Should I apologize?

[DDCSpeed]

Recently, I havent talked to my friend (ex-girlfriend) for about 2 weeks and I just found out that she blocked me on aim for the time being. I accidently saw her on with my other screenname that she forgot(?) to block. I told her that you forgot to block my other screename and I dont really want to be your friend if you are like that and I signed off aim. She emailed me saying that I was being a Dick to her the last time I talked to her. The last time I remember I talked to her, I was asking her what she want for her birthday present. I was like WTF? but then it could have been someone who used my computer messing around with her. I wrote an email back to her explaining my situation that I have not talked to her for 2 and I could not possibly been that "dick" to her. Is she lying to me because she got caught or is she telling the truth? Should I apologize to her if she was telling the truth?

 

[pulse8]

Don't apologize and don't play those kinds of games with your ex. I used to and it won't get you anywhere. Drop her and move one.

My $.02

 

[DDCSpeed]

I just want to purely stay as friends. No more dating with her in the near future.

 

[pulse8]

<< I just want to purely stay as friends. No more dating with her in the near future. >>



Nearly impossible. Think to yourself. Is it REALLY worth it? Do you TRULY need her as a friend? Most times it's not really needed and only causes problems. These little things will come up and they really shouldn't. Espcecially if you're truly friends, which you will never be able to be.

 

[DDCSpeed]

Seriously, I have given at least over 50 thoughts about what you just said and I have come to being friends with her because she specifically asked. Because she used to be easy to talk to before, I thougt we would go back to the old times but no luck of late.

 

[MustangSVT]

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<< I just want to purely stay as friends. No more dating with her in the near future. >>



Nearly impossible. Think to yourself. Is it REALLY worth it? Do you TRULY need her as a friend? Most times it's not really needed and only causes problems. These little things will come up and they really shouldn't. Espcecially if you're truly friends, which you will never be able to be. >>



obviously you are giving thought into this so you are thinking about her (as a friend). from my experience friendships are not all about nice things, often best friends have most difficult times. anyways it would be a different case if you can choose who you want to be your friend and who not to be ur friend and expect them to feel same about you, but most ppl dont have that option. i believe friendship is something you work through.

to make it short, go ahead and apologize(even if u didnt do anything wrong), most likely she will do the same, then go ahead and talk to her about it. hope everything works out and you guys become good friends.

just my 2Cents.

 

[StageLeft]

Forget about her totally. Just not worth your time.

I thougt we would go back to the old times but no luck of late. = impossible.

 

[DDCSpeed]

Thanx MustangSVT

I think you are right about just go ahead and apologize after all it doesnt hurt. But could she be lying to me in the beginning because she didnt want to be friends at all?

 

<< I thougt we would go back to the old times but no luck of late. >>


lol

What we call that here in reality, is called .... OVER!

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Don't appologize for something you didn't do. Make a point.

Nik

 

[yoda291]

For all you know, asking what she wanted for her birthday seemed D|ckish to her. "It's like, come on, shouldn't you just know"...I don't understand women. I don't know anyone who does. Not even women seem to understand women.

 

[DDCSpeed]

what i meant going back to old time, I meant that we would talk to each other as a friend. not getting back together.

 

[NakaNaka]

you shouldnt even want her as a friend if she is like that

Drop her.

 

[KBrinks]

DROP DA B!TCH MAN...

i delete my ex off my aim list.. she's gone f em

(sorry, i just hate ex girlfriends heh)

 

[TheOverlord]

you can never go back to like it was "Before"


maybe once in a millions times a couple will be able to resume a friendship like it was before, but 99.999% of the time it just never happens