Should I Get Back with My Ex?

[bluestrobe]

I would run away and not look back. You might love her still but it seems when her situation hit the rocks, she came calling for you. That's not true love, that?s necessity which is NOT a reason to get back. Raising a kid from a one night stand isn't something I would want to do either. Explaining to the kid when they get old enough that they aren't your kid and are the result of some random male filling mom's need for instant sex. This might be funny to some but devastating to any kid, even in today's society. Being with three guys who knows what STD's she's carrying. Who knows if it's been limited to three guys? A woman having a one night stand isn't the same woman who only has seen three guys in an 18 month period. Love is strong but run and forget her. She's a lost cause.

If I decided to separate from my wife and she came back with an unknown health status, unstable future, and a random generated kid, I would avoid the situation.

 

[Doboji]

Originally posted by: hjo3
Good God, no. Run and never look back.

Run fast... in fact maybe get a very fast motorcycle... no better yet a fighter jet... and get far far far away... RUN!!!!

 

[Ferocious]

Absolutely do NOT consider going back with her until you have had at least several other woman under your belt. I don't mean just sex, but a relationship for awhile. Actively date for perhaps a year.

Make sure you want to be with HER. Don't go back with her because it would be so easy and convenient and you haven't had any luck with other women yet.

I KNOW someone who did nearly the exact same thing you are contemplating. It was sad and they divorced after a couple of miserable years.

 

[Don66]

Originally posted by: hjo3
Good God, no. Run and never look back.

 

[ta8689]

Originally posted by: Stumps

Originally posted by: Aztech

Originally posted by: PowerEngineer

wow...

I think it'd be best for you to put her (and her child) behind you. File for a divorce. Time to move on.

Sorry

We are divorced.

then you are FREE....off you go little one, be free and wild

hahahahahahahaha that made me laugh Thats quoteworthy

 

[Praxis1452]

What do you care about more? Her kid from a one night stand or yourself...

p.s. always pick yourself. Cause you can't care for someone who doesn't want you.

 

[RaistlinZ]

If she said she's been with 3 guys that means she's really been with 9. Remember the "Rule of 3"?

Don't even talk to this woman ever again. Don't go to see her, don't email her, hell.... change your phone number if you have to.

 

[DARQ MX]

Watch out man, She may reveal to you that your the daddy.