (90+ people) and I'm wondering if I should go... a) I'd have to bring a guest - I had arguments with my best friend and got dumped by my gf so I don't know many people presentable enough to bring to a party (I could bring Andreea,a friend I'm getting closer to, but that would be odd)... and b) I don't do well at parties...

I'm also afraid that it may be a pitty invite since the girl asked me how my gf was so I spilled the beans on our now defunct relationship.. I hate pitty invites and would feel pathetic if i went based on one.. i know i'm over analyzing things.. that's what I do- i think too much...

so what do you guys think?

Go to the party and make sure you talk to people you do not know about topics besides computers and computer related subjects.

Easy for dr. smooth but not for me!

 

[amdskip]

Go, it sounds like everyone is getting drunk on campus tonight.

 

[notfred]

Just go, you'll meet new people.

 

[theNEOone]

i usually read these stupid ass pathetic posts and realize that they aren't worth a reply, but i'm gonna go ahead and waste 30 seconds.

if you had to start a thread like this, i think the obvious answer is that you should not go to the party. now, if you want to regain what little sense of a social life you have remaining, get drunk off your ass and go have a good time.


=|

 

[bmacd]

if you've got a small twinkie, keep your pants up. Otherwise, play it off like you were drunk and get as much action as you can.

-=bmacd=-

 

[falconx80]

GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MAN


HAVE A GOOD TIME!!!!!!!!!

IF U DONT KNOW ANYONE JUST START DRINKING ALOT

AND YOU WILL START TO MEET PEOPLE

DO IT PLEASE!!!!!!!!!

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: theNEOone
i usually read these stupid ass pathetic posts and realize that they aren't worth a reply, but i'm gonna go ahead and waste 30 seconds.

if you had to start a thread like this, i think the obvious answer is that you should not go to the party. now, if you want to regain what little sense of a social life you have remaining, get drunk off your ass and go have a good time.


=|

Hey man,
I understand where you're coming from... The last time I went to a big-ass party I ended up clinging to the person I came with, talking about our highschool years and such... It was pathetic - i didn't mingle at all and it was not even by choice.. With so many people it's oddly harder to make connections... so I just get anxious about invites like this, especially from strangers (no matter how cute that stranger may be)... What if i make an ass out of myself? it's not like a friend i've had for years who'll forgive me.. i just feel that the stakes are high.. i dunno, i'm thinking too much.. i know...

 

[murphy55d]

No, I think you'd be much better served by sitting here and posting about your ex-girlfriend or UT2k4 or something.

 

[slackerinabox]

Originally posted by: murphy55d
No, I think you'd be much better served by sitting here and posting about your ex-girlfriend or UT2k4 or something.

i don't play video games (ok, super smash brothers is cool) and I'm over my ex so, yeah.. hmm..